1934
2022
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Bob Friedman
December 12, 2023
As a college classmate of Gerald's, I echo his sentiments. Paul's class on Human Development was a reflection of his unique personality and perfectly suited to the activist students of the 1960s and 70s. At his suggestion, I invited my mother to attend one of his classes and she enjoyed his presentation immensely. Paul also welcomed students into his home, where we met Frances and the children.
Like Gerald, I briefly encountered Paul later in life. We met by chance in the 1990s at 20 Railroad Street in Great Barrington, where I was having a meal with my wife and two young children. He was of course as warm and witty as ever.
Paul was a remarkable person who affected all of us immensely. This week we celebrate Hanukkah, the Festival of Lights, symbolized by the Menorah, commemorating the miracle that kept alive the Ner Tamid, the Eternal Flame. Paul's blessed memory will also live on as a source of Eternal Light for everyone who knew him.
Gerald Batist
June 6, 2023
I feel so appreciative to have known Paul. I first met him in 1970 at the Experimental College at Barnard/Columbia University in NYC. There he played a unique role as mentor, `encounter group´ leader, moral and psychological and emotional guide. He touched me personally at a particularly difficult moment, with his grace, kindness and elegance. Years later, in 2019 we reconnected in Stockbridge at his home. As previously, Paul touched me deeply, with his openness and sharing. He gave me a remarkably beautiful drawing of a face, to my mind his face, with its intensity and warmth. What good fortune to have known Paul!
Susan Budnick
March 14, 2023
In our Dreamerie Paul took us to internal journeys far and wide!
I loved his open and daring side that often illuminated something in a dream. I loved how he valued each and every one of us.
His wife Fran was his anchor and I really miss those 2 together in their home by the fire.
heather forouhar graff
April 5, 2022
One of the last times I spoke with Paul, he told me, "Always be prepared to be surprised. . . that's the way I like to live my life anyway." So grateful for those last moments.
Judith B Rosenberger
March 21, 2022
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.
Andrew
March 20, 2022
Paul was an exceptional man. It's not been often that I've befriended people of such overwhelming intellect, humor, curiosity, and commitment to social justice as this delightful man. We'd talk about his youth, Yiddish, family, the Black Panthers, Leonard Cohen, and comedians. I'm truly grateful to have gotten to know him so intimately.
Benjamin Simon , first, then Rita EAgle
March 20, 2022
He was a wonderful person. And we will all miss him a lot. I am happy that he and /fran came to my BarMitzvah in 2017. And we will all come to visit the family in Stockbridge this summer. Benjamin
I know and loved Paul since 1959- three quarters of my life. When I first married in 1961, Len Simon and I lived in the apartment just vacated by Paul and Fran, just above Alex's restaurant on 6th Avenue in the Village. Paul was my first supervisor when I interned at Einstein hospital, Our kids grew up knowing John and Evie, Paul and Fran , and generations of the family dogs. After 1977, my husband Morris Eagle, his life long , dear dear friend and I and Anny Lydia and Benjamin slept in the beds in the magnificant Lippmann home. whenever visiting there. Even our dogs have known the Lippmanns. Through all the years they lived in Stockbridge , we even thought (all of us together) about moving into that house next door . At every visit, we were always greeted with such huge love , and fed so royally by Fran. Pictures of Benjamin sketched by Paul, and paintings of his , grace the walls of our home. Paul and Fran finally did get to visit us in California in 2017 when they shlepped all the way to attend Benjamin's bar mitzvah when Benjamin was 47!. Paul was beautiful beautiful in body and soul; as the rabbi said, bee- yoo- tee - ful was his favorite word. He had his eyes on the stars, saw the beauty there but his heart was with the people he loved so much and who loved him so much. Fran grounded him. Knowing Paul is knowing Fran-- they were a fabulous team of opposites. I cannot, shall never, forget this man , and his family. He has been such a part of my life I suppose it can be said a part of me died with him, except that I am still here so he is still alive and living on in my heart. And in the hearts of everyone who knew him. . Rita
I will check off friend but I feel we were also family.
Morris N. Eagle
March 20, 2022
My beloved friend Paul. I love you. You and Fran are my family. You have enriched my life and the lives of so many others.
Jyoti Swaminathan
March 20, 2022
Dear Fran, May the love of friends carry you and your family through this grief. Paul’s invitation to conversations about Psychoanalysis and his wisdom about life will always remain embedded in my world. In sorrow and friendship. Jyoti
Sue Bonak Rabbitt
March 19, 2022
I am truly sorry for the loss of your beloved father. His life was extraordinary. How lucky you were to be a part of his journey. With God's grace, may he lessen your sorrow.
Susan (deGersdorff) Handley
March 18, 2022
Dear Fran, John and Eve,
Paul was a dynamic, generous, loving man with a universal heart. My mother deeply feels his loss as a valued colleague and dear friend. Paul and your family also played an important role in my childhood and adolescence in Stockbridge. He touched many hearts in his lifetime - what a legacy!
Please accept my condolences and wishes that you may be solaced and sustained during this time of loss. With deepest love,
from Brisbane, Australia
Charlie Tsarnas
March 18, 2022
Dear Fran and Family. It is with deepest sorrow that I learned of Paul's passing. A deep, gaping space has opened up in all of us who knew, loved and admired him. It can only be filled and healed by the memories, both individual and collective, that he has left for you and us in abundance...his capacity for love and empathy, his generous spirit and his amazingly unpredictable and original mind. He has been what so many needed in times of crisis, confusion and growth. A fellow explorer and companion on uncharted roads, a celebrant so capable of exuberance and joy, a man capable of asking the hard questions while engaging in mutual searches for the truth. Paul's life made a difference, letting light into so many dark places. He will be remembered always by his family, friends, community and peers.
