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F. WASHINGTON JARVIS III

1939 - 2018

F. JARVIS Obituary

JARVIS, F. Washington III Died October 7, 2018 at CareDimensions Hospice Home in Lincoln, MA after a long illness. Tony was born to Frank Washington Jarvis and Prudence Crandall Jarvis in Pittsburgh, PA on June 24, 1939. After growing up outside of Cleveland, OH, Tony attended St. Mark's School in Southborough, MA and graduated with honors from Harvard College. He received his M.A. from Cambridge University in England, and his S.T.B. from the Episcopal Theological School in Cambridge, MA. He was awarded honorary doctorates by Bowdoin College (L.H.D., 1998), Middlebury College (D.Litt., 2004), and the Berkeley Divinity School at Yale (D.D., 2016).

Tony was an Episcopal priest. From 1964 to 1971 he served as Curate at St. Paul's Church in Cleveland. He had special interest in and responsibility for the youth of this large parish, and the program he developed attracted young people from all over the city. In 1971 he was appointed Chairman of the History Department at University School in Cleveland, and the following year Assistant Director, Upper School.

For thirty years, from 1974 to 2004, Tony was Headmaster of The Roxbury Latin School in Boston. Founded in 1645, Roxbury Latin is the oldest school in continuous existence in North America. After retiring at age 65 from Roxbury Latin, Tony served twice as a chaplain and master at Eton College in England, and as scholar-in-residence at schools in Perth and Sydney, Australia. He spoke at numerous educational conferences and schools -- and served as a guest preacher and speaker -- across the US and abroad in Australia, Canada, New Zealand, South Africa, and the United Kingdom. He delivered the Pitt Lecture at Yale in October 2012. From 2008 to 2016, Tony taught at Yale University, where he was founder and Director of the Educational Leadership and Ministry Program at the Berkeley Divinity School.

Tony was past President of the Headmasters Association of the United States and of the Country Day School Headmasters Association, and he was the former Chairman of the Commission on Independent Schools of the New England Association of Schools and Colleges. He served a five-year term as member of the Massachusetts State Ethics Commission. He was a trustee of the Independent School Association of Massachusetts, Winsor School, the American Friends of Maru a Pula (Botswana), and Portsmouth Abbey School. Since 1976 and until the time of his death he was priest associate at the Parish of All Saints, Ashmont, an inner city parish in the Dorchester neighborhood of the City of Boston where he lived.

Tony was the author of eight books and numerous articles in the fields of history, education, and religion. His book, "With Love and Prayers", a collection of forty addresses to students, won the Christopher Award for adult non-fiction. He was a Member of the Most Venerable Order of the Hospital of St. John of Jerusalem, the Society of Mary, and the Society of King Charles the Martyr.

Tony was predeceased by his sister, Faith Crandall Jarvis Smith and is survived by his brother-in-law, Craig E. Smith of Hingham; his nephews Ned Smith and his wife, Kristin, of Houston, TX and Benjamin G. J. Smith and his wife, Stacey, of Acton; his niece Cricket Smith Segaloff and her husband, Brett, of Harvard; and his five great nieces and nephews: Catie, Annie, Timmy, Sarah, and Teddy.

Visitation at the Parish of All Saints, Ashmont will be on Friday, October 12th from 4 to 8 pm. A Solemn Requiem Mass will be celebrated Saturday, October 13th at 11 am. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in honor of Tony to the Parish of All Saints, Ashmont, 209 Ashmont Street, Dorchester, MA 02124 or The Roxbury Latin School, 101 Saint Theresa Avenue, West Roxbury, MA 02132.

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Published by Boston Globe from Oct. 9 to Oct. 11, 2018.

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r harold

February 17, 2021

I still remember him from over fifty years ago when he served at Saint Paul's Church in Cleveland Heights, Ohio. He was charasmatic, energetic, thoughtful and caring minister. He had a mischeviious sense of humor. He taught my confirmation class in a large room with a chalkboard. While speaking he dropped the chalk and a student next to me in the front row picked it up and handed it to him. A moment later, he dropped the chalk again in front of my friend who again retrieved and returned it to Tony who had a sly smile. He hosted weekly youth supper nights in the great hall, discussed the heady issues of the day. My faith has waned since then. But I feel fortunate that I was able to know him so long ago.

Yvonne Roundtree

May 11, 2019

One of our church's best ministers. Truly, he will never be forgotten in our community.

JEFFREY LEWIS

October 13, 2018

I know that I am very, very far from alone in having Tony as a mentor and friend, but every time I was with Tony, I felt a deep sense of love and encouragement. I miss him very much already. I wish I could be in Boston today.
With love and admiration,
Jeff Lewis, Pacific Grove, CA

October 11, 2018

The Tretter Family -Charles and Anna, Christopher (Class of 1982), Thomas (Class of 1983), Anna Bridget and Margaret -wish to send our most sincere condolences to the family of Tony Jarvis. We have many fond memories of Tony from our years as part of the Roxbury Latin Family.

Phillip and Sandra Poppenberg

October 11, 2018

Ned, Kristin, Teddy and family -We were saddened to learn of the death of your beloved "Uncle Tony". It is evident that he impacted not only the hearts and lives of his immediate family. He also left his mark in this world through his faith, humility and kindness to so many people. The good works of his earthly life will not soon be forgotten. God's light has shined on your Uncle Tony, the Reverand F Washington Jarvis III. Rest In Peace. With admiration and respect, Phillip and Sandra Poppenberg

Pete Scriven

October 10, 2018

It is with great sadness that I have learned of Tony Jarvis's death. I was a part of his first youth group at St. Paul's, Cleveland Heights in the 1960s. He was a huge influence for good to many, many young people. Indeed, Tony was a pied piper in the best sense. May he rest in peace and rise in glory.

Rosamond Dewart

October 10, 2018

Wonderful memories of a fun bright energetic seminarian at St. Paul's Church, Brookline, MA in the 1960s. The Dewart family sends the Jarvis family our heartfelt sympathies for your loss. What a wonderful person and incredible educator he was.

Colleen Morgan

October 10, 2018

A great man, a sad loss. Prayers, Colleen Morgan

Michael Bear

October 10, 2018

Mr Jarvis is in my thoughts and prayers. He will be remembered through the many lives he touched and influenced.

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