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BARBARA CLIFFORD Obituary

CLIFFORD, Barbara (Sleath) Of Duxbury, passed away on December 14, 2023, at the age of 86. Barbara was born March 29, 1937 to Vivian (Andy) and Marie Sleath. Beloved wife to Frederic M. Clifford. Loving mother to Vivienne Clifford, Frederic Clifford, Jr. and his wife, Gail, Haley Clifford Adams and her husband, Jim, Barry Clifford, Benjamin Clifford and his wife, Tricia. Cherished grandmother to Haley Elisha, Evan Carr, Frederic Clifford, III, Thomas Clifford, Benjamin Clifford, Jr, Sakura Hinenoya, Nicholas Clifford, Katherine Clifford, Margaret Clifford and Samuel Clifford. Great-grandmother to Linaea DiMarino, Madison DiMarino, Alex DiMarino, Sofia Carr, Enzo Carr and Ettore Carr. Sister to Nancy Smith and the late Marjorie Kendall. Born Barbara Jean Sleath in Carmel, California, her early years were spent happily living with her parents and two sisters on a small homestead. Her father was a very talented electrical engineer contracted mostly by the Navy, moving her family frequently. From California, her family moved to North Carolina, where she spent her college years. Barbara met Fred in Barbados, where Fred and her father, Andy, shared an office at the naval base, a friendship, and love of music. Barbara and Fred were married in 1962. Barbara was a wonderful wife, partner and best friend to her husband, Fred for 61 years. She was an incredibly loving mother to her five children who adored her. She was a grandmother and great-grandmother, who made each of her grandchildren feel as if they were special and the most-loved. As a lifelong pianist and dedicated music student, a gift that Barbara passed on to all of her children and grandchildren was a love of music. Barbara's greatest passion was music and access to music education. She was a lead and founding member of the South Shore Conservatory and was instrumental in its expansion into Duxbury. Barbara has served as a loyal member of the Conservatory Board of Trustees for more than three decades, including as Chair from 1997-1998. During her time on the Board, she championed key programs and initiatives, including the campaign for the Ellison Center for the Arts and the founding of Duxbury Music Festival, an annual event that brings together music students and performers from around the globe to perform in Duxbury for several weeks in July. She proudly served as president of the Duxbury Art Association, the Republican Women's Association and the Parish Committee of the First Parish Church. Barbara had a passion for reading and lifelong learning. She loved studying Genealogy and she was the glue that kept her family and extended family connected. She loved to travel the world with her husband, Fred, to experience new cultures, people and places. Barbara loved being active. While raising her kids, she enjoyed many years of skiing, tennis, golf and paddle tennis. She especially loved cruising on the family yacht, Merrymeeting, with her family and friends. Barbara and Fred would set sail for weeks at a time with kids, friends and a fleet of boats from the Duxbury Yacht Club, sailing locally, in Maine and the Caribbean. Barbara was a 61-year resident of Duxbury, Massachusetts with significant time each year residing in Pemaquid, Maine and Islamorada, Florida. We will truly miss your generous, kind spirit and your beautiful smile. Sail on Barbara! A musical Celebration of Barbara's Life will be held on March 29, her birthday, at the First Parish Church in Duxbury, MA at 3:00 PM; followed immediately by a reception in the Clifford room at the Duxbury Bay Maritime School. The family requests for those who wish to express sympathy, to consider making a donation in Barbara's memory to the South Shore Conservatory, Hingham MA sscmusic.org at https://support.sscmusic.org/give/437551/#!/donation/checkout

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Published by Boston Globe from Dec. 21 to Dec. 22, 2023.

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Jonathan Macek

February 21, 2024

I met Barb in 6th grade when I became friends and neighbors with Barry and Benji. I could not believe that she let her kids and kids friends jump on her waterbed...NOT! My first firecracker was on the back porch out back. The ski trips to Mt Sunapee and to Maine..were some of my funnest fondest memories as a kid. My heart and sympathies goes out to the Clifford Family. God Bless you Barbara!

Wendy Bidstrup

January 18, 2024

She was driving a brand new, fire engine red, state of the art Tesla with all the bells & whistles the last time I saw Barbara. What a joy and delight! She & Fred took me to lunch after dropping off their sails at Hardings in Marion. Everyone was so happy. The Biddys & Clifford´s met for lunch many times over the past 60+ years. It is my honor to have known Barbara. So sad to learn she passed away in December. But so glad to have known such an amazing person. Rest in peace.

Penelope Place Gleason

December 21, 2023

Dearest Haley, and all of the Clifford family, Barbara was an extremely kind, generous and supportive person for me in my early teen years. The Summer I stayed with your family is imprinted in my memory as one of the best times of my life. Your parents were an integral part of my family´s life. My deep heartfelt condolences to every member of her loving circle. May you rest in peace great lady, knowing your well lived life has seen so many seeds of goodness that will continue to blossom for generations.

Twila Marston

December 21, 2023

My first memory of Barbara was Barbara introducing me to her best friend Jane. The two of them together, you could tell that they shared that special bond. Barbara was always so kind to me and I will miss sitting and talking with her in Maine. R.I.P. Barbara you are one magnificent Woman .
Your family is going to miss you. May the memories you created, get them through.
With peace and Love Twila.

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