Charlie Tsarnas
Larry Warbasse MD
March 18, 2022
Fran, John, and Eve. I am so sorry to hear that Paul, always so much bigger than life, has passed away. As a teenager, I hero worshiped Paul, and enjoyed Fran's welcoming and mothering to all the young people who showed up at her house. Paul will always be in my heart, as I am sure he will be in yours.
Jerry and Maryjane Fromm
March 18, 2022
We have all lost a giant of a person - a giant of decency, humor, commitment and care. In our very last interaction, Paul smiled - that smile of warmth and mischief that we have all come to know, to rely on, to join with and to bask in. We will profoundly miss you, Paul, but you will always be with us. We love you.
Anne Roy
March 18, 2022
Our heartfelt condolences. Anne & Joe Roy
Paolo Migone
March 18, 2022
Paul, with tears in our eyes, we remember you with a lot of love, the warmth of you and Fran ever many years, your incredible kindness and generosity, your liveness, your joy for life Paolo and Francesca
Dolores Morris
March 17, 2022
Paul Lippman, friend and colleague.
Consultations with him influenced how I listened to patients. His groundbreaking dream analysis work lives on. He will be missed.
Sincerely,
Dolores Morris, PhD
Ann D'Ercole
March 17, 2022
Paul was a wonderful teacher and colleague. He brought us all together in thoughts and dreams. My deepest condolences to Fran and family.
Alan Gold
March 17, 2022
Paul's intelligence, sensitivity, talent, and humor will be missed. A true mensch in every respect.
Susan Mahler
March 16, 2022
I sought Paul out for supervision a number of years ago, and we worked together for several years after that, until shortly after his diagnosis. So many things he taught me are lodged in my brain as among the most intuitive and perceptive psychoanalytic truths I have every come across. But he taught me many things about myself, as well. Our relationship was not perfect; there were times that I disagreed with him or was angry, and there were times that I think he felt similarly. But beyond his intellectual and creative gifs, I was always most struck by his honesty, not only with others, but with himself. Everything he thought and said was utterly original; there was nothing derivative about Paul. He gave himself to every moment and every person with whom he interacted. I will miss him profoundly.
Ali moshiri
March 16, 2022
A great human being before all else! This went on to color his professional life as a teacher, healer, and artist.
Kathy Naventi-Brown
March 16, 2022
Dear Fran and family,
I remember you and Paul well from my time working in Stockbridge many years ago. Paul was always so lovely to talk to. May happy memories help you deal with his passing.
Sincerely,
Kathy
Mark Blechner
March 16, 2022
Paul was a great teacher and thinker who influenced several generations of psychoanalysts. He was scintillating in person and leaves an indelible legacy.
April Rollins
March 16, 2022
Dearest Eve, Sean, and family, my heart aches for your loss. I enjoyed the time I got to spend with Paul and our many talks. Great man with a huge heart. Many many hugs. Love, April (Consolini) Rollins
Beth Kozik
March 15, 2022
What an inspiring man and beautiful life. My thoughts are with all those who shared in his love.
Joan Berzoff
March 15, 2022
Paul was a truly wonderful soul, so full of life, of curiosity, of spiritual wonder, an artist, a healer, a mensch. His humor, his kindness, his social justice values, his empathy, and his love of learning were all so present as was his love for his family. I will miss him so much!
Emily Kuriloff
March 15, 2022
I am so sorry that Paul, the generous, creative, deep thinking, loving, playful Paul, the handsome, silly open minded, flirtatious Paul, is no longer on this earth. He was my teacher, my colleague, and my friend. The entire Wm. A. White Institute was deeply influenced by his depth of understanding, alongside his willingness to be fully present and appreciative of others in his midst. His innovative dream work, focusing as much on the quality of relatedness as private experience in the work, is with me and my fellow students each day. We will not see another like him. Comfort and love to his amazing wife and fellow professional Fran, and to his children John and Eve, and their children. He loved you all so much. You could see it in his blue eyes, Each time he spoke of you.
Joan Embree
March 15, 2022
It's inconceivable that Paul is not on Earth, unimageable as if all at once the sun and the moon disappered forever, as if humans became irrevocaby deaf to music and birdsong and blind to works of art and the glories of nature. Being a once-in-a-lifetime kind of person it would take to book to pay tribute to Paul's achievements, talents, the depth of his kindness and good humor, his elegence and stunning good looks. And, wasn't he and Fran the most romantic couple you ever knew. My heart breaks for you dear Fran. Together you and Paul were (and are) invaluable to The Berkshires and the greater world, and I will never forget how y ou supported me in my random endeavours. and what loving parents you were (and still are) to your amazing and wonderful children. A hushness has fallen on the land with Paul's departure, but I bet he will be often spotted across a field, in the treetops, in the sky, here and everywhere, forever and ever.
Andy Talbot
March 15, 2022
I'm very saddened to hear this. He was a great guy. To Paul's family: I am so sorry for your loss.
Susan Budnick
March 15, 2022
Carey and I are deeply sorry to hear about Paul’s passing and send our sincere comdolences to Fran and the family. I will always cherish our beloved teacher, fellow Doctor of Souls and the “godfather” of our Dreamerie. I have the warmest memories of meeting at their home with his wonderful wife Fran beside Paul! He will live on in more ways than he could ever imagine.❤
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