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Richard Stevenson Lipez

1938 - 2022

Richard Stevenson Lipez obituary, 1938-2022, Becket, MA

Richard Lipez Obituary

Richard Stevenson Lipez, 83, of Becket, died peacefully in his sleep on March 16, 2022, after a long exceptional life, and then an all-too-quick cancer. He would have liked to have lived longer, but considered himself lucky nonetheless.

He is survived by his husband, Joe Wheaton, his children, Sydney J. Lipez, of New Rochelle, NY, and Zachary H. Lipez (Zohra Atash), of New York City, his brother, John Lipez (Jeannine Lipez), and his sister, Kathy Conklin, both of Lock Haven, and eight nieces and nephews. He is predeceased by his previous wife, Hedy Lipez Burbank. He leaves behind more friends, from all walks of life, than can be noted here.

Richard was born and raised in Lock Haven, Pennsylvania, the son of Harris and Helen. As a teenager, Richard ran a weekly jazz show on WBPZ, the radio station founded and managed by his father. Lipez attended Lock Haven State College (now Lock Haven University of Pennsylvania), and earned his Bachelor of Science in English with a minor in History. He began graduate studies in American Literature at the Pennsylvania State University, but opted to volunteer for the Peace Corps in 1962 before graduating. He taught English Language and Composition to ninth grade public school students in Addis Ababa, Ethiopia. Lipez would maintain friendships with some of his students for the rest of his life, taking no small amount of joy in their accomplishments and those of their children. He met Halie Selassie once, but the conversation, with Selassie responding to Lipez's recitation of the emperor's various titles with an acknowledging "humph," was largely one-sided.

From 1964 to 1967, under the mentorship of the future founder and editor-in-chief of Washington Monthly, Charlie Peters, Lipez worked as a Peace Corps program evaluator out of Washington, DC. His work brought him to Ethiopia, India, the Caribbean, and Central America. He also helped train new volunteers at the University of Utah.

After his time in the Peace Corps, Lipez moved to The Berkshires with Hedy Harris, who he'd met through the Peace Corps and married in 1968, where he served as the executive director for Action for Opportunity, an anti-poverty agency. In that capacity he, among other things, assisted local residents in their conflicts with rapacious landlords. In 1970, he left the organization to focus on writing and journalism full-time.

Lipez wrote book reviews for Newsday and Washington Post (the latter of which he would continue to freelance for right till the very end), editorials for The Berkshire Eagle, and columns, reviews, and satirical pieces for Harpers, The Atlantic, and Newsweek. The topics that he applied his pointed, rarely unkind, wit to ranged from Nixon to Dr. Seuss to the innumerable psychobabble fads that the 1970s (and every decade since) were lousy with. Another popular, far more affectionately rendered, topic was the antics of his beloved young daughter, Sydney. In 1979, he co-authored his first novel, a thriller titled Grand Scam with Peter Stein.

Lipez's main legacy, surpassed only by, and hopefully he'd forgive the cliche, the love and laughter he bestowed upon so many, is the character of Donald Strachey. Starting in 1981, with the novel Death Trick, the Strachey series was a pioneering work; depicting an openly gay Albany detective navigating various underworlds in a style that was wryly outraged by iniquity and as skrewball as it was hardboiled. For every book, Lipez would reread Chandler before he began writing. The series was equally informed by Richard's encyclopedic knowledge of My Man Godfrey, current events, and the lyrics of Cole Porter. Not to mention a sense of the absurd that drew liberally from both the comedic stylings of Bob & Ray and, well, life. Books in the series have been included in the syllabus of Maureen Corrigan's American Detective Fiction course at Georgetown University. A number of them were made into TV movies for the Here! network. Richard wasn't too crazy about the movies, but they have their charms. The Strachey series is currently being republished by Requeered Tales, a publisher working to preserve the literary heritage of the LGBTQ community by republishing out of print titles and new titles from older series, with a new Strachey novel being released in fall of 2022. A non-Strachey mystery, set in Philadelphia in the 1950s, is due for April of this year, on Michael Nava's Persigo Press. The fact that Richard did not live to see the publication of these books is a cosmic injustice that makes one's jaw hurt.

In 2003, Lipez and the visual artist Joe Wheaton became the second couple to get married in Becket. They walked down the aisle to Screaming Jay Hawkins' "I Put A Spell On You."

