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Derek R. BENOIT

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Derek BENOIT Obituary

BENOIT, Derek R. It is with great sadness that we share the passing of our beloved son and brother, Derek R. Benoit, of Winchester, passed away on September 15, 2025, at the age of 45, after a lifelong struggle with insulin dependent diabetes, renal disease and numerous other complications. Despite all of this, he maintained a positive attitude.

Because of his positivity and determination, Derek became a mentor to new dialysis patients at the Fresenius Dialysis Center in Medford, MA. When he was physically able, Derek also enjoyed fishing, bow-hunting, and playing golf. He was also an avid animal lover and was well-known as a "dog whisperer" by family and friends.

Derek graduated from Winchester High School and Penn State University with a BA in Insurance and a Minor in Economics, as well as a BA in Business from Southern New Hampshire University.

Derek leaves behind his loving mother and father, Deborah G. Benoit (Dudgeon) and Edward M.Benoit, formerly of Winchester. He also leaves behind his sister, Melissa K. O'Neil (Benoit) and her husband, Edward P. O'Neil, of Clearwater, FL; as well as numerous aunts, uncles and cousins scattered across the U.S. Derek was the beloved grandson of the late Josephine R. and Joseph R.L. Dudgeon of Winchester and the late Helen and Norman Benoit of Brockton, MA.

Visitation will be held at Lane Funeral Home, 760 Main St. (Rte. 38), WINCHESTER, on Sunday, September 21, 1 - 4pm. A Funeral Service will be held in the funeral home on Monday, September 22, at 10am, followed by interment at Wildwood Cemetery, Winchester.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Derek's name at the following organizations: Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center's Transplant Institute and the Beth Israel Lahey Health Joslin Diabetes Center website, giving.bilh.org Fresenius Kidney Care website, https://freseniusmedicalcare.com

Consider registering as an organ donor on your driver's license.

For online condolences, please visit www.lanefuneral.com Lane Funeral Home

760 Main Street

Winchester, MA 01890

781.729.2580

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Boston Globe from Sep. 19 to Sep. 20, 2025.

Memorial Events
for Derek BENOIT

Sep

21

Visitation

1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m.

Lane Funeral Home

760 Main Street, MA 01890

Sep

22

Service

10:00 a.m. - 12:00 a.m.

Lane Funeral Home

760 Main Street, MA 01890

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Lane Funeral Services, Inc

760 Main Street, Winchester, MA 01890

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Ellen Gelin

September 20, 2025

Debbie, Ed and Melissa, I am so terribly sorry and sad for your loss. May his memory be for a blessing!

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