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Benjamin Jupiter Obituary

Of Denver, CO, formerly of Weston, suddenly, on Saturday, September 29, 2007 at the age of 29. Cherished son of Dr. Jesse B. & Beryl (Abrams) Jupiter of Weston. Loving brother of Stacy Jupiter of Australia. Dear grandson of Rita & the late Morton Abrams of Boca Raton, FL and the late Samuel & Miriam Jupiter. Services at Temple Beth Elohim, 10 Bethel Road, Wellesley on Friday, October 5 at 1:00 PM. Burial at the Beit Olam Cemetery, Wayland. Memorial observance at his parents home through Monday. In lieu of flowers, remembrances may be made in memory of Ben to Temple Beth Elohim, 02481 or to Weston Boosters (supporting Weston youth and sports), PO Box 253, Weston, MA 02493. Graduate of Weston High School, class of 1996 and University of Colorado at Boulder, Class of 2001. Working as a sales representative in medical equipment. An avid golfer and skier. Levine Chapels, Brookline 617-277-8300

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Published by Boston Globe from Oct. 3 to Oct. 4, 2007.

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Sean and Kim Beard

March 14, 2008

Just hearing of Benny's passing is shocking for us. We lived in the same Condo complex in Boulder.
Sean and Benny kept in touch over the years. We had not heard from him in 2 years or so but talked about him often. He made the trip to Baltimore for our wedding in 01. Benny was truly a friend. Sean and Benny were kindred souls and he will be greatly missed by us. Stacy, and Mr. and Mrs. Jupiter, we are very sorry for your loss.
He will be remembered always in our home. He gave us a beautiful painting of Boulder as a wedding gift that has always hung in our home and we will think of all the fun and laughs we had together when we look at it.

Elizabeth Clingan

February 11, 2008

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Jupiter,

I knew Ben in Hebrew school for years and also in the Maccabi Games. I remember him as a person who loved life and who loved to make people laugh. I hope his memory is a blessing to you both.

Karen Bourget

December 22, 2007

Dear Dr. Jesse & Mrs. Jupiter,

I am very saddened to hear of the loss of your son, Ben. There is no pain greater and no loss as devastating as when you loose a child. I too have suffered the sudden loss of my thirty year old son Jarrod, two years ago. I had been a patient of Dr. Jupiter for nine years, before moving to Florida and it was during an appt with a colleague that I heard of this tragic news. May your beautiful memories and love for your son comfort you both during this most difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you .

God Bless
Karen Bourget

Samir Sodha

November 18, 2007

Dr. and Mrs. J,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May your wealth of love and friendship support you during this time.

Robert D'Ambrosia

November 6, 2007

Our hearts go out to you for your loss. Barb and I were out of the country at the time and are shocked to hear of the tragedy. Our love and prayers are with you.

Marty, Judy, and Toby Cohen

October 21, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you, and your family at this very difficult time.

Kathy Feldman

October 11, 2007

Dear Beryl and Jesse,

David called me yesterday to tell me of your horrible loss. My family knows so well of the terrible grieving process that you are going through now. Every memory and kind word from others about your son will help ease the pain. We are so sorry for your loss. My family's thoughts are with you.

Rick Feldman

October 10, 2007

Beryl and Jesse -Very sorry to hear of your loss. As you may have heard, we lost my brother Kenny this last May in also a sudden situation. My family's and my thoughts are with you as you go through these challenging times. Our condolences also to your Mom.

Ron and Barbara Walls

October 10, 2007

Dear Jesse and Beryl,
We were surprised and saddened to hear of your loss of Benjamin. We know that there is nothing that we could say right now to relieve your pain, but please know that our thoughts are with you and your family.

Mimi D'Iorio

October 10, 2007

Dear Jupiter Family,
I am so saddened to hear of your recent loss. Having met Ben a few years back when visiting Stacy in Santa Cruz, I feel lucky to have had the chance to feel his spirit. Please know that my thoughts are with you and that you are not alone in this time of grief. With love and deep condolences,

Peggy and Doug Hanel

October 9, 2007

Dear Jupiter Family,

May we send you our deepest sympathy and say that our thoughts have been with you since we read of Ben's death. We know what a shock you have suffered and hope that the kind thoughts of your many friends will make your grief easier to bear at this overwhelmingly sad time. Sending you our love and prayers,
Doug and Peggy Hanel

Missy and Scott Wolfe

October 9, 2007

Dear Jesse and Beryl:
Please know that Scott and I are thinking of you constantly in hoping for your peace, comfort and understanding about an event that is so entirely incomprehensible. Ww weep with you.
Love, Scott and Missy Wolfe

Amy Ladd

October 9, 2007

Beryl and Jesse,

We are so saddened to hear of your loss. I remember meeting a joyous young Ben, about age 10, crazy over the new sport of snowboarding in Vail. Our thoughts and prayers to you.

Susan Cochran

October 9, 2007

Stacy,
I was saddened to hear of your tragic loss. My thoughts go out to you and your family during these rough times.

Mary Farrell-Poitras

October 9, 2007

Jesse, I just heard of your loss; I am so sorry. Having known you at MGH for many years, if Benjamin was anything like you, he must have been a smart, joyful and funny young man. You and your family are in my prayers. Sincerely, Mary Farrell Poitras

David and Wendy Beigler

October 8, 2007

Jesse and Beryl,
Although we never had the chance to meet Ben, knowing you, he must have been a great young man. Shocked is too small a word and sorry is miniscule. Our hearts go out to you and your entire family at this time of terrible sorrow and tragedy. Our thoughts remain with you now and always.

