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2019

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Mary Pignatelli Obituary

Lenox - Mary Jane Pignatelli, 94, of Lenox passed away early Tuesday morning surrounded by her loving family.

Born in Poultney, Vermont on September 20, 1924 to the late Charles and Kathryn McCann Flood, Mary Jane attended Cathedral High School in Springfield, Massachusetts and graduated from the College of Our Lady of the Elms. She continued her education at Middlebury College in Vermont where she earned her Master's Degree in Foreign Languages.

Mary Jane married John Pignatelli in 1954, and on February 20, they would have celebrated 65 years of marriage.

Mary Jane worked as a high school language teacher, spending most of her 38-year career in the Lenox Public School system until her retirement in 1986. While best known as a French teacher, she also taught English and Latin. Additionally, she taught the young seminarians Spanish at the former Bellefontaine Seminary. She shared her love of language by organizing and chaperoning several school trips to visit various regions of France and Canada, creating lifelong memories for her students. She believed in providing opportunities for students of all means by coordinating international dinner fundraisers to help defray the costs.

Mary Jane was a communicant of St. Ann's Church, a member of the Catholic Daughters of America, the Rosary Society and the Kiwanianne Club.

Throughout her teaching career, while raising her five children who were her pride and joy, Mary Jane was also the bookkeeper for the family electrical business, Pignatelli & Piretti, and was a supportive partner in John's many years in public service.

Mary Jane and John enjoyed their retirement years wintering in Naples, Florida where they were very active and had many friends. Mary Jane, a gifted pianist, shared her musical talents in many of the Naples community variety shows. She was also a surprisingly good bocce player, garnering the club championship.

While at home in Lenox, she found great joy in caring for and spending time with her grandchildren.

Mary Jane will be remembered by all who knew her as a remarkable woman, humble beyond words, intelligent, polite, and courteous. She was a woman of great insight on matters large and small, and a gifted teacher. Most importantly, she was a loving wife, mother, grandmother, aunt and friend.

In addition to her beloved John, Mary Jane is survived by her children; Donna M. Pignatelli, Lisa P. Slosek (Wayne), William "Smitty" Pignatelli (Allyce Najimy), Laurie P. Schiff (Scott), and Scott M. Pignatelli (Kathy McNinch); and grandchildren, Travis and Anah Pignatelli, Peyton and Ayva Schiff, Mia and Jack Pignatelli. She also leaves many nieces and nephews who hold a special place in her heart.

A Liturgy of Christian Burial for Mary Jane Pignatelli will be held on Saturday, February 9, 2019 at 11:00am at St. Ann's Church with Monsignor John Bonzagni, officiating. Burial will follow in St. Ann's Cemetery. Calling hours will be held on Friday, February 8, 2019 from 4:00 pm-6:00 pm at St. Ann Church. In lieu of flowers, donations in Mary Jane's memory may be made to St. Ann's Church Parish Center or Kimball Farms Nursing Care Center Activities Fund in care of the Roche Funeral Home, 120 Main Street, Lenox, MA 01240.

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Published by The Berkshire Eagle on Feb. 7, 2019.

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Terri Massacani

February 1, 2022

RIP Mary

Sherry Steuerwald -Shook

February 12, 2019

To the Pignatelli family:)

My condolences for the loss of your Mom, she was a special lady and will be missed by all of us. I never took French from her but remember her smile down the hall during classes.

Cheryl Allison (Markey)

February 10, 2019

Dear Smitty and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Keep memories of your mom close and remember that she will always be a part of you. May God keep her and all of you in his love and light.

Mary Welch

February 10, 2019

To the Pignatelli family, so sorry for the loss of your Mother she was a very special person. Will keep you all in my prayers,
Mary Welch, Stephen Welch, Charleston, SC

Jim Kirby

February 9, 2019

My condolences

Gene Galvagni

February 9, 2019

John, Smitty, Scott and family

So very sorry for your loss.

Dolores & Dale Tucker

February 8, 2019

Sincere condolences go to John, Smitty, Scott & family on your loss. May the she be in the arms of the Holy Family

Charlene Carey

February 8, 2019

Dear Pignatelli Family,
So sorry for the loss of your mom. She was a wonderful person. I know my mom and dad- Sylvia and Don, enjoyed the many years of friendship that they had with your mom and dad. They shared lots of fun times. My thoughts and prayers are with your Dad and all of you. Charlene Carey (Reid)

James Sorrentino

February 8, 2019

On Behalf of the Pittsfield Chapter of UNICO,
We'd like to extend our deepest sympathies to the entire Pignatelli family for the loss of your beloved Mother & Wife. May the days ahead be filled with many memories & comfort knowing she had a life well lived and is now resting in peace.

