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Bert Patrick Eder

RED LODGE - Bert Patrick Eder was tragically taken from us too soon, two days after his 100th Birthday, where he celebrated with friends and family (and lots of cake). Bert Patrick Eder was born in Indianapolis, Indiana, on Dec 16, 1923 to Ray Martin Eder and Minnie Sky Arrow. Bert was one of four brothers: Jimmy, Jack, and Ray K. When his mother died, he was sent to live on the Fort Peck Assiniboine Sioux Reservation near Wolf Point with his grandmother, Maude Buckles. He attended the Fort Peck Agency Boarding School in Poplar. Later, Bert attended Poplar High School, where he had many adventures, including jumping on the ice flows of the Missouri River.

After World War II began, Bert (illegally) joined the National Guard for 9 months while underage. He enlisted (for real) in the Army Air Force in 1943. He served on Tinian in the Mariana Islands building runways. When he returned to the US, he worked at the Great Falls Air Base and was in the National Guard for another 3 years. Back on the reservation he held many jobs, including being a Tribal Policeman. He lived life with gusto: riding broncs, learning to fly airplanes, and getting drunk with friends. He married and had nine children, but then his wife left him. Bert knew it was time to settle down and quit drinking. That's when Alcoholics Anonymous came into his life. Bert began trying to help others on the Reservation suffering from alcoholism through several organized efforts.

He married Jo Ann Eder, a VISTA who worked with some of his children. They moved to Lame Deer on the Northern Cheyenne Reservation where they had many friends. Their son Mark was later born at the Crow Agency Hospital. That made 10 kids!

Due to his AA efforts, he was hired to run a program through Rocky Mountain College and the University of Utah to help organize similar programs on the other Reservations. This led to his position as Chief of the Indian Desk at the newly formed National Institute of Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism in D.C. Bert eventually resigned due to bureaucratic restrictions, but remained a consultant for several more years. He was sober for 57 years, and spent most of those helping others.

The last months of Bert's life were made comfortable by visits from his friends and the exceptional care provided by Shilo Moncada, Yasha and Jody Ackerman, and the Beartooth Billings Clinic Hospice team.

The family is also grateful to Rubin Ackerman, John Potter, Gerald Sherman, and Jael Kampfe for ensuring that Bert joined his Native ancestors with appropriate ritual.

At the time of his death, Bert was the oldest living member of his tribe. He is preceded in death by his parents, his three brothers, his sister-in-law Catherine Rider Eder, as well as three of his children, Gregory, Gloria, and Georgianna. Bert is survived by his beloved wife Jo Ann; his seven living children: Gary, Gail [Ray], Bert Jr (Pat), Sunshine, Glenn [Suzanne], Galen, and Mark [Kim]; and his many grandchildren, great grandchildren, nephews, nieces and their families.[ya%]

[cw31][cs0][f20][p9.5][v10.5][s11.4][r%][ya] The memorial service will be held Tuesday, February 6, 2024, at 11:00 a.m. at St. Agnes Catholic Church in Red Lodge. In lieu of flowers, Bert requested that donations be made to St. Agnes Catholic Church, P.O. Box 1067, Red Lodge, MT 59068, or to the Montana Rescue Mission, P.O. Box 3232, Billings, MT 59103. [ya%]

[cw31][cs0][f20][p9.5][v10.5][s11.4][r%][ya]A graveside service and internment of Bert's ashes is expected in summer 2024. [ya%]


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Published by Billings Gazette on Jan. 19, 2024.

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Joan (Mager) Harrison

May 21, 2025

Bert was the first Chief at the NIAA Indian Desk, where I worked as his secretary. Although he scared me a little at first (being a white timid woman), he became a loved and admired colleague and friend to many. We called him our "Diamond in the Rough." I hated to see Bert leave the Desk, but he knew it was time. He taught me many things "Indian" and "alcohol" and I had great respect for him. I saw him off and on through the years, but then lost touch. I am so happy to see he lived a long, enriched life. My belated condolences to his family. (I'm sorry I'm just seeing this announcement.)
An old friend (91 years old).

Rayola Eder

December 28, 2024

Uncle Bert has been a family cornerstone for many of us. He and his first wife Gladys were my Godparents when I became a Catholic as a child. They were Godparents for my sister, Karen and brothers, Kiefer and Bernard, and our brother George stayed with the Presbyterian Church. We had a lot of fun with their playhouse Uncle Bert built in his backyard. After Aunt Gladys left, Auntie Joann came into Uncle Bert's life as a Vista worker. We liked her and she encouraged us and helped us with our schooling. Uncle Bert married her as she warmed our hearts with her love. My condolences go out to her faithful and loving heart that she shared with all of us. Counting Uncle's children, nieces, nephews and her precious child, Mark she had with Uncle Bert she inherited a tribe. Thank you for that Auntie Joann.

Sandy Greene

March 5, 2024

I can still see that handsome man riding his motorcycle in front of our house on N. Word.
I'm so sorry to hear of his passing.

Robert J. Miklas, AT2AC, USN, 1963-1967.

January 27, 2024

"A soldier has passed away today." You have made your final march down the lonely dusty trail. You are now relieved from your post. A job well done fellow veteran. America thanks you for your service to our country in the defense of freedom and democracy. The final battle is now over and peace has been restored. The final bugle has sounded and taps is about to sound ending a successful career as a nation“s defender and community servant. Farewell fellow veteran. A Navy Vietnam Veteran.

Steve Pihl

January 25, 2024

I met this fine man shortly after I moved to Red Lodge over 20 years ago. A vibrant and dynamic individual. The couple were also acquainted with Frank and Linda Planichek.
What a rich History....what a wonderful life.

Kim Waples

January 19, 2024

Bert was an amazing man who shared his experience, strength and hope with many people. I appreciated his amazing humor and his genuine love for life. He was an end to an era and I miss him. Many Blessings for his family.

Bill Eickman

January 11, 2024

I'll always remember putting up the Teepee by the cabin with some grandkids, riding with him in that old green Subaru "bang! Quit slamming that car door," and his great blessings at Thanksgiving dinners: "good family, good meat, good god lets eat!" So grateful for even the short time I had with such an amazing human being.

Barrie Boulds

January 10, 2024

My deepest condolences to the Bert Eder family! Bert was one of the first people I met at City Bakery when I moved to Red Lodge. I was so happy that someone from my hometown of Poplar lived here. He had so many stories of my parent's drugstore and he always teased me about the pack of Boulds kids running around (there were 11 of us). I loved visiting him. He was an extraordinary person and everyone who knew him was blessed. May you find peace knowing that he is walking beside you every day and keeping watch on your family.

Cluster of 50 Memorial Trees

Cathie Graham

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Glenda Lane (Allen)

January 10, 2024

We hiked up a mountain to look at an unimproved lot to see what the views would be if he built a road and built a cabin. He and Jo Ann did build that cabin and it had great views.

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