Denny Roe

October 8, 2007

Mr. & Mrs. Jupier,

I cannot express the sorrow my wife Danielle, cousin Mason, our friends and myself have felt since hearing of Ben's departure. We all cared for him very much. Ben was my Best Friend here in Denver -we spent much of our free time together nearly every day from the time we met. I miss him very much.

I want you to know that he spoke of you two often and loved you and his entire family deeply. He was really looking forward to spending some time with you, Mrs. Jupiter - he had been talking about it for the last month or so.

I hope to get the chance to meet you when you come out to Denver.

You and your family are in our prayers.

---

John Hefferon

October 7, 2007

Dear Jesse and Beryl,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this tragic moment. I remember Ben's joy at the Bulls' game years ago. He was a genuinely happy young man. We hope you can endure such a loss and move on together in your lives. We will always be there for you.
Sincerely,
John and Nina Hefferon

Pat Migliore

October 7, 2007

Jesse and Beryl,
I was shocked and saddened to hear of Ben's death. May you both find the strength to persevere. I know you both and believe you will.
Pat

Barbara Walls

October 7, 2007

We are so very, very sorry for your tragic loss.
Barb and Ron Walls

Vic & Judy de Jong

October 5, 2007

Judy and I are thinking of you and your family tonight. Ben must have been someone special, something we felt as we talked about our families at the recent "soccer reunion" and now sense just from reading these entries from his friends and acquaintances.

Leslie Yeransian

October 5, 2007

Ben and I played Little League together for several years...I was the only girl on his team. Ben had such a larger than life personality...I can not believe such a strong life no longer is with us. But I have to believe he is somewhere, everywhere around us.
I look at our Little League photos I'm daunted by the loss. All my deepest sympathy to your family.

Jay Hedlund

October 5, 2007

Jesse, My sincere sympathy to you and your family on your terrible loss.

Andy and Judy Burgess

October 5, 2007

Jesse and Beryl
Our hearts and thoughts are with you at this time of great sorrow.

paul tornetta

October 5, 2007

Jesse: i can't tell you how sorry i am to hear of your loss. anything you need, please call. our toughts are with you and your family

Judi Eng

October 5, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May the memories you have of Ben sustain you through this difficult time. With deepest sympathy.

Cherie Holmes

October 5, 2007

Jesse,
My condolences to you and your family.
Dr. Cherie Holmes

Steve Kronlage

October 5, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Tammy and Steve Kronlage

Brenda White

October 5, 2007

Dear Jesse - I am deeply saddened to hear about Benjamin. My heart felt prayers are with you Beryl and Stacy. Brenda

Peter and Kristin Pardubsky

October 4, 2007

Please accept our condolences for your great loss. We are but two of many friends and colleagues thinking of you during this difficult time.

Stephen Wiener

October 4, 2007

Dear Jesse and Beryl-
We ar so saddened by your loss. There is nothing I can say to ease your pain. For what it's worth, Jesse, I know from being your teammate at Brown that you have the character and resilience to recover and overcome any misfortune, even a tragedy such as this. A famous Jew once said "If you have faith as a grain of mustard seed, nothing shall be impossible unto you."
Steve and Susan Wiener

Robert Cooper

October 4, 2007

Jesse(and Beryl): I was shocked and saddened to have just read about the sudden death of your son. Although we haven't seen each other in many years(including the recent "reunion" to receive the 1967 Varsity Soccer Hall of Fame Award),and I never had the opportunity to meet him, I am confident that he was fine young man; I can only convey my thoughts of sympathy and hope that you muster the strength to get through what must be an unbearable ordeal. Best regards, Bob & Tina Cooper

Rita Hannah

October 4, 2007

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Travis Beard

October 4, 2007

I will always remember Ben as an extremely intelligent, fun, relaxed and good person. One thing I learned from Ben was to not sweat the small stuff. I will miss my weekly conversations with him. My thoughts are with you and I hope for the best reconciliation possible for your lives moving forward.

Brad Anderson

October 3, 2007

I worked with Ben. I didn't know him extremely well, but did spend a few days with him in Jackson, WY. He was so much fun. I doubt I have ever had so much fun golfing in my life. I am so sorry for your loss. He was a great person! I know he will be missed.

Christine Silverberg

October 3, 2007

As a fellow sales representative, I worked with Ben Jupiter at Aesculap for a brief period of time, but the time I was able to spend with him was quite memorable. He was quite a charismatic, witty, and caring individual, and he will be dearly missed by all in the Aesculap family.

My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

george theodore

October 3, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. George and Pauline Theodore.

Mat Aubuchon

October 3, 2007

Beryl and Jesse,
This is very difficult news to hear. I am so sorry for your loss and hope that you know many people are thinking of you at this time.
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child.

Harvey Fleishman

October 3, 2007

Our sincerest condolences on your tragic loss.

Harvey & Marcia Fleishman
Wightman Tennis

Jason Panzarino

October 3, 2007

I had not seen Ben for many years yet he is an indelible figure from my childhood. I feel as if I have lost a family member.

I am so sorry.

Scott and Tammy Martin

October 3, 2007

Our hearts and sympathies go out to you as you face this tragic loss of your dear son. Please know that we are thinking of you and keeping you in our prayers. We trust that in some small way the love and support of your many friends and colleagues will be of comfort to you during this difficult time.

janet jacoby

October 3, 2007

I did not know Ben personally, but did speak on the phone occasionally for work...my deepest sympathies to his family...bless you...janet

janet jacoby

October 3, 2007

So sorry for your loss, i did not know ben personally but did speak on the phone with him numerous times...i work at the same medical company he did...my heart goes out to his family....janet

Pat Atkins

October 3, 2007

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Molly and David Helfet

October 3, 2007

Our hearts and prayers are with you, always

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