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Stephen B. Southard

1934 - 2020

Stephen B. Southard obituary, 1934-2020, Pittsfield, MA

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1934

DIED

2020

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Stephen Southard Obituary

Stephen Barry Southard, 86, of 4 Upper Valley Road, Washington, died Wednesday, July 22, 2020, at his home.

Born in Stephentown, New York on July 15, 1934, the son of the late Anna Southard and Walter Southard of Stephentown, NY, he was educated in local schools.

A Korean War veteran, he enlisted with the United States Navy on May 20, 1952 and served aboard the USS Iowa, USS Baltimore and the USS Salem and was honorably discharged with the rank of FN on May19 1960.

Mr. Southard was a self-employed contractor who did renovations, roofing, plumbing, and anything that crossed his path that needed fixing, as he said, "Jack of All Trades". He enjoyed painting houses inside and out. He had a gift to make something useful out of what could seem like an impossible situation like turning a chicken coup into an office for an automotive business! He could jack up an old house with a stone foundation and hand mix concrete to pour a wall in place of a stone foundation that no one else would even consider doing because of the hard work and special skills involved. He was a hard working man who was dedicated to providing for the needs of his family. He lived simply and enjoyed being outdoors. He had at one time been employed as a manager for Merriam-Graves for several years.

He loved mowing the lawn at his home of 56 years where he hosted many family gatherings with plenty of guitar playing, and music and musicians of all kinds. He also enjoyed antiquing, bottle hunting, and tag sales.

Mr. Southard leaves his wife, the former Joan L. Trombley, whom he married October 29, 1955.

He is also survived by five children: Larry Southard of Otis, Rick (and Connie) Southard of Washington, Steve Southard, Jr. of Poquoson, Va., Kim Boody of Windsor, and Lori Johnson of Pittsfield; 15 grandchildren, 30 great grandchildren, and many nieces and nephews.

He was pre-deceased by his youngest son, Randy Southard, who died October 2, 1984, as well as five brothers, Walter Southard, Jim Southard, Harold Southard, Ed Odonnel, and Peter Southard, and five sisters, Rosie Boise, Fran Southard, Ann Waterman, Margaret Odonnel , and Irene LeBarron.

Mr. Southard's family would like to express their thanks and appreciation to Hospice of Western and Central Massachusetts, and Dr. Kimberly May and Michelle Rachielle at the Pittsfield Veterans Administration Clinic, and Kindred at Home, for all their loving care.

FUNERAL NOTICE: There are no services planned. However, if friends desire, contributions in memory of Mr. Southard may be made to Hospice of Western Massachusetts and or Kindred at Home in care of DERY FUNERAL HOME, 54 Bradford Street, Pittsfield.

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Published by The Berkshire Eagle on Jul. 24, 2020.

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Ruthann O'Donnell Emerson Lange

November 23, 2020

Sorry to hear of Uncle Steve's passingm, I just found out. Wish things could have been different. My Condolances to Joan and family.

Stacie Butterfield

July 28, 2020

I am so sorry for your loss, I will be keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.

Jane Farrell Link

July 26, 2020

Our sincere condolences to all the Southard family. Steve came into our lives every summer as he stopped by to fix someting and visit. We loved the amazing stories of his adventures usually including a "close call"doing some job by himself. I always believed he had 9 lives. Finally he can rest. He took care of our old house, kept it together, cared about it, made us aware of how important it was. As I look back, he gave us an identity as keepers of the place. That has made all the difference. Thank you Steve. You are always in our hearts. McLoughlin/Farrell family

Maureen Meiers

July 25, 2020

HI JOAN AND FAMILY,
.I WISH TO EXPRESS MY CONDOLENCE TO YOU AND YOURS IN THE PASSING OF STEPHEN.I LOSS BOB ALMOST TWO YEARS AGO..KEEP THOSE MEMORIES ALIVE..

Janet

July 25, 2020

RIP Mr. Southard! I will always remember the time you laughed at me and Kim when we changed the tire in your driveway after I tried to break out sideways and bring it back around in Bobby's GTO on upper Valley Rd. (It didn't go quite as planned) lol. Then there were all the times at the coffee counter at the General! Mrs. Southard,, Kim, Lori, Steve Jr, Ricky, and Larry I am so sorry for your loss, having lost my Dad 4 years ago I know the feeling of that loss all to well! Hugs to you all! I wish I could say it gets easier...... I guess I will say you learn how to live with the loss better each passing day! I still miss my Dad every day and I have good days and bad days I am sure he is reunited with Randy in heaven Hopefully that will give you some comfort! Sending up special prayers for healing hearts for you all! Love Janet

Anne & John Ruggeri

July 25, 2020

To Mrs Southard, Lori and ALL the rest of Mr Southard’s family and friends, I am very sorry. Lori had helped my family, on more than one hospital discharge and I’m relieved to see that Mr Southard was able to be at j hi one with his family. It’s hard, no matter what, but it’s so much nicer you could be with him 24/7. That’s important.
My deepest condolences. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Michael Patricelli

July 25, 2020

To Rick , Lori and the Southard family. Sorry to here of the passing of your dad. May he rest in peace.

Sue Persson

July 24, 2020

I enjoyed getting to know Steve the past few years. My sympathy to Joan and the rest of the family.

Patricia Gilchrist

July 24, 2020

My sincere condolences to the entire Southard family for the loss of your precious Stephen. I have many a teen age memory of hanging out at the Southard's house and listening to the band jam.

Judy Klein

July 24, 2020

Aunt Joan and family, Uncle Steve will always be in my heart. I remember his kindness to me when I was only a little girl on the farm and then all thru the years he had a special place in my heart. He will be missed. My love to all..

Jill Lane

July 24, 2020

So sorry for your loss. May God comfort you all at this time. Sincerely Jill Lane

Millie Houghtlin

July 24, 2020

I remember he loved to square dance. I just want to say how sorry Pete and I are for your loss.

Beverly Black

July 24, 2020

Uncle Steve may have left this earth but he has left a wonderful legacy in the family he left behind. He instilled in each of his children to be hard workers and solid citizens. He will be remembered by all of us who knew him and when we do, we will smile. That was our Uncle Steve, a very unique man.

Michele, Jim, Dayton & Griffin Keifer

July 24, 2020

Thinking of you all, so sorry for your loss ❤ Sending love & Sympathy

Tina Sweet

July 24, 2020

Steve was definitely a one-of-a-kind "character". We enjoyed many in-depth conversations about life and work and difficulties, always interspersed with his unique witty remarks. He was a hard worker, who loved his family, and at times, wore his heart on his sleeve. My love goes out to Joan, Kim, Steve, Larry, Lori and all who loved him. May he be strumming with abandon and a big grin on his face.

Deb Turcotte Murach

July 24, 2020

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Neet

July 24, 2020

Well, well, well, Mr. Southard. I have never met you, but I have heard so much about you. First, thank you for your service, Sir..........
Kim. You did it!! I'm so happy that you were able to bring your dad back home, to the place he loved the most. As hard as this has been on you, you showed us your strength and determination and i believe I know who you got that from! :) I'm so happy that he's able to rest now and I hope you can too, knowing that you took really good care of him.
I know you're hurting, having to say good-bye and for that, I'm really sorry........
Peace and love to you and your family.
Neet

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