Lucy and Bernie Goclowski

February 8, 2019

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

James Carlo

February 8, 2019

Scott and family...thinking of you during this difficult time.

Lenox Community Center Staff

February 8, 2019

The staff and friends of the Lenox Community Center will miss Mary Jane. She was such a lovely lady. Prayers to your family and peace to her husband John.

Francie Sorrentino

February 7, 2019

The Crown of Heaven is yours Mary Jane. Rest easy my friend.

Always,
Francie

Caryle Zipprich

February 7, 2019

Lovely Lovely Woman! I am SO sad and sorry for your loss. I will be there to show my respect and gratitude for the blessing of knowing her, her extraordinary family and a legacy that will carry on. My love and prayers to you all. Caryle Andrew Zipprich

February 7, 2019

Our deepest sympathy to her family.Several of us students attended Miss Flood's wedding,Mary Agnes O'Brien LHS 1956, Livermore CA

Tim & Mary Sheehan & family

February 7, 2019

Our sympathy on the passing of your Mom and John's wife. She was always so gracious and never greeted anyone without that smile. Her legacy lives on in such a great family that she leaves behind. A truly fine lady. Our prayers are with all of you especially your Dad. May she rest in peace.

Gary Lagarce

February 7, 2019

Dear Pignatelli family, so sorry for your loss. I had Mary Jane as a teacher and although I struggled terribly with French, she helped me get through it. Mary Jane was a big part of of our school during those years and always would greet you with a smile and a big hello. Thoughts and prayers are with you all. Embrace the memories.

Jim Boland

February 7, 2019

Dear Smitty, Scott and family,

I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Sandy Cummings

February 7, 2019

To Mary Jane's Family,
I am deeply sorry for your loss.
She was a great lady. She and your Dad were the sweetest couple, what a team.
Your Mom's life has not ended, but changed.
She now lives the promised peace and rewarded a seat at the table of the Lord.
Her presence will be greatly missed, but she remain in your hearts, and in a far safer,loving place. No suffering, no pain, but in the safe keeping in God's arms.

Beth Hall-Saville

February 7, 2019

To all of the Pignatelli family, I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved Mom. She really was a very sweet, caring lady & one heck of a teacher! I took a few years of French with her way back in the day. She was a wonderful teacher, I, however, was terrible at French. You"re a wonderful, loving family and may you take comfort in the many joyful memories that you all have made! Peace. Beth Hall-Saville

Terri Massacani

February 7, 2019

Smitty, sorry for your loss Terri

Mary Taylor

February 7, 2019

Dear Smitty & Pignatelli Families"

We are so sorry to hear of your Mother's passing. May she rest in peace and may your many memories of her sustain you through this difficult time.


Mary & Patrick Taylor
Vero Beach, FL

Lenox Police Department

February 7, 2019

Please accept our sincere condolences at the passing of Mrs. Pignatelli. She was a very sweet and dignified lady. Our prayers and thoughts are with you all.

Meghan & Eric Kirby

February 7, 2019

We're so sorry for your loss and are sending you our prayers during this difficult time.

Pam Delmolino

February 7, 2019

John and Family,

My deepest sympathy for the loss of you beloved wife and mother. A lovely lady for sure. Phil always spoke very highly of Mrs P. I am sure that this is a huge loss for all of you, just know I am thinking of you all.
When someone you love becomes a memory, those memories become a treasure forever. Hold tight to all you forever memories.

With deepest Sympathy
Pam Delmolino

peter gallant

February 7, 2019

smitty so sad for the lose of your mom-though gone she will forever be with you-thoughts and prayers-pete

Mary Ellen Deming

February 7, 2019

Words cannot express how very sorry I am for your loss. She was such a kind and wonderful person. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Dave Healey

February 7, 2019

Our mom spoke quite highly of Mary Jane and John. Being a former Lenox family, we knew both the Pignatelli and Piretti families well. And so...with that being said, condolences are offered in this time of loss.

Dave & Helen Healey
St. Petersburg, FL

Susan Lipton

February 7, 2019

Am so very sorry for your loss.Susan Lipton

P.J. Fitzgerald

February 7, 2019

My deepest and most sincere condolences to the Pignatelli family over the tremendous loss of Mary Jane. She was a woman of extreme grace and warmth and a wonderful friend to so many. May her admirable legacy of unmatched character, be with her family and friends always to provide comfort and deserved pride.

Much love and many prayers,
P.J. Dunn Fitzgerald

Jen Drees

February 7, 2019

Mr. Pignatelli, Donna, Lisa, Smitty, Laurie, Scott and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Mrs.Pignatelli was a wonderful woman and an amazing teacher. I feel blessed to have known her, and to have witnessed the love of such a special couple and kind family.
Sending love and prayers to you all,

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