Lipez continued both writing and advocating for LGBTQ+ rights (along with numerous other progressive causes) for his entire life. His final days, under the constant and superhumanly vivacious care of his husband, were spent reading, watching TMC, listening to Ella Fitzgerald, and occasionally reciting passages from Macbeth in Amharic. Sitting under his blankets, in the sunlight, still strikingly handsome, if also looking a bit like a skinny FDR and a bit like a Dame Maggie Smith, he maintained his infectious, sharp, sense of humor and sweet, sweet thoughtfulness. He went out with less regrets than most. He left behind a world less clever and kind for his absence.

A celebration of Richard's life will be announced at a later date. Donations can be made in his name to the Southern Poverty Law Center.

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Published by The Berkshire Eagle on Mar. 18, 2022.

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Bert Gaylord

December 13, 2023

Hay,Dick, do me a favor please, and show Jim around while you share stories.

Amy Cotler/Tom Powers

December 12, 2023

A joyous wedding. Supper in the Bangkok apartment. Reading his mysteries. His kindness. Stories of the Peace Corp. I can't imagine the grief, mixed with the rewards of a good marriage and best friend. Sending lotsa hugs to Joe.

Gill

December 30, 2022

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Winnie Williams

April 2, 2022

In loving memories, I send you good vibrations!

Stephen and Don Collingsworth

March 31, 2022

We are very saddened to hear of this. We were just checking Amazon the other day for any of Dick's novels that we were missing. We were finishing the library and shelving his books, which made us think to check. To Joe and the rest of Dick's family, both biological and chosen, we send our deepest condolences.

Susan Pinsker

March 25, 2022

I first met Dick when he and Joe were hosting the initial board meetings of the Berkshire Community Stonewall Coalition in their home in Pittsfield. They were such gracious hosts and board meetings were always lively and thoroughly enjoyable. And we accomplished so much! Dick´s intellect, vivaciousness, commitment, humanity and sense of humor made every interaction with him a delight. He will be sorely missed. My heartfelt condolences to his loved ones.

Susan Averbach

March 22, 2022

Love transcends all time.
Love transcends all time.
It is the voice inside the heart that never stops singing.
It is the voice inside the heart that never stops singing.

Jim Nejaime

March 22, 2022

Dear Joe,
So very saddened to learn of the passing of your husband Richard. Sending you sympathy, prayers & love.

Mary Bauman

March 21, 2022

Dear Joe, sending you and Dick's family and friends much love during this time of sorrow. I'm so sorry for your loss. May sweet memories bring you some peace.
Mary

Quentin Stocum and Larry Ferree

March 20, 2022

Joe,
Larry and I are saddened to hear that your dear husband, Dick, has left this world with many things undone. Quentin and Larry

Jim Bunnell

March 20, 2022

Dick was a good guy and a great life long friend to my mom and dad. He will be missed.

Amy Cotler

March 19, 2022

Oh, so sorry. What a lovely man. Condolences to Joe and the rest of his family. xoxox

Marc & Eileen Rosenthal

March 19, 2022

We´ve missed you both for the last 2 years but now we will have to miss Dick forever. This is just too sad.

Bert and Jim

March 19, 2022

Very sorry about Dicks passing.
We were privileged to have known him, and hope that your grief will be cushioned by the many fond memories you share.
Joe, Sydney, Zachery.

MikeLombardi

March 18, 2022

Dear Sydney, i m so sorry to read of the loss of your father. He sounds like an amazing man. I remember you telling me about him long ago. Nothing prepares you foe the loss of a parent. It takes a long time to come to terms with it. Sending you all of my love and friendship to you and yours.

JoAnne Jones

March 18, 2022

Right now, all of my memories are the same: Joe and Dick. A space filled with energy, laughter, deep talk, trash talk, book talk and then food and drink.

Julie Michaels

March 18, 2022

What a lovely man. I remember meeting Dick at the Berkshire Eagle when I was 27 (I am now 72!). He was charming, gracious, witty, and tall. That we have lost that elegant Eagle duo of editorial writers-Don MacGillis and Dick Lipez-in the same year is almost too much to bear. Condolences to Joey and three cheers for Dick's wonderful life.

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