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David Elliot Sayers

1950 - 2022

David Elliot Sayers obituary, 1950-2022, Pittsfield, MA

BORN

1950

DIED

2022

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Dery Funeral Home

54 Bradford Street

Pittsfield, Massachusetts

David Sayers Obituary

David Elliot Sayers, while being held in the arms of his family, peacefully went home to be with our Heavenly Father on Wednesday, January 12, 2022 at the age of 71.

Born in Pittsfield, Massachusetts on March 25, 1950 David was the son of the late Edward W. Sayers and Ruth M. Pettibone Sayers. He grew up in Lenox and Pittsfield, and was a 1970 graduate of Pittsfield High School. On August 14, 1971, David married the love of his life, Joyce L. Villanova in Tucson, Arizona. David and Joyce celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary in 2021.

At an early age, David took an interest in the profession of carpentry while working at Ace Hardware and as a property manager in Tucson, Arizona. He also worked at Lumbertown in Pittsfield and briefly modeled in clothing ads. David pursued the profession of carpentry and subsequently became a Master Carpenter for most of his adult life. In the 1980's, prior to starting his own business, David worked as a Construction Foreman for Salmon Creek Builders Ltd. in Salisbury, Connecticut. At the peek of his professional life, he concurrently owned three successful businesses: David Sayers Pro-Site Builders, ScreenCo, and Sports Gear Company. His fine craftsmanship was single handedly responsible for all the renovations at the former Berkshire Nautilus location on West Street. Prior to retiring, David was a Licensed Construction Supervisor. David fulfilled a lifelong dream by purchasing land and building a house for his family. As he aged and reflected on his profession, David stated, "Now that I'm old and know the most about my profession, I can't physically do it."

David started singing and playing guitar as a teenager. He had a passionate voice that would connect with his audience. He was the lead singer in local bands, most notably Lost Generation and Nickel Misery, and would tour New England performing. Being young and married, David chose to pursue a consistent profession and home life rather than a singing career. It has been said that if David pursued a singing career, the world would have known who he was. Singing and playing guitar continued to be a source of happiness for his entire life.

David enjoyed metal detecting. His Sports Gear Company was a retailer for Garrett Metal Detectors. He enjoyed cooking and was known for his signature chimichangas. Regarding cooking he explained, "To make a good hamburger by hand, you have to press the patties thin." He also enjoyed fishing and would say, "I use marshmallows and corn to catch them." David enjoyed shooting, archery, and hunting. He was a skillful dear hunter, preferred .270 Winchester, and was known for his venison jerky. Regarding being accurate in archery, he would say, "You have to follow through." As David got older, he voluntarily stopped hunting. He became softhearted toward deer and explained, "They are such beautiful animals, I can't bring myself to hunt and shoot them anymore."

David was sociable and enjoyed sharing his life experiences with folks. His positive personality and knowledge made for long talks. David was a great listener, and had true sympathy and compassion.

Some of David's statements about life are worth heeding. He would say, "When you are thinking of doing something, you have 3 to 4 seconds to do it, so get moving." Concerning ambition he would say, "Procrastination has an expiration date." Regarding motivation and staying healthy he would say, "Keep your momentum. Keep going! Once you lose your momentum, it's tough to get it back." Regarding knowledge he would say, "Part of learning something is admitting first that you don't know it." Regarding family he would say, "Provide for your family and love them no matter what."

David was the absolute best husband, father, and grandfather in every way possible, shielding his family from the stressors of life. He did his best to take away any pain or discomfort from his family. He was a protector, a provider, and filled the home with his love. David worked tirelessly to provide and consistently prayed for the well being of his family.

David is survived by his wife Joyce L. Sayers (69), sons Brian A. Sayers (44) and Mitchell C. Sayers (37), daughter Krista Paige Sayers (30), and cherished grandsons Gabriel J. Sayers (9) and Cameron Benjamin Andrews (7). David is also survived by his siblings Edward Sayers, Jr., Dolores Darby, Patricia Lennon, Janet Liebenow, Linda Lykkebak, Dawn Whiteley, Peter Sayers, and Robin Gardner. He is also survived by multiple nieces, nephews, and extended family. He is predeceased by his sister Leanora Mole.

