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Kyle Shirlin Obituary

Kyle David Shirlin, 19 passed away August 21, in Charleston, SC.
Born in Raleigh, NC, he was the eldest son of Dave and Karen Shirlin of Hendersonville, NC.
Kyle was the older brother of Emma and Trey Shirlin both of Hendersonville.
He graduated Hendersonville High School in June 2015 and moved to Charleston after graduation to pursue studies in Graphic Arts and Photography. Kyle was employed as a valet at the Historic Hyatt in downtown Charleston.
Kyle was a skilled photographer and artist specializing in urban art, streetscapes and abandoned buildings, and enjoyed all that Charleston offered for a young budding photographer. He loved spending time on the Blue Ridge Parkway with friends as well as being at Folly beach. He was a loving son, brother, cousin, grandson, and nephew. He was a loyal and supportive friend to many, and immensely adored his beautiful girlfriend, Cassidy Carter.
In addition to his parents and siblings, Kyle was loved and supported by an extensive family including: his paternal grandmother Linda Shirlin of Hendersonville, NC, aunt Kimberly Woody (Rick) of Hendersonville, NC and cousins Lauren Reed, Rachel Reed, and Kate Angel, Jordan Cox, and Lilly Morrow.
Also, his maternal grandfather Jack Betler of New Bern, NC, uncle Frank Betler of Raleigh, NC, aunt Anna Betler-Morehouse (Jerry) of New Bern, NC, aunt Theresa Betler Stankus (John) of Tornado, WV, aunt Pam Betler Kimberlin (Kevin) of Armington, IL, and cousins Jonathan Stankus (Stephanie) of Vine Grove, KY. Cousins Keaton Betler, Livia Kimberlin, Josie Vaughan, and Langston Stankus.
Kyle was proceeded in death by his paternal grandfather, David Shirlin, Sr., and his maternal grandmother, JoAn Betler.
A private family memorial service will be held at 5 pm on Saturday, August 27.
From 6 – 8 pm, the family will welcome guests to pay their respects at Jump Off Rock Park, Laurel Park, NC. Parking is available at the First Congressional Church, 1735 Fifth Avenue. Shuttle buses will provide transportation up the mountain, due to limited parking at the visitation.
The family has requested that no media representatives attend the events.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Art Department, Hendersonville High School, One Bearcat Blvd, Hendersonville, NC 28791.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Times-News from Aug. 25 to Aug. 26, 2016.

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Rodney & Anne Brown

October 21, 2016

We recently heard the tragic news about Kyle. Words can"t express how this made are hearts hurt for you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

September 1, 2016

we love you much Bill &Kathy shirlin

Bertha Middleton

September 1, 2016

To the Family,

Know that the thoughts and prayers of may are with you during this sad, yet difficult time. May God Comfort you and grant you peace.

BSMiddleton

Derrick and Pat Jackson

August 31, 2016

Dave,

We are just heartbroken to hear about your terrible loss. It is unimaginable. You and your family are in our thoughts are prayers. Please accept our condolences and please don't hesitate to reach out.

Derrick and Pat Jackson

August 31, 2016

To the Shirlin Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. I first met your family at Clear Creek Elementary all the way up to HHS. May your pain and hurt be healed as much as possible and as much as you allow God to bring peace. God Bless you all.

Love Charlotte Mills Davis and my Rasheed children.

william white

August 30, 2016

My Condolences for your child.

P. Otto Betler

August 30, 2016

You are all in my prayers. I said Mass for Kyle the day I got the news.

Ray-Tatia Arnold

August 28, 2016

So sorry Dave and Karen,we enjoyed Kyle,He was great kid that had turned into a great young man,Dall and Dustin loved hanging out with him,he will be sorely missed,he will not be forgotten ,he made his mark with our family,he had a happy soul,our prayers and thoughts go out to you and family,Sincerly Ray,Tatia,Dallas and Dustin Arnold,Rest in Peace Kyle.

