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ALFRED BUTLER Obituary

BUTLER, Alfred Leo "Al" Jr. To one and all, 83 years of age, of Kennebunk, formerly of Reading and Dorchester, MA, died on Tuesday, October 9, 2012 at his residence following a long illness. He was born in Cambridge, MA on August 14, 1929, a son of Alfred Leo Butler, Sr. and Evelyn M. (Perry) Butler. He grew up in Dorchester before moving to Reading, where he graduated from Reading High School. He continued on to college, earning his Bachelor's Degree from Boston College. Following college, he was drafted into the United States Marine Corps, where he served from 1951 to 1959. Al met his future wife, the former Elaine Isabella Keppe, in 1958. Al's brother was dating Elaine's sister and a date was arranged. They were married on May 31, 1958 and celebrated their 54th anniversary this year. And, yes, Al's brother married Elaine's sister! He was employed as an inspector at Stone-Webster Company for over 28 years, retiring in 1991. Al enjoyed sports of all kinds. In his younger days, he was an outstanding softball player. In later years, he coached his sons' hockey teams. He was a member of Holy Spirit Parish/St. Martha's Church in Kennebunk. He was also a former member of the Knights of Columbus. Al was predeceased by a son, Brian William Butler, and by 2 brothers, Gerald and Robert Butler. Survivors include his loving wife of 54 years, Elaine Butler of Kennebunk; 5 children, Alfred Butler and his wife Laura of Casco, ME, Lenane Butler of Ocean Park, WA, Michael Butler of Kennebunk, ME, Paul Butler and his wife Liz of Milford, NH, and Denise Elliott and her husband Chris of Seattle, WA; his brother, Paul "Barry" Butler and his wife Janice of North Reading, MA; his sisters-in-law, Eleanor Butler, and Donna Butler. Calling hours will be on Monday, October 15, 2012 from 4 to 7 p.m. at Bibber Memorial Chapel, 67 Summer Street, KENNEBUNK. A Memorial Mass will be celebrated on Tuesday, October 16, 2012 at 11:00 a.m. at Holy Spirit Parish/St. Martha's Church, 30 Portland Road, Kennebunk. Should friends choose, memorial donations in his memory may be made to: The American Lung Association of Maine, 122 State Street, Augusta, ME 04330. Arrangements are in care of Bibber Memorial Chapel, 67 Summer Street, Kennebunk. www.bibberfuneral.com

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Published by Boston Globe from Oct. 11 to Oct. 12, 2012.

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October 28, 2012

So sorry for your loss. Thinking of you all. xo Poree family, Casco, ME

Stacy Finlay

October 15, 2012

Dear Butler Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time.

Lisa Beaudry

October 14, 2012

Hello to the Butler family -- my thoughts are with you all at this sad time. Your dad was such a gentleman and I have such fond thoughts of you all from babysitting you and sharing neighborhood memories of Kingston Street, Mt. Vernon Street and Linden Street friends. I see my dad signed the guestbook as well. Fond memories of your dad will ease your pain.

The Bibber Family

October 14, 2012

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

Marilyn Gagnon

October 12, 2012

Dear Elaine and family, Norm and I send our deepest sympathy,love, Cousin Marilyn

Janice Jones

October 12, 2012

So sorry Elaine to hear of Al's passing.
Our families had so many years of good times, all the kids growing up together in the same neighborhood. Good memories!
You have a wonderful loving family to hold on to.
We offer our deepest condolences to you and your family.

Love,
Janice Jones and family.

October 12, 2012

benjamin Beaudry the Beaudry family

MILLIE & BUD DICKEY

October 12, 2012

DEAR ELAINE & FAMILY

SO SORRY TO READ ABOUT YOUR AL.

charles crosby

October 12, 2012

Elain and family,
So sorry to hear of sonny's passing,seems like just yesterday we were all growing up in N.Reading.How quickly the time goes by.

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