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FINNEGAN, George Theodore "Ted" Finnegan of South Boston MA, and formerly of Milton MA, passed away peacefully in the company of his family at Mount Auburn Hospital in Cambridge on Monday, January 2, of respiratory arrest, two weeks shy of his 90th birthday. This marked the end of a distinctive life defined by a long record of selfless, distinguished service to his country, family and community - fully in keeping with that of other members of what is often characterized as "the Greatest Generation." Ted was born in Boston on January 16, 1922 to George T. Finnegan Sr. and Mary Stella Bell. He was the second of three children, positioned between his older sister Mary Stella "Star" and his younger brother J. Paul "Paul." The family was a loving, tight knit unit, and all three siblings remained very close throughout their long lives. He grew up in Milton with summers spent in Scituate, where he developed his life-long love of everything related to sailing and the sea. He attended elementary schools in Milton, and also attended the New England Conservatory of Music on weekends through his high school years, where he developed a solid basis in classical piano and a particular talent for playing spontaneously by ear. He went on to attend Boston College High School, where he was a good athlete and an outstanding student, graduating at the top of his 1939 class. Ted attended Harvard College, Class of 1943, and majored in Bio-Chemical Sciences in order to earn the science and advanced math credits required to qualify for admission to the U.S. Naval Academy, earning a John Harvard merit scholarship for academic distinction in the process. After two years at Harvard, he secured admission to the United States Naval Academy as the top recommended candidate from Massachusetts, graduating with high distinction as 6th of over 900 cadets in the Naval Academy Class of 1945. During his Naval Academy years he met his future wife, Elizabeth Lee of Davenport and Marshalltown Iowa, who was attending Trinity College in Washington DC. They were married shortly after his graduation, in the autumn of 1944, before his first deployment. Ted served in the Pacific theater as an officer aboard the Fletcher-class destroyer USS Cassin Young, which is now permanently stationed as an exhibit of the National Historic Park at the Charlestown Navy Yard. During Ted's deployment on the Cassin Young, it played a major role both in the battle for Iwo Jima and the subsequent assault on Okinawa, earning a Navy Unit commendation for Distinguished Service and Gallantry. It had the additional distinction of being the last naval vessel to be to be hit by kamikaze attacks in WWII. For those with an interest, the official web link is http://www.nps.gov/bost/historyculture/usscassinyoung.htm. After the war Ted trained as a Naval Aviator in the Navy Air Corps and served in French Morocco, patrolling the "Iron Curtain" from the Middle East throughout Europe and up into Scandinavia. He was next assigned to the top secretU.S.AirForceSpecial Weapons Project at Albuquerque, New Mexico, and subsequently served as a member of the Navy's new atomic bombing squadron based in Palo Alto, California. In 1948, Ted's Navy career was interrupted by special family circumstances that necessitated his relocation with his family back to the Boston area and civilian life. He applied to graduate programs at Harvard in law, medicine and business and after being accepted to all three, made the decision to attend Harvard Law School. He graduated with honors in 1952 and was selected to clerk for the Chief Justice of the Massachusetts Supreme Court. He then joined the law firm of Ropes & Gray where he practiced law for more than 40 years as a member of the litigation department. He retired from active practice in 1994, continuing on a part time basis to develop a highly regarded jury trial practice program for young attorneys at the firm. In addition to his responsibilities at Ropes & Gray he taught jury trial practice courses for MCLE at Harvard Law School and Boston University Law School. During his residency in Milton, Ted managed zoning issues for the Town and functioned for many years as a popular coach for the Milton Little League. During his subsequent residency in South Boston, Ted served many of the local parishes and pastors as music director, cantor and organist. He also maintained an active role as a member of the USS Cassin Young Association and was the ship's oldest living WWII officer, functioning as a living research source and as speaker for special ceremonies and tours. During the last 8-10 years Ted maintained his full and active life. He was a board member of the Castle Island Association and pianist for the Association's choral group. During this same period he remained devoted to his older sister, Stella, during her stay at Marian Manor - visiting her on a daily basis, accompanying her to daily mass, and at the same time serving as the organist at the daily 10:00 AM service. He also served as the cantor and pianist for the choral group at Marian Manor. Lastly, Ted remained an exceptionally vigorous, attentive and beloved patriarch to his large extended family right up until his last day of life - for which we will all be eternally grateful. He is survived by 4 of his 5 children and their spouses: Catherine and Dr. Michael Shortsleeve of Lincoln, MA. Robert Finnegan and Kyung Hee Kim of Washington, DC, Maliz and Jim Beams of Weston, MA, and Eileen Finnegan of Boston, MA. He also leaves ten grandchildren and six great grandchildren, all of whom will miss him very much: Brian Shortsleeve of Boston MA with his wife Liz and their children Ted & Patrick, Dr. Christine Shortsleeve Ament of Brookline, MA with her husband Dave and their children Riley, Haley & Jasper, Cara Shortsleeve of Boston, MA. with her husband Nick Whitman and their son Finnegan, and Michelle Shortsleeve of New Haven, CT; Elizabeth, Stephen & Catherine Victoria Finnegan all of Washington DC; and Morgan Lee, Robert & Keaton Beams all of Weston, MA. Ted is also survived by his sister-in-law Evelyn Finnegan of Scituate, MA, and his two nephews: Paul Finnegan of Evanston, IL with his wife Mary and their children Katherine, Paul & Alex; and Peter Finnegan of Hanover, MA with his wife Lisa and their children Sara, Peter & Katelynne. Lastly, he leaves behind his beloved sister Stella Collins currently residing at Marion Manor, along with her children and their families. Funeral services will be held privately. An open Memorial Service to celebrate Ted's life will be held in conjunction with the Harvard Catholic Center on Saturday February 4, 2012 at 11:00 am at St. Paul's Church, 29 Mt Auburn Street in Cambridge, MA. A reception will be held for all friends of Ted and his family immediately after the Service at St. Paul's. Any donations in memory of Ted should be sent to the Massachusetts Soldiers' Legacy Fundat https://www.fundraise.com/mslf/tedfinneganmemorial. Tel (866)-856-5533. Casper Funeral Services, 187 Dorchester Street, Boston, MA 02127 (617) 269-1930.

