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Jeffrey P. Rayner

15,1943 - 2022

Jeffrey P. Rayner obituary, 15,1943-2022, Pittsfield, MA

BORN

15,1943

DIED

2022

FUNERAL HOME

Dwyer Family Funeral Home

776 North Street

Pittsfield, Massachusetts

Jeffrey Rayner Obituary

Jeffrey Paul Rayner, 78, of Pittsfield, passed away early Friday morning, February 18, 2022.

He was born on December 15,1943, in Pittsfield, MA to the late William and Elsie (Goodskey) Rayner. Jeff graduated from Pittsfield High School in 1961 and received his Bachelor of Science degree in three years from Babson College in 1964.

Jeff began his career as a teller at Berkshire County Savings Bank where he gradually worked his way to Executive Vice President and acting President. When the bank merged into Berkshire Bank, Jeff became Senior Vice President of the management team. During these years, he served in the community as President of Berkshire United Way, chaired their annual fundraiser and was a board member at Mass College. He spent 36 years with Berkshire Bank before embarking on a new path, where he joined Berkshire Life Insurance Company as a CLU. Eventually retiring with Guardian Life Insurance Company in November 2017. Throughout his career, one thing was steadfast, Jeff was passionate about his work and his clients.

Jeff met Patricia (Quirk) during college and married Pat, the love of his life, on October 9, 1965. He is survived by his wife and two sons, Sean Rayner (Michelle) of Park City, Utah and Kevin Rayner of Pittsfield, MA. Along with his five grandchildren; Rylie Rayner, Rian Rayner, Paige Rayner, Shea Rayner and Jack Rayner all of Park City, Utah. He leaves a brother-in-law and sister-in-law, Tom and Mary Quirk, and a nephew Trevor Quirk, as well as many dear friends.

Jeff was predeceased by his parents, William and Elsie Rayner and loving in-laws, Lefty and Mary Quirk.

Among many things, he enjoyed bowling, a good Manhattan, fishing with his sons and driving them all over New England to watch them compete in ski races. The Cape was his happy place, where he taught us how to clam, even without a rake. Jeff cherished teasing his grandkids and was nicknamed "The Pincher" for giving them pinches of love when they would run by him. Later in life, taking his family on Caribbean vacations with Pat by his side as the sunset was his ideal day.

The family would like to thank the Mount Carmel staff for their kindness and compassion during these difficult times.

Funeral Notice:

Funeral services for Mr. Jeffrey Rayner will be Friday, February 25, 2022, with a Liturgy of Christian Burial at 12:30pm at Sacred Heart Church, celebrated by the Rev. A. Peter Gregory, Pastor Emeritus of St. Charles Church. Burial will follow at St. Joseph Cemetery. Calling hours will be Thursday, February 24, 2022, from 4pm to 6pm at the Dwyer Funeral Home, 776 North Street, Pittsfield MA 01201. Due to the recent rise in Covid cases, to best ensure everybody's health, all who attend these services will be required to wear a face mask. In lieu of flowers, donations in Jeff's memory can be made to The Berkshire Humane Society or St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, in care of the Dwyer Funeral Home. Please visit www.dwyerfuneral.com to leave condolences and remembrances.

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Published by The Berkshire Eagle on Feb. 22, 2022.

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Bill & Rose Ann

February 16, 2023

Jeff, was a good guy!! Rest-In-Peace!

Jason Virgilio

February 26, 2022

Dear Pat and family, Sorry to hear of Jeff´s passing. Please accept my deepest prayers and condolences during this most difficult time!

John A. Bernardo

February 25, 2022

My condolences to the family. May the fond and loving memories be a comfort and always be with you.

Mary Cranson and Joe McCusker

February 25, 2022

We were so sorry to hear of Jeff´s loss. Our sympathies go out to you and your family.

Kathleen Aherne

February 24, 2022

I'm very sorry to read of Jeff's passing. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family. Kathy(LeBlanc)Aherne.

Marty and Debbie Flynn

February 23, 2022

To the Raynor family,our thoughts and prayers going out to Jeff´s family.Jeff was a great help to us in the 70´s with auto loans and recreation vehicles and even my wife´s engagement ring loan.He was always a great person to deal with,and always helped with our needs.God´s Speed Jeffrey,your will by all who had the chance to meet you.

sharon A ziter

February 23, 2022

Rayner family sorry to hear of Jeffs passing. Happy memories will help u through this sad time. May he rest in peace

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Susan Waldron

February 22, 2022

Dear Pat, I am sorry about Jeff's passing. Like Jim, it is a blessing as his suffering is over and he is at peace. I know that there is nothing I can say to ease your grief. Time does help. You are in my prayers. Love, Sue

Sharon and Bill Penna

February 22, 2022

Pat,

we just wanted to let you know we were sorry to hear about Jeff's passing. Hopefully in the coming days all the wonderful memories you two shared will give you comfort. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Sincerely,

Sharon and Bill Penna

Kris (Barbalunga) Mackey

February 22, 2022

To Jeff's family and friends, I am so sorry to read of his passing. I knew Jeff through the banks and United Way. He was always calm, friendly and smiling. He was a kind man, and sincere with his clients. Jeff was very trustworthy and caring of others. Lord's comfort and Blessings to Jeff's family and friends. With sympathy, Kris (Barbalunga) Mackey.

Sharon Anne Semanie

February 22, 2022

Dear Pat and Family-
Heaven just welcomed a new angel! May God embrace you during this time and grant you blessings in the days and weeks ahead. Jeff exemplified all that is good as demonstrated by his community work and love of life. Bill and I will continue to keep both of you in our prayers.

Mike & Arlene Langdon

February 22, 2022

Hi Patty, We are so sorry to hear of Jeff passing thoughts and prayers are with you

Rosemary(DiMartino)Callahan

February 22, 2022

Dear Pat .
I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Sincerely,
Rosemary(DiMartino)Callahan

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Calling hours

4:00 p.m. - 6:00 p.m.

Dwyer Family Funeral Home

776 North Street, Pittsfield, MA 01201

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25

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776 North Street, Pittsfield, MA 01201

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