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2020

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Maria Caccaviello Obituary

On October 13, 2020, Maria Caccaviello passed away after a long inspiring battle against cancer surrounded by the love of her family and devoted companion. Her family has lost the physical presence of a dedicated daughter, sister, aunt and cousin and the community has a large gap where once was a person whose greatest passion was to help others and enriching the lives of a countless number of residents.

Born in NYC, October 30, 1949 to Vincent and Rose, she was the 'big sister" to Teresa and Paul and the shoulder for all in the family to lean on. She took great pride in being educated locally from elementary school through college. Always with an eye towards the care and support of those she loved, she put family first, last and forever. Her family included her beloved dogs Tootsie and Henry who brought tremendous joy to her life. She was the loud and proud aunt and Godmother to Grace Olivia and she took such great pleasure in watching her grow and develop into a young lady pursuing her dreams. She had reconnected with the love of her early life, Bruce Goguen, who joined her in her many projects and work for the community.

Maria served the community in so many ways that were public but many more that were not. She had leadership roles and was active in many agencies and organizations including The Berkshire Public Theatre, GoodWill, Adlib, the Christian Center and the Elizabeth Freeman Center. Her love of the arts was expressed in everything she did, especially, as the long-time Director for the construction of The Berkshire Carousel. Physically impacted by her own cancer, she had recently started the agency Good Options for Independence - a group whose mission was to help those who needed assistance in their daily living. Beyond any public work and with no desire to receive thanks or accolades, she would often take it upon herself to be sure those that needed something to make life a little easier received that need. Her spirit was a kind and caring one that sought to bring a smile to others and will remain her legacy for all time.

Predeceased by her father Vincent, she leaves behind her mother Rose, sister Teresa, brother Paul, sister (in law) Karen, niece Grace, beloved dog Henry and her extended family Daniel Tamkin, Ken and June Tamkin-Price and her significant other Bruce Goguen.

FUNERAL NOTICE: Services will be private. For those who would like to livestream the memorial service, please visit, https://us02web.zoom.us/j/89439854654?pwd=YVlBOEg3ZWVpUGVOOHNCUTFvYVpHdz09 on October 17, 2020 at 3 p.m.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Good Options for Independence, Inc. 19 Wealthy Ave. Pittsfield, MA 01201, which Maria founded, or to the Berkshire Humane Society in care of DERY FUNERAL HOME, 54 Bradford St, Pittsfield, MA 01201. To visit Maria's memorial page, please visit, https://www.gatheringus.com/memorial/maria-caccaviello/5419

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Published by The Berkshire Eagle on Oct. 16, 2020.

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Tracy Stasiowski

October 10, 2022

You are a special person in every one's heart. We miss you.

Karl Gimlewicz

October 26, 2020

Paul,

Truly sorry to hear of the passing of your treasured sister. May God hold you and your family close during this difficult time.

Michael & Jean (Dawley) Martin

October 18, 2020

To Paul & family, we were so sorry to read about Maria’s passing. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family.

Tom and Marion Bergan Irwin

October 17, 2020

Maria’s life was inspiring. She taught us how to live by her tireless dedication of service to others and her love to the end of her days. I only met Maria once, but am moved by her life. She leaves the world a better place having touched so many with her generosity. As Paul said in his eulogy, she no longer walks in life with us but is not gone. Her love lives in the hearts of all that knew her and her memory lives on in her many projects. Sending prayers for peace to all her family during this difficult time.

June Tamkin-Price

October 17, 2020

Our beloved cousin Maria was the most amazing woman for some of the following reasons...

For the indomitable life she led

For the kindness and generosity she shared with so many

For her intelligence, wit and so much more

For the delicious gourmet Italian dinners around the close family table

She brought joyful moments into our lives with her incredible sense of humor!

Her inner courage and determination to learn to walk again were extraordinary!!!

For laughter, no matter what...

As Paul has shared, Maria was the glue that held our family together.

We wanted more treasured time with our beloved Maria. It's never enough time...

A huge hole has been left in our hearts. We will miss and love her forever... Daniel, June and Ken

Ken & Patty Rivers

October 17, 2020

Dear Paul, Karen, Grace & family:
Our deepest sympathy on the passing of your remarkable sister Maria. She has done so much for so many and will never be forgotten.
May all your precious memories sustain you during this difficult time.

Praying for strength for each of you,
Ken & Patty Rivers

Mary Leoncini

October 17, 2020

Maria was such a caring person. I met her when I worked as a painter for the carousel. I did one of the flower boards for her. They were blue, chickory flowers that grow wild along the roads, in fields - everywhere! When I see them, I always think of Maria. I will never forget her.

Tracy Stasiowski

October 17, 2020

I am so sorry to hear about your loss maria was and still is a great person she will be in my thoughts and prayers and always in my heart and soul for ever. Love you all.

joyce armstrong

October 16, 2020

A truly wonderful woman dedicated to family and causes. She will certainly be missed by all who knew and worked with her over the years.

Michael Daly

October 16, 2020

My sincere condolences Paul, Karen, Bruce and all of Maria’s family and friends. Maria was a kind and generous person. May you rest in God’s arms.

Juliet

October 16, 2020

Dear Mrs. Caccaviello, Paul and Teresa,

When my sister Kriss and I arrived in the U.S. at such a young age, it was lovely to be welcomed into a loving, close knit family such as yours; it made a world of difference in our lives being so far away from our own home and family.

Paul, Kriss and I had so much fun together in those days, and whenever we saw her, Maria just scooped us up into her world; I truly felt as if she was another "big sister" to me at times. I have such treasured memories being at the Caccaviello home, ones I will never forget.

Gone too soon.

Sincerely,
Juliet

Stephen E. O'Brien

October 16, 2020

Caccaviello family,

Please accept my condolences.

Mark Sumy

October 16, 2020

Paul and Family, I am sorry to hear about Maria. My condolences.

Teresa Barents, David Van Bramer, Gary D Van Bramer

October 16, 2020

My heart is broken along with all the others who have lost Maria. She will continue to be with us through all our memories. She will be so missed. Rose, Teresa and Paul, Maria will always be loved.

Joseph Pieropan

October 16, 2020

Maria was this community’s greatest advocate for the arts and for those persons in need of a helping hand. We were all better for her gifts that she shared with us, and we will all have to work hard to fill the void she leaves behind. Let her selfless and caring life be an example for us to follow in this time of great need.

Gary Lagarce

October 16, 2020

Paul and family, so very sorry for the loss of your sister. Thoughts and prayers are with you all.

RoAnn Vecchia-Wendling

October 16, 2020

Paul - I am so sorry to hear about Maria. Please know you and your family are on my thoughts and prayers. May you find some comfort in the wonderful memories you have in the days ahead. RoAnn

Judy (Vincent) Herrick

October 16, 2020

I was so surprised to see that Maria had passed. She and I were classmates at PHS. I happened to see her in the grocery store a few years back and I was surprised that she still remembered me. What a wonderful person who gave so much of herself for others. RIP Maria.

Stella W. Coolbroth

October 16, 2020

Maria was my neighbor for over 60 years. Had many a great time with her. So sorry Rose , Tessa and Paul. Will not forget her.

Stella

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