Monica Dehnert

August 27, 2016

Our hearts go out to you, may God comfort you and family. Paul and Monica

Rob and Kathy Price

August 27, 2016

Dave,Karen,Emma and Trey, our hearts ache for you. Kyle was very special to us. We have so many fond memories celebrating birthdays, Christmas, 4th of July and just getting together. We will cherish the time we had together. Rob is honored to be Kyle's Godfather and he will always have a special place in our hearts. We are here for you the days, weeks, months and years ahead. Praying for God's comfort, compassion and strength as you deal with his loss. We are so sorry. God bless you. We love you! Rob, Kathy, Emily and Jacob

Birthday June 2014

Kathy Price

August 27, 2016

Christmas 2012

Kathy Price

August 27, 2016

Christmas 2014

Kathy Price

August 27, 2016

Christmas 2012

Kathy Price

August 27, 2016

August 27, 2016

To the Parents and Family of Kyle...I am so very heartbroken and saddened for you to read about someone so young and vibrant losing their life in such a horrible tragedy. You are sincerely in my thoughts and prayers...GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY...

the Lord is my constant help in times of trouble...

Wanda Dupree

August 26, 2016

Karen, David, Linda, Emma & Trey- our hearts are so grieved and sad for the whole family, Karen. I can think of nothing harder than the loss of a child.
But you are not alone, hoping you feel the love of friends who care and are praying, and the grace and comfort that only our Lord can give you in a time such as this. Your son will surely live on in your hearts, his memories and spirit will be comforting for you in the days ahead.
sending you love and hugs,
Wanda and Steve Dupree (Pam's NC friends)

August 26, 2016

Deepest condolences to the Shirlin Family on the loss of your beloved Kyle...
Let the Promises of Our Heavenly Father sustain you through this unimaginable difficult time and comfort you until you greet Kyle again...God Bless...

John Portelli

August 26, 2016

May God bless and help you all in this time of sorrow.

Beverly Williams

August 26, 2016

Karen, I am friends with Pam and Kevin through Bradley. I was heartbroken to hear about Kyle. Losing a child is the worst pain a parent can experience. My thoughts and prayers have been with you and Dave and your family, and will continue to be. May God give you all the comfort that can only come from Him.

Judy and Chris Ricker

August 26, 2016

Karen, David, Linda, Emma & Trey,
We are so sorry for your loss of this beautiful member of your family. You are with us in our hearts, and prayers with peace, grace, and love.

Mike Miller

August 26, 2016

My family has been praying for yours. We will continue lifting you up to God. Please let us know if there is anything we are able to do for you.

Doc and Joyce Roberts

August 26, 2016

Dave, There are no words to express how badly we for you and your whole family. Just know that we keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Stay strong. Doc and Joyce Roberts

Bennett Hodgins

August 26, 2016

So sad to see such a young and talented boy go before his time. We are truly sorry for you lost.

John Hart

August 26, 2016

Dave, my thoughts are with you and your family during such trying times.

Kelly McCartney

August 26, 2016

We are all heartbroken for Dave, Karen, and the kids. Such a loving family and such a huge loss! Love you all!

Rise' Hawkins Hoyle

August 26, 2016

May God bless Dave, Karen and the Shirlin family for the loss of their beautiful son. I too have lost a son. I pray that God will bless you with warm and loving memories of Kyle and his radiant smile. May there be rainbows to remind you; he is always with you. Kyle has touched many lives and that legacy will always remain. God Bless you Always.You will remain in my thoughts and prayers.

Karyn Buckner Garvin

August 26, 2016

God Bless you all...you are in my prayers..

Bruce Buchanan

August 25, 2016

Karen, David, Linda, Emma & Trey:

We know there's nothing we could say or do to help ease your pain but we hope somehow you've felt our thoughts for all of you as you've begun to deal with the loss of Kyle. Four generations of your family have meant so much to ours over these many years. Please know that we always keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

Your Sylva family,

Margie, Kay & Sam, Ann & Jim , Bruce

Chris, Natalie, Maci, and Jamison Kiefer

August 25, 2016

Our sincere and deepest condolences to the Shirlin/Betler family. Unfortunately, we never had the opportunity to meet Kyle, but can tell from pictures and from friends/family sentiments what a special soul he was. He left a beautiful mark on this world with his sense of humor, love of life and photography, and his compassion for others. His purpose was fulfilled here according to God's will. May God rest your sweet soul Kyle. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this time.

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