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Published by Boston Globe from Jan. 10 to Jan. 15, 2012.

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mary swanton

January 4, 2021

Ted remains an important, honored and cherished family friend who continues to influence our children as we often recall his integrity, his leadership and extraordinary qualities. His impressive accomplishments and his gentle manner are stellar example of how to live well. Thanks to ted, our family was given the gift of an extraordinary mentor. He dwells among us and we remain grateful for his friendship always.

David Mandel

January 4, 2021

Thanks for the reminder and for the memories. He was such a nice, caring man.

David Mandel

January 4, 2020

Ted was the greatest mentor of young lawyers at Ropes and Gray. His trial practice training course was brilliant, a true Bible for those learning to be trial lawyers, and after he retired he continued to further develop the program and to continue to train and mentor further new generations of lawyers. Plus he was just a charming and kind human being. He is missed.

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Michele Smollett

May 27, 2014

On this memorial day weekend 2014 I thank you for your service to our country. You, kind Sir, were on the Cassin Young with my father and were one of the many responsible for his coming home. Thank you.

Hoonae Kim

January 30, 2012

The World has lost a dear friend, grandpa, father, brother, uncle, all embodied in this wonderful person, Ted. I have known him for more than two decades. Ted has always been kind and helpful to others, cheerful and encouraging, and devoted to loved ones. I will miss his hearty laughter, wonderful stories, funny jokes but most of all his wholehearted goodness as a person. Thank you, Ted, for all the wonderful memories you have left. We will miss you.

Hoonae

Barry Collins

January 29, 2012

To the Finnegan Family,
I am truly saddened to hear about your dad. Ted was a great guy and a good friend to all of us. A gentleman to the core.....and a pretty good organist. I hope to attend his service on Feb 4th.
My Condolences,

Mike Casey

January 28, 2012

Mr. Finneran,
Sir, I would just like to say thank you for your service and sacrifice for our Country when you served in the USN during WW II and for being a member of the Greatest Generation. And to your family and loved ones, I wish to extend my deepest sympathy.

Fair Winds And Following Seas

Barbara

January 28, 2012

Thank you Mr. Finnegan for your service, rest in peace.

David Mandel

January 24, 2012

Ted was an extraordinary lawyer and person at Ropes & Gray. He was one of the best mentors that this firm ever had. Both before he retired, and afterwards, he worked tirelessly on our Trial Workshop materials, which are simply the best anywhere. I still use them for myself, and to train junior associates, and so the good works that he put into effect continue to "pay it forward..'' God bless him, and my condolences to his family. -- Dave Mandel, Ropes & Gray.

KAthy Brandwein

January 22, 2012

Any one of these accomplishments would have defined a great life. He was one of my father's good friends from the Naval Academy and the Cassin Young. I was lucky to have seen him a couple years ago when I visited Boston. Amazing man...amazing life.
My condolences. Kathy Falardeau Brandwein

Kathy Walsh

January 20, 2012

Ted was a devoted friend to our family from the day we lost our father in November 1976. He gave us lots of gems of wisdom such as "keep the doors open" when going through bad times. Words I always kept in my mind. He had the ability to see God in every face. We will all miss his smiling face.

Mary Swanton

January 17, 2012

What a great mentor and friend. I had the privilege of working for years with Ted at St Vincent's. What a personal privilege. His advice, friendship and encouragement has brought me to my current position, teaching music to children. Ted was instrumental in helping me begin our program and I often refer to Ted's words in my classrooms...."leg over leg, the dog gets to Dover"!
So long, old pal...and may songs of the angels welcome you!

January 16, 2012

I only knew Ted in recent years, as the organist at our church. Even so, his warmth and humanity shone through every time you saw him. He had that rare gift of making everyone feel welcome and special. He will be greatly missed in South Boston. My deepest condolences to his family at the loss of such a special person

Marie Power

Lorraine (Lorie) Walsh

January 16, 2012

Ted was happiest when giving, always willing to help when needed. He was wise, eloquent and caring. He believed in doing your best and was an inspiring example. His encouragement helped me to do better. We shared the joy of music, offered music in church for many years and performed musical comedy excerpts throughout Boston. His favorite hymns were to the Blessed Mother. He often said, his prayers to Mary got him through Harvard. Ted was a gentle soul, full of kindness, humor, wit, wisdom and love. Wishing Ted's family peace and comfort. Our family will miss him deeply. Lorie Walsh

January 14, 2012

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

January 12, 2012

Although I was 24 years Ted's junior at Ropes & Gray, he was always a friend to me. Whenever he entered a room, he brought with him an unmatchable energy, enthusiasm and cheerfulness. I'll miss Ted.
Steve Perlman

January 11, 2012

Ted will be missed throughout all South Boston - please accept our condolences - Mike Farma & family...

January 11, 2012

I have no doubt that Ted will be deeply missed at Marian Manor where he gave the gift of music and his sunny personality on a daily basis. The Carmelite Sisters will keep him and his beloved family in prayer.
Mother Mark Louis Randall O.Carm.
Former Administrator of Marian Manor

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