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Benjamin Hovey Obituary

Died suddenly at his home in Narragansett, RI on August 6, 2008, just ten days prior to his 65th birthday. Mr. Hovey has previously resided in Boston and Denver. Mr. Hovey had been a travel agent, stockbroker, author, and sportsman. He was an accomplished salt water fly fisherman. He briefly held a world record having caught the largest Pacific Ocean sailfish on a fly rod. He fished in Guatemala, Belize, Alaska, Canada, Bahamas, and numerous U.S. locales seeking wily trout, salmon, sailfish, tuna, permit, bone fish, and more. But, his favorite was the pursuit of the Striped Bass off the rocks of his beloved Whale Rock Point. He attended the Dexter School in Brookline, MA; graduated from the Fay School, Tabor Academy, and Hobart College. He was the son of the late Anita and Charles F. Hovey of Chestnut Hill, MA. He leaves his brother, Charles F. Hovey, Jr. of Manchester, MA and his sister, Elizabeth C. Isdale of Greenwich, CT and Narragansett, RI. He also leaves two nephews, Greig M. Isdale of Stamford, CT and Elliot M. Hovey of Alameda, CA, and two nieces, Elizabeth I. Cochran of East Greenwich, RI and Averill S. Hovey of Denver, CO. He also had three great-nephews. In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory to Tabor Academy, c/o Jay Stroud, 66 Spring St., Marion, MA 02738. A celebration of his life will be held in Narragansett, RI on Saturday, September 13th. Directions and details will be available after August 21st at 978-282-8251. Visit www.nardolillo.com for info. & online condolences.

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Published by Boston Globe on Aug. 17, 2008.

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1965 Aboard the Aurelia bound for South Hampton

September 2, 2008

1963 Hobart Freshmen Lacrosse team

September 2, 2008

Bill Guardenier

August 27, 2008

Ben: played on Hobart's first hockey team, & was a four year middie on the lacrosse team. In the summer of '65 he ran with the bulls in Pampalona. Classmate, friend, you'll be missed, but fondly remembered. As the author Willa Cather wrote: "The road is all, the end is nothing". Thanks for sharing part of the trip with us.

John White

August 26, 2008

Ben was a very special friend. In those early years at Hobart he was so full of life and eager to have a good time with his friends. And yet his commitment to varsity lacrosse as middie was indeed admirable. I reconnected with Ben in 1998 when we moved to Mass. We enjoyed getting together for an annual lunch each November. I looked forward to his tales of fishing, hunting and boating, and especially heaing of the arduous chore of researching and writing his book. I will miss him, especially each November for lunch at the Vanilla Bean in Pomfret, CT.
EJ WHite
August 26, 2008

Susan Anderson Nelson

August 22, 2008

Always a true friend at Hobart William Smith. Ben was the shy, quiet, handsome KA hockey player with that great smile. I can see him now walking down South Main Street from KA to history class. Our reconnecting at the reunion two years ago was very special. We were together most of that weekend. On Saturday evening Ben and I opened up talking for what seemed like hours on the back steps of Comstock House that rainy night. We planned to meet later that summer in either Narragansett or Mattapopisett but, somehow life got in the way. A missed opportunity I regret now. From hockey player to fly fisherman to writer, Ben was always a true gentleman. My condolences to his family and close friends.

Mrs. Charles Hovey & Ben Dancing

August 22, 2008

Mrs. Hovey & Ben - Mother & Son.1950s

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Charlie Sr. Hovey - A proud father with his new son Ben.1943

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Ben Hovey and Holy Man in India.1960s

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Ben Hovey Potential Unofficial, Non-IGFA World Record for Pacific Sailfish on Fly #1

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James Herendeen

August 21, 2008

Very, very fondly rememered. Ben is always the gentle, kind and warm friend we knew.

Sharon Gold

August 20, 2008

Ben was my very first date at Hobart and William Smith. We reconnected at our 40th reunion where he clearly had a wonderful time. Since Ben was such an athlete, it was a surprise to learn he was writing and loving it! Many of us read his book on Marion Clignet and looked forward to the fishing book, a project he was so excited to do. Could he have written in his own voice of his own life? Perhaps in time he might have. My condolences to the extended Hovey family. I will miss Ben's shy, graceful presence at our next reunion. He was a much loved member of our HWS family.

Sheila R

August 19, 2008

I will never forget Ben's story about his older cousin Clarry (Pell) bullying him, even as he was teaching him to play ice hockey. I think Clarry, in his gruff way, looked out for Ben. And few men could wear a bow tie as well as Ben.

john cocroft

August 19, 2008

Very sad to get this news of Ben's death. I hadn't seen Ben in some time. I was fishing off the rocks in Narragansett myself just Sunday. So long my friend.

Haven and Simmy Pell

August 18, 2008

Simmy and I were much saddened to hear the news. Ben's kindness and thoughtfulness as well as his love for the Point will be greatly missed.

Peter Pell

August 18, 2008

We will all miss you Ben. You were the Sr man on deck at WhaleRockPt. Your love of that land and those rocks and shores taught us all to stop look & listen.

We will miss you Ben

August 17, 2008

Pebble Gifford

August 17, 2008

I have been wanting to contact Charlie and Candy to tell them how saddened I was to learn that Ben is no longer going to be with us on the Point. This is a nice way to do it. Whenever I was there to take care of ailing parents or the sale of the Ruins, he was always the first to stop by (probably to get his tractor), to say hi and give me all the news. I am sorry he never got his house on the Point, but I hope we can provide him with a lovely memorial on the Rocks which he loved so much. Good by, Ben. I hope you have found the peace you didn't always have on this earth.
Pebble

Charlie Hovey

August 17, 2008

Welcome to the Globe guestbook. As I am in Beijing, after my return on August 21st, I will respond to your calls regarding the details of the celebration of Ben's life on September 13th. It will be held in Narragansett at 11:30 a.m. Please call the number listed in the Globe for further information, after August 21. Thank you. We all miss Ben very much!

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