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Dave Healey
June 16, 2019
Remembering Alan with great fondness.
Brenda Kiontke Hurlbut
July 1, 2013
To the Grieve Family, very sorry for your loss; thoughts & prayers are with you all.
Bob Naprava
June 30, 2013
Very sorry for your loss
Mary-Jane (Ryba) Sackett
June 30, 2013
Sorry for the loss of your father, Tommy. May he always make beautiful music in Heaven.
Clark Nicholls
June 30, 2013
So sorry Alan is now gone. I hope he's playing horn to my dad's trombone, just like the old days.
Charlotte McCarthy
June 29, 2013
Dear Polly and Family, A more gentle man I have never known. My prayers are with you as you grieve his loss. How good was God to let you have him for 71 loving years. I too experienced the loss of my hubby this year. I know Kenny will meet him and show him around heaven as he too was fond of your Alan. Warmly, Charlotte McCarthy
Trin and Peter
June 27, 2013
Dear Cande and your family,
Our honest sympathy for your terrible loss. Our heart is with you. Peace
Deborah Bessette
June 26, 2013
Cande, I was so sorry to read about the passing of your dad. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Debbie (Polidoro) Bessette.
June 26, 2013
Sorry to hear of the death of your father, Tom. I will remember him and your family in prayers.
Pat Bonavitacola
Lynn Katz Danzig
June 26, 2013
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Dear Grieve Family,
My condolences to you. Cherish those many years of memories.
Laurie - I graduated with you from Pittsfield High. I would love to hear from you.
Be well.
Susan Moore(Nesbit)
June 26, 2013
To the Grieve Family - I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your dad and husband. I have so many memories of growing up in Pittsfield and the friendship of our families. Please accept my condolences.
Kacy Westwood
June 25, 2013
I didn't know Alan well, but enjoyed the times we visited in various libraries. His books of Berkshire Bands were delightful, and I even found an ancestor in one of hte pictures!
I especially send my caring to Cande, who I knew many years ago.
June 25, 2013
Mrs. Grieve, Tom and Kathy.....on behalf of the Frank A. Blowe family, please except our sincere condolences. Mr. Grieve is playing music for our parents right now.
Cathy Blowe Hayes, Kissimmee, FL
Diane Surowiec Pero
June 25, 2013
To Polly and the Grieve Family,
My mom, Marge Carroll, had wonderful memories of the times she and my father, Steve Surowiec, spent with you and Alan in their earlier years. He was a true gentleman and a terrific musician. We so enjoyed his books!
My thoughts are with you in your time of loss.
Lynn Katz Danzig
June 25, 2013
Dear Grieve Family,
My condolences to you. Cherish those many years of memories.
Laurie - I graduated with you from Pittsfield High. I would love to hear from you.
Be well and hang in there.
Billy & Debbie Tobin
June 25, 2013
Tommy, sorry to here about your dad he was true gentleman he will be missed .
Marc Michel
June 23, 2013
Tom and family -
So sorry to hear about your dad. Our family frequently saw yours at church and I know Alan meant a lot to my dad. They occasionally played together in one band or another in the early days. Even in retirement, and living far from Pittsfield, when my dad talked about Pittsfield and the "band era," Alan's name came up. Great to have known him. He was one of those fellows who had an interesting life and terrific legacy.
June 23, 2013
sorry for your loss.thomas(TEDDy)allen
Gary Papallo
June 23, 2013
To the Grieve family, so sorry for your loss. I had the opportunity to play golf a number of times with Alan as part of the group he played in with my father. He was true gentleman, my father enjoyed very much playing with Alan and discussing the golden age of Berkshire County music.
Diane Carey
June 23, 2013
To All Of You,
So sorry to hear about Alan. He was with my father when he died golfing all those years ago and I can't help but think how their original foursome are now together golfing in heaven. Alan was a wonderful man. My deepest condolences to you all.
June 23, 2013
As a young child,I remember my father,Mort, playing music with Alan, and regaling me with stories of the gigs they played together. What a talent as well as a terrific guy. Heaven must have one heck of a great band up there.
To those you have left behind,may your memories be the pillow upon which you rest your head.
Judy Wayne
[email protected]
Bob Frick
June 23, 2013
Tom, a blast from the past...growing up in Pittsfield, your mom & dad were
my "ozzie & Harriet" - the perfect couple!
You/they are/were blessed to both live into thier 90's!!! Cherish the memories, keep looking foward, and above all, stay busy.