David will be dearly missed by his family, near and far. He undoubtedly knew how much he was loved for being the man that he was. Many have asked how they can be of help; therefore, please bring a financial contribution and/or sympathy card on the day of service. As a thank you for everyone who attends, there will be a heartfelt Celebration of Life gift bag that includes personalized keepsakes inside.

Calling hours will be held on Saturday, January 22, 2022 from 2:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. at Dery Funeral Home, 54 Bradford St., Pittsfield, MA 01201. Funeral Service to follow at 6:00 p.m.

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Published by The Berkshire Eagle on Jan. 19, 2022.

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sharon A ziter

February 5, 2022

Joyce and family
Very sorry to hear of Daves passing he was a wonderful person. May happy memories help u thru this sad time. Dave RIP

robert laplante

January 23, 2022

Joyce and family - sorry about David's passing. We're keeping you in our prayers at this difficult time

Lynne Scott

January 22, 2022

Joyce, I am so so sorry for your loss. No words I can say will make this easier for you, but you are a strong woman and a survivor . May God bless you and your family <3

Donna McClelland

January 22, 2022

I go all the way back to second grade in Lenox Dale Elementary School with Dave. My two brothers and I grew up with him in Lenox but sadly I saw him very infrequently throughout the years. My most sincere condolences to Joyce and the family.

Dave Nicholson

January 22, 2022

Deepest condolences to Joyce, Brian and the rest of the family. We all lost a good friend and he will be missed.

Larry Brooksbank

January 21, 2022

Dear Joyce (and family).
I am deeply saddened to learn of Dave's passing. I felt very connected to him and we inevitably had long conversations over the years about life and our common past. One of the last times I saw Dave, he spontaneously started singing a song I had written in the 70's! He remembered all of the words!! Dave always made me smile and offered great advice over the years. I will miss him. May you feel comforted in knowing that his spirit lives on.
Larry

Cindy Giovine

January 20, 2022

Dear Joyce, Krista and family, I was deeply saddened to hear about the loss of your husband/dad. Since I never really had the chance to know him and after reading his obituary I learned what a wonderful man he was. His love for his family and life was amazing. Loosing a loved one is never easy, however, his love will remain in your hearts forever! Please know I am thinking of you with love and prayers. Joyce you always are such a warm and compassionate person and I´m sure David the same. Stay safe during these difficult times and know that I am thinking of you and Krista as well as your family with heartfelt sympathy. Love, Cindy Giovine

Jack & Tracy Grady

January 19, 2022

So sorry for your loss. Your Dad was great guy.

Josie

January 19, 2022

Joyce and family my condolences on the loss of David .

Tracey Thomson

January 19, 2022

Joyce, Mitch, Krista and family
Sorry to hear of your loss. David was a great man. Every time I saw him we talked and had great laughs
It was funny my father and david shared the same birthday. He always wondered how i remembered but that was how.My thoughts and prayers are with you all. R.I.P my friend..You will be deeply missed

Tracey Thomson

Eda Renieri

January 19, 2022

Joyce and family, I am so sorry for your loss. God bless and keep you all during this very difficult time.

Dave Healey

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Dave Healey

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Dave Healey

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Dave Healey

January 19, 2022

It was Dave Sayers who offered me support in music when no one else would and for that, I'm truly grateful.
Very sincere condolences to Joyce and family. Prayers offered.
Dave & Helen Healey...formerly of Pittsfield.
Now living in Beverly Hills, Florida

Jim, Pam and Lucas Florus

January 19, 2022

To Joyce, Krista and other family members...Our most sincere condolences on the loss of your dear David. He was indeed a remarkable person and always such a pleasant man when we saw him. Our prayers for healing and peace are with you and your family at this very sad time.

Donna Girard(Donald)

January 19, 2022

I am so sorry to hear about David. You all are in my prayers to get you all through this rough time.Stay strong Sayers family.RIPDavid you are an angelfish high

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