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Vinton J. Withers

1947 - 2025

BORN

1947

DIED

2025

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Vinton Withers Obituary

Vinton James Withers, 78, of Becket, Massachusetts, passed away unexpectedly on December 6, 2025. Born in Pittsfield on September 11, 1947, to Franklyn and Maritta Withers , Vinton was a beloved son, brother, uncle and friend whose warmth and humor touched countless lives.

Vint attended Bridgewater State University and Berkshire Community College, where he proudly belonged to the TKB fraternity (Tappa Kega Beer!), Vint built a distinguished career as a skilled machinist. He traveled extensively with Clark Aiken Corporation before joining Crescent Paper Corporation and later establishing his own Curmudgeon Car Service, a venture that perfectly captured his spirited personality, where he freely shared his wisdom, views (political or not!)

Vint was a man of cherished routines and passions. He was a fixture at Joe's Diner for daily breakfasts, a devoted New York Yankees fan, and an avid reader. For many years, he spent many happy times deer hunting at the family camp in Upton, Maine - a place he helped build, creating lasting memories with those he loved.

Vint was a natural storyteller who possessed the rare gift of making everyone around him laugh. His tales and infectious humor created bonds that will endure long beyond his passing.

He is survived by his brothers Mark (Rhoda), Glenn (Sally), Matt (Michelle), and Steve (Nikki); sisters Kathy (Lloyd), and Debra; cherished nieces and nephews Judi Winters, Staci Barrett, Adam Walsh , Brendan Walsh, Lucas Withers, Kayla Brazeau, Gavin Withers and Kris Herlihy; and special friend Dick James.

Vint was predeceased by his parents and beloved sister Mary Rathbun.

Per his wishes, no services will be held. Memorial donations may be made to the Lee High Football Gridiron or Berkshire Humane Society, c/o Kelly Funeral Home, 3 Main St., Lee, MA 01238.

If you would like to leave a message of condolence or share pictures with the family, please visit our web site at www.kellyfuneralhome.net

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Berkshire Eagle on Dec. 13, 2025.

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Ann Spadafora

December 20, 2025

I am so sorry to learn of Vint's passing. I had known him for decades - always friendly and funny. We last met at our doctor's office. My warmest condolences to his family and all who knew him.

pamela florus

December 19, 2025

prayers to Vinnie's family. You have had so much loss recently. I remember Vinnie with smiles and laughter. We originally went to BCC together many years ago and connected later on. He was a good man; very intelligent. May you rest in peace Vinnie.

ralph joe langdon

December 16, 2025

vint was one of a kind condolence to the entire family

Tim Winn

December 16, 2025

To Matt and Family:

Very sorry to hear that Vint has passed. He was a good man.

May he rest in peace.

Tim winn

Michelle and Brian Buratto

December 16, 2025

Praying for the entire Withers family at this most difficult time, Vint and Mary will be missed.

Fred Minkle

December 14, 2025

I met you at Joe´s in 2018. You were the first person I met in Lee. You welcomed me to the Berkshires A memory forever.

Janice Welch Olds

December 13, 2025

Sending my condolences to Vint´s family & friends. We worked together @ a flower shop one summer & he was the delivery driver~such fun times & laughs! There was always a smile on his face .Vint was an original. He surely will be missed by many. Rest in Peace.
With deep sympathy,
Janice Olds

Carol e. Fletcher

December 13, 2025

Many fond memories with Vint. He tricked me by putting battered dipped frogs legs in a Chinese food container and he grinned while I ate "chicken."
Always felt protected and seen as a kid with him. So sorry for family and friends loss. Prayers and thoughts for you all.

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