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DAVE MITTELMAN Obituary

MITTELMAN, Dave Humble Leader- Lovingly Remembered Dave Mittelman was a person you wanted to be with, the individual you always wanted on your team, and a man looked up to and respected. He had a clarity of heart that was unparalleled, building a life comprised of the moments he chose. In his role as a husband, a father, a friend, or a money manager, Dave was a humble leader and a confident, gentle decision-maker who always saw the best in everyone. Dave grew up in Armonk, New York, spending summers running around the town's ponds and fields with a mischievous love of adventure. He once joined high school friends for a weekend of skiing, never telling them it was his first time hitting the slopes. But that was his style: just jump right in. Dave went on to earn a BA in Geography from Middlebury College in 1976. In 1981 he received an MBA from Columbia University where he met a graduate nursing student, Michele Hughes in math class. Two years later, Dave and Michele married and for 34 years, they enjoyed a most tremendous, deeply loving and meaningful partnership. Dave always considered his children - Andy, 31, Jamie, 29, and Melissa, 26 - to be the greatest gift he ever received. He was the dream father; he taught and coached his children on how to play soccer, baseball and love the Red Sox, to build the coolest science projects and to rehearse their school play lines. With Michele, he instilled in them compassion, resiliency, and how to work and play hard. His mind moved fast, broad, and deep. This was nowhere more evident than when he was managing fixed-income for Harvard Management Company (HMC – the entity that manages Harvard's endowment). From 1983 to 2005, Dave and the trusted team he was part of grew Harvard's endowment fund from $4.7 billion to $25 billion largely by perceiving mispricings with minimal downside risk and large upside potential. He surrounded himself with talented people and taught them how to function as a team. In 2005, Dave and two partners left HMC and formed Convexity Capital. Throughout his remarkable career in money management, Dave never lost sight of the fact that the best way he could add value and change the world was by securing the financial wellbeing of universities and nonprofit organizations. The lives of many – from students to professors, from doctors to patients – have been touched by the financial skills that Dave brought to the trading room, always with the goal of bettering society.  Many of Dave's greatest joys stemmed from his personal interests and philanthropy. He loved watching the Red Sox with friends and family, often leaving the ballpark with a mustard-tinged uniform courtesy of his favorite Fenway Franks. He enjoyed spending time in Colorado skiing, hiking and exploring the natural beauty of the mountains. Dave was passionate about astronomy and astrophotography, and in recent years initiated and led the MDW Hydrogen – Alpha Survey to create the first-ever high-resolution hydrogen map of the entire sky. This ongoing project will provide a freely accessible map that will be invaluable to future astronomers. Dave founded observatories in New Mexico, Colorado and Massachusetts, which he opened to non-profit educational entities including colleges and high schools. Check out Sky & Telescope Magazine for a list of Dave's published images. Dave and Michele cofounded a family foundation that supported local community service, land conservation, education and healthcare. Dave served on the Boards of Middlebury College, The Dana Farber Cancer Institute, and Literacy Volunteers of Massachusetts. In 2013, he established the P. Frank Winkler Professorship in Physics at Middlebury College, with the goal of decoding and understanding the mysteries of the universe and passing on his passion and intrigue for the study of astronomy. In 2017, Middlebury honored Dave by naming their observatory in his honor. For 28 years Dave loved riding The Pan Mass Challenge, a bike ride across Massachusetts that raises money for cancer research. He co-founded and with Michele co-captained "Team Lizard," which grew to include his children and more than 20 other friends and family members. He rode for the cause, the camaraderie, and the challenge.  Dave helped numerous other people and organizations, but preferred to do it anonymously. Dave lived a life of integrity, generosity, excellence, and humility. He described himself as the luckiest man in the world. In lieu of flowers, gifts may be made to The David R. Mittelman Fund at Middlebury College. Gifts may be sent to: Middlebury College, Office of Gift Administration, Attn: Mittelman Fund, 700 Exchange Street, Middlebury, VT 05753 or made online with special mention of the Mittelman Fund at http://www.middlebury.edu/giving/ways He died peacefully at home, surrounded by his wife and three children. A Memorial Celebration is planned for Thursday, September 28th, 6:30PM at The Four Seasons Hotel Boston.

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Published by Boston Globe from May 31 to Jun. 1, 2017.

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June 24, 2018

As you remember your love one, as God heals your broken hearts (Psalm 147:3), may your treasured memories continue to bring you peace, comfort, and strength to endure.

Moss

June 20, 2017

Dave left a legacy that will live on after him. My sympathy to his wife and children as they try to cope with their enormous loss. It is my prayer that you experience the unique peace that God gives especially during times of distress. (Romans 15:33).

June 9, 2017

May your hearts be filled with the wonderful memories of joyful times you shared together as you celebrate a life well lived and loved by many. Take comfort in the words found in Isaiah 57:15

Christine scanlon

June 8, 2017

Over the years, I have watched Dave spread his empathy and good fortune to every single person he met. He and Michele formed a team full of love, sharing their passion for education and sincere interest in making the world a better place. Although, he is no longer with us, he has forever changed the world one person at a time. Thank you Dave for opening your heart to so many people.

The Rosette Nebula in the winter constellation Monoceros as recently imaged at our sister facility in Massachusetts, Yellow House Observatory, by Davi

Lee Dixson

June 6, 2017

It was a privilege to have known Dave Mittelman. He was someone that I always looked up to and hoped to have a chance to sit and have a long chat. From what I've seen, he valued his family above all and was humble with those he interacted with. I will be forever grateful to Dave and Michele for they helped my family for many, many years. His sharp mind, mild manner, humble presence, will be truly missed. Dave, you know no longer need to look through a telescope to find the secrets of the universe. Aloha Oe Dave.

Linda Stone

June 4, 2017

Michele, Jamie, Melissa, Andy, and Laura -

There are no words.

Michele, you and Dave are among the finest, loveliest, best people I know. Losing Dave is heart-breaking. He leaves a legacy of a wonderful, loving family, support in so many of his areas of interest, and so many loving memories with everyone lucky enough to have known him.

Much love to all of you,
Linda

Cindi Woodard

June 3, 2017

RIP Dave, you did so much good in the short time you were here.

Beverly Flowers

June 3, 2017

There are no words to express my grief.

Dale Fisher

June 2, 2017

Dave It was my gift to have grown up with you. My sincere condolences to Dave's family.

Michele, this is 2008 at the HUT. We woke up early looking for elk. Bill

Bill Palmer

June 2, 2017

Gregg Anderson

June 2, 2017

Michele, Andy, Jamie and Melissa;
I am so sorry for your loss. Though David and I hadn't been in touch since his earliest years of marriage, we go way back. David and I grew up in Armonk, had the same teachers every year from first grade to sixth, skied together, shot BB guns in his back yard, I was his patrol leader in Boy Scouts and a college friend that stopped in on him at Middlebury often on my way down to Stratton. What I remember best about Dave was his laugh. It came easy and often. It makes me so sad to know a really good person left us early.

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