When things quiet down, please Email me at [email protected] - I'dlike to get together for lunch or dinner when you're in town to play the Tigers in mid-July. Sorry to communicate this way.
Nancy Zupanec
June 23, 2013
I know my parents, Ralph and Marge Zupanec, would want me to extend sincere sympathy on behalf of our family. Mr. and Mrs. Grieve were an important part of a lively network of friends who found many occasions to get together and enjoy each other's company. I remember hearing their names so many times throughout my childhood. The last time I saw Mr. and Mrs. Grieve was at my father's memorial service at St. Stephen's Church in July 2010. I was touched by their presence. May all of you find peace.
Margie Shulman
June 22, 2013
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
john vittone
June 22, 2013
Sorry for you loss Tom..When I had my shop on Tyler St. Your Dad would stop by now and then and we would talk music..Nice guy gonna miss him!!
June 22, 2013
Sorry for your Loss Tom..I stopped by his house last May and talked with your mom and dad last may.
June 22, 2013
In my lifetime I've met very few people I consider " a nice guy " Alan would be number one on the list
Dick Ringie
Jim Bushey
June 22, 2013
Tom and Kathy,
So sorry to hear of the passing of your Dad Tom. All are prayers are with you family.
Alison Carmel Phillips
June 22, 2013
Tom and Polly,
I was deeply saddened to hear of Alan's passing. He was a talented and dedicated musician. My Dad, Dick Carmel, always spoke highly of him. Dad has both of his books and I thoroughly enjoyed reading them. My prayers to your family.
Bob Weckman
June 22, 2013
I am sorry to hear about the passing of one of my best friends.Whenever we would come to Pittsfield to visit relatives I would pick Alan up and spent a few mornings a week sitting at Pontoosuc Lake and having our Dunkin Donuts coffee and donuts.
He will be missed by all.
June 22, 2013
Tom and family
So sorry to hear of your loss. Warm thoughts to you and your family.
Joe and Susan Merullo
Robert Harris
June 22, 2013
Tom and Kathy,
I am sorry for your loss. Your dad was a fine gentleman. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Coach Bob Harris (PHS)
Mitch & Rose Massaconi
June 22, 2013
Tom, Cande and Laurie,
What a wonderful father and husband he was, loving & dedicated to his wife and family. It was special to witness, and I am sure it was special to be a part of. You were always welcomed warmly when visiting the Grieve home, a very special man.
June 22, 2013
I didn't know Alan, but had his son Tom as a camp counselor at Camp Russell. Little did I know that Tom descended from such an artist. Maybe I shouldn't even comment, but I love hearing about the lives of those that I may not have heard of who influenced the mainstream. He was a big part of Pittsfield in its day.
Julia Insinger
June 22, 2013
Cande, I send my deepest condolences to you and your family. I am grateful I was able to meet him, and to know him as a local historian, and see his great smile and twinkling eyes. Love, Julia
June 22, 2013
Sorry to hear about your dad Tom & Kathy. Your old friend from Pittsfield High.
Mike Petell
Irving, TX
Bob Shepherd
June 22, 2013
In my mid-teens, I was Orchette's pianist at the Stanley Club. We played from the huge body of tunes we now call the Great American Songbook and that's been my principal repertoire ever since. Alan's unfailing class and attention to detail were legendary among area musicians.
When Alan entered the Pittsfield Country Club for his 90th birthday party, I was amazed at his ramrod-straight, energetic manner. He hadn't lost either his enthusiasm or his graciousness.
I'm proud to say that Alan Grieve has been a major part of my life.
Thanks, Alan for all the music!
kelli Sheerin
June 22, 2013
polly and cande and the grieve family...so sorry to hear of alans passing.my heart is with you and my prayers go out to you.god bless
June 22, 2013
Polly,Cande,Laurie,Tom & family: our thoughts and prayers are with you. Norie, Larri, Lucas
Sunny Lloyd-Eriksen
June 22, 2013
I LOVE YOU ALL!
Jim and Jackie Shulman
June 22, 2013
Polly, Candy and family, we were so sorry to read of the passing of Alan. He was a great person and incredible family person , married over 70 years. I thank Alan for getting me started over 30 years ago on post card collecting and interest in Pittsfield. Although we hadn't been in touch since the visit to the carousel workshop, I think of all of you often and am always going to the two books. May our thoughts and prayers be with the whole family during this period of healing. Peace, love and health, Jim and Jackie Shulman
Dave Healey
June 22, 2013
Heartfelt condolences to the Grieve Family. Alan was a helluva guy. We had fun pulling together resources on his books. He will be sorrowfully missed.
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