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Peri Schultz
March 21, 2018
Dear Eleanor, your message touched me deeply regarding the loss of my son. Here I find you have lost your husband. God bless you and hold you all gently. Love, Peri
Anna Foster
November 18, 2007
I was a member of the Covenant House Faith Community from 1984-1988. I had heard of Allan; don't remember if I met him but it pains me to know that he is gone, especially that his wife and children will have to go on without him. Thanks for this blog. Anna Foster
Ed & Mary Thomas
November 17, 2007
My wife and I first met Allan beween 1983-1985 in Manhattan. We prayed, worked, and had some fun times together in Covenant One Community, New York. Allan attended our wedding in Arlington, VA in 1985. His deep devotion to Christ was reflected in the joy of serving God's poor homeless children at Covenant House. Allan was a shining example of selflessness. We received the Eucharist and prayed the rosary together. Allan visted my wife Mary, our children and I at our home in Worcester after Covenant House. You may have seen the pictures of us in the annual christmas card. We are the blessed parents of 10 children. It is a joy to know there are 3 children and a lucky spouse who have the wonderful grace of knowing such a gifted beautiful person as Allan. We did not learn of Allan's death until today. It is today we pray for him, and at daily Mass he will be remembered. We will inform all of our friends from Covenant House to pray for your family.
Rich Gopen
November 17, 2007
Allan was one of the nicest people I've known at the Volpe Center. His family should know that he is missed by many, many people there.
November 16, 2007
Dear Mrs. DeBlasio, Mary, Frankie, and Katie,
We want you to know that we are thinking of you and keeping you in our payers. Mr. DeBlasio was a kind and funny man, who helped us at BSS a lot. We're sure he is watching all of us from heaven.
Mary and Frankie, we look forward to your return to our school.
Love,
The Blessed Sacrament Middle School
Rose Byrne
November 14, 2007
Eleanor, Mary, Frankie and Katie
Our prayers and thoughts are with you. Allan was a wonderful father and husband. You now have an angel watching over you.
Rose, Richard, Jessica, Caitlin and Samantha
Ann DiMare
November 14, 2007
I met Allan in October at the Volpe Center. It was immediately obvious to me what a wonderful person he was. His quiet, caring demeanor helped support me through a difficult time. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Barry Devine
November 13, 2007
On behalf of all the members of the Norwood Amateur Radio Club, and the Norwood ARC VE Team, I would like to express our deepest condolences to the family of Allan. Aside from being a brother member of the Ham Radio community, he was also a dear friend to many of us.
73's Allan.
Thomas Brown
November 13, 2007
Dear Frankie,
I am sorry about your Dad. He was the best cub scout leader ever. I will pray for him tonight. He is safe with GOD.
Eleanor Coxall
November 13, 2007
Eleanor,
Just heard about Allan, we are so sorry. You were blessed with a very goood man and we were bless to know him. You and the children will be in our prayers. Love Tom and Eleanor
Cathy Matta
November 13, 2007
Our prayers are with all of you during this difficult time. May God bless you all.
The Matta Family
Rob, Sandra, Oliver and Simon
November 13, 2007
We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
We have great memories of Cub Scout days with Allan and the boys.
William Grzybowski
November 13, 2007
My deepest prayers and sympathy at this difficult time.
~Bill Grzybowski
Frankie DeBlasio
November 13, 2007
I love you Dad!
Julianna Holtby
November 13, 2007
Dearest Eleanor,
I have been praying continually for you and your beautiful children since I heard the sad news Sunday evening. Although we don't see one another often, my thoughts wander to you on so many occasions. Sabina is now in her third year of college, and is working through her second year as Resident Advisor--the job you modeled so gracefully to me so many years ago. Because you blessed me with your wonderful example of integrity and generosity, I was able to encourage my daughter to go and bless others. Your legacy is far-reaching and permanent, and I thank you for living such an intentional life.
Time and distance will not permit me to be with you physically, but I pray you know I remain with you in spirit, now and in the days ahead.
I love you-
Julianna
Jerry and Shirley Neibauer
November 13, 2007
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.
Karyn McCarthy
November 13, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this difficult time.-Sincerely Oisin and Karyn McCarthy and family
Eileen Maguire
November 13, 2007
Dear Eleanor,
Jane emailed me this morning to tell me of Allan's death. I am so sorry for you all. Although it has been years since I have seen you (Barnabus days), I have special memories of you and Allan.
I wish you God's graces of comfort and strength in the days ahead. Count on my prayers
Eileen Maguire
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Liz Niziak
November 13, 2007
Our love and prayers are with all of you.
Liz Brad Bradley and Kendra
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