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Elvira Growdon Obituary

GROWDON, Elvira (Aspero) Of Chestnut Hill, died January 22, 2009 at home. She is survived by her husband, John Herbert Growdon, M.D.; her daughter, Allegra Growdon Richdale, J.D., and husband, James of Pacific Palisades, CA; her son, Whitfield Board Growdon, M.D., and wife, Amanda of Boston; her granddaughters, Tessa Whitfield Richdale and Lily Charlotte Growdon; her brothers, Benedict V. Aspero, J.D. of New Vernon, NJ, and Stephen M. Aspero, J.D. of Montclair, NJ. A private family burial was held in Kansas City, Missouri. A Memorial Service is planned for a later date to be announced. Memorial contributions may be made in memory of Elvira Growdon to the Boston Children's Museum, 300 Congress St., Boston, MA 02210. J. S. Waterman & Sons & Waring Wellesley 781-235-4110

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Published by Boston Globe on Jan. 25, 2009.

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Carol Post Pfaelzer

January 19, 2021

Elvira was a gentle, gracious lady with a warm smile. I miss her as part of our community.

Mary Ryan (Munisteri)

May 21, 2009

It seems impossible that Elvira is not on this earth. I read of her death yesterday in our college alumnae magazine, and though we did not keep in touch after 1961, "Elf" has remained vivid in my mind: laughing, wry, playful, magic. Her tale of wee folk transforming the hockey field at midnight -- "gwiffeling on the green" in her phrase -- is now part of my own children's mythology. I am so sorry that you've lost her. She is not forgotten.

Anne Blodget

February 3, 2009

Elvira was truly an inspiration in her almost 30 years of dedicated work at the Boston Childrens Museum. She mentored many of us relative to the collections at the Museum. Her work leaves a lasting legacy and her support and inspiration will always be remembered. Her family will be in my thoughts and prayers and I will miss her greatly.

susan and Bud Mackey

February 2, 2009

Dear John, Bud and I were both shocked to learn while we were at church yesterday of Elvira's death. She was so lovely and welcoming, and I always enjoyed talking with her. Please know that our prayers are with you. We were out of town last week or would surely have been at her funeral mass.
Lovingly,
Susan and Bud Mackey

Carol Pfaelzer

January 29, 2009

Dear John and family,It is with a heavy heart that I heard of the passing of lovely and gracious Elvira.She is now playing with John in heaven as he used to play with my daughter Catherine Post at Pine Manor Nursery those many years ago.Both had the smile of an angel.Blessings to you all. Carol Post Pfaelzer

Carol Franklin

January 28, 2009

A Reminiscence

YES, thou art gone! and never more
Thy sunny smile shall gladden me;
But I may pass the old church door,
And pace the floor that covers thee.

May stand upon the cold, damp stone,
And think that, frozen, lies below
The lightest heart that I have known,
The kindest I shall ever know.

Yet, though I cannot see thee more,
'Tis still a comfort to have seen;
And though thy transient life is o'er,
'Tis sweet to think that thou hast been;

To think a soul so near divine,
Within a form so angel fair,
United to a heart like thine,
Has gladdened once our humble sphere.

By Anne Bronte
The Poetry Foundation

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