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Alexander Drescher Obituary

Husband and wife, Dr. Alexander N. Drescher and Aline Drescher of Lanesborough, MA, died together at home on Nov. 26, 2022, at age 92 after more than 71 years of marriage. Born and raised in New York City, Bunny and Sandy met at Little Red Schoolhouse, fell in love as teenagers and were wed in 1951. They leave three sons: Thomas S. Drescher and his wife Andrea C. Brown of Los Angeles, CA; Peter D. Drescher of El Cerrito, CA; and William M. Drescher of Albuquerque, NM.

Alexander was the son of Harold J. Drescher, Chief Counsel of the Greyhound Bus Company, and Berta Rosen Drescher, a pianist. A graduate of Allegheny College and the College of Medicine of New York University, he later interned at NYU-Bellevue Medical Center and completed his residency at the Albert Einstein College of Medicine in the Bronx. In 1957-59 he was chief of pediatrics at the US Army Hospital in Fort Carson, CO, and subsequently returned to Albert Einstein as an instructor and researcher in kidney disease, infant nutrition and endocrinology. Dr. Drescher moved to Pittsfield with his family in 1962 and practiced pediatrics for many years. In the late 1970's he went back to school and trained as a psychologist at the Institute for Living in Hartford, CT. During his time in the Berkshires, he also taught regular classes at Albany Medical College and served as Chair of the Mt. Greylock Regional High School Board of Education. In his later years, he became an independent scholar in English literature, specializing in the work of James Joyce, Herman Melville and Vladimir Nabokov.

Aline was the daughter Harvey A. Mayer, publisher of the Ringling Bros. and Barnum & Bailey Circus Daily Review and Aline Shakman Mayer, a painter. She was also the step-daughter of Harold Geigerman, a textiles businessman. A talented soprano, Aline initially attended Skidmore College before returning to Manhattan to study voice fulltime. Many people in the Berkshires will remember her classical music performances, her roles in local musicals, and her work as head of music at Berkshire Country Day School in the late 60's, where she specialized in the Orff Schulwerk method. In 1980, she returned to school and completed a BA in Music (Summa Cum Laude) at the University of Hartford, before earning an MSW at SUNY Albany and embarking on a second career as a social worker. She worked in the dialysis unit at Berkshire Medical Center and then in a joint private practice with her psychologist husband. A lifelong lover of fine art, Aline volunteered as a docent at the Clark Art Institute in Williamstown after her retirement.

Bunny and Sandy loved the Berkshires and especially their 1820's farmhouse, built along a country road in Lanesborough and not modernized until they took possession in 1967. They spent many summers with their sons renovating and updating the building, riding their horses through the surrounding fields, and later on, driving a Haflinger-drawn cart across the county's back roads and in the Tubs Parade in Lenox. They loved walking their dogs, chatting with their neighbors, and watching the sun set over the mountains from their front porch.

In lieu of flowers the family requests memorial gifts be given to Doctors Without Borders, or The Alzheimer's Association. To add to the Book of Memories, please visit www.flynndagnolifuneralhomes.com

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Published by The Berkshire Eagle on Dec. 8, 2022.

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Kristin L Wirtes

December 27, 2022

It is hard to believe they are no longer with us. When we moved to the small neighborhood many years back, they made us feel welcome. We would see them driving their carriage,then walking the dog, or enjoying the day sitting on the front porch. They were both so kind and I will be forever grateful to have known them. It is sad to walk by and know they will not be on the porch,or that Poppy,will not be out there to say hi. Our condolences to the family.

Hank Rose

December 22, 2022

Donna and I want to share our memories about Sandy and Bunny. We knew them because I was Sandy's classmate at the Little Red Schoolhouse. I knew Bunny too, but not as well because she was in the class behind us. We visited them several times in Lanesboro, and went together to concerts at Tanglewood. We won't forget those visits, and the email conversations with Sandy during those years and afterwards. They were precious friends. We'll miss them in the future, and we want to express our deep sympathy to their sons.
Hank and Donna Rose

Heather

December 21, 2022

Saddened to read of Bunny and Sandy passing. I met them though Mike and Nate. Sandy and I drove together. He and Bunny were so gracious, intelligent, passionate and compassionate. Truly remarkable and lovely people.

Dawn O'Brien

December 17, 2022

My thoughts are with the family at this sad time. Forty-five years ago, Dr Drescher saved my two year old's life. Dr Drescher knew John was a very sick child and did what was needed to help him recover. In Dr. Dreschers' own words, written in his final medical report, " I cannot recollect seeing a child sicker than this boy recover since entering medical school".
What a wonderful doctor he was.

John Goerlach

December 10, 2022

Bill and family so sorry for your loss . I have a lot of fond memories of your mom and dad. Whether mom and dad out on the buggy with horses ,mom out getting mail or just a stroll with the dogs , or dad out on the kabota tractor.moving rock s. So they weren't in the way of the buggy.

Debra Decelles

December 10, 2022

I am so sorry for your loss of your parents. I am a neighbor on Scott Rd. Many years ago when I moved there your parents invited me to go horse back riding with them. They showed me many trails and beautiful places to ride my horse. When they stopped riding and went to the carriage, I so enjoyed watching them go by my home. I would always have to go out on my front porch and wave to them. When the carriage went away and I no longer had a horse I began walking. Many times when passing by their home we would chat for a minute or two. I feel blessed to have met them and to have had them as neighbors for so many years. When I walk by their home I will miss their presence. I hope you find comfort in knowing they touched so many lives.

Nicoletta Agnelli

December 8, 2022

Dear Bill and family,
There are no words good enough to share at this time of sorrow. Take comfort in the peace they are in right now. May their memories be blessings for you and all their progeny. Love lives forever. Peace and serenity from Nikki (Nicoletta) Agnelli.

Wendy Gendron

December 8, 2022

Tom, Peter and Bill I am so sorry for your loss. Take comfort in knowing that they lived their lives together in love and are now forever united in their passing.

Wendy

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