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DRINAN, Helen L. (nee Aucker) Of Newton, Massachusetts, died on September 8, 2021 at age 102. Her life was full of family, service, teaching, and politics. Born on November 2, 1918, in Clear Lake, Iowa, she was the daughter of Lewis Aucker and Hannah Nelson Aucker, and grew up living in both Clear Lake and Mason City, Iowa. She graduated from the University of Iowa and began her teaching career in Iowa high schools. During WWII she joined the Red Cross and was stationed in Charleston, SC, where she met her beloved Francis "Frank" Drinan. They rode the hospital trains together during the war, traveling across the country to bring the wounded back home, and were married in 1947. They moved to Boston, Frank's birthplace, and eventually settled in Newton Highlands in 1958, where Helen lived until her death. She taught at Weeks Junior High until she began to raise a family – one son and three daughters. Amidst the chaos of four rambunctious children, Helen continued her devotion to teaching – she was a Girl Scout leader and introduced Junior Great Books to many young readers. She was a member of adult Great Books for decades, as well as two other book clubs. Helen and Frank were members of Sacred Heart Parish in Newton Centre, and helped found the Catholic Interracial Council at the parish. Both were also involved with NCDF – the Newton Community Development Fund, an organization dedicated to building low-income housing in Newton. She organized a group of her friends to participate in a tutoring program at St. John's in Roxbury, and to work at the food bank at St. Francis De Salle. Helen was also involved with Newman House, and the Newton Prayer Breakfasts. Helen's brother-in-law, Robert "Bob" Drinan, S.J., ran for Congress in 1969, and Helen and Frank were immersed in Massachusetts politics. Helen was a member of the Newton Ward 6 committee for many years, worked on many aspects of Bob's campaigns, including a few legendary "Drinan garage sales" in her back yard when they were still a novelty, and became a well-known figure in local politics. After Frank died in 1977, Helen eventually went to work at Boston College Law School, where Bob Drinan had been Dean in the 1960s. Helen was a beloved member of the BC Law administrative staff for 30+ years, photographing all major events at the law school, and galvanizing the law school to participate in the annual Newton Hunger Walk. She served on the Newton Council on Aging, and also opened her home to many international and Boston College students for many years. Helen retired from BC Law School at the tender age of 92. She was forever sociable, always enjoyed good conversation, and maintained and nurtured many close friendships from all parts of her life. Helen leaves three daughters, Ann Drinan (Algis Kaupas) of Branford, CT, Betsy Drinan of Boston, and Suzy Drinan of Philadelphia; one granddaughter, Jaime Tirrell Hassey (Chad Hassey); and daughter-in-law, Diane Drinan (Doug Vannah). She was predeceased by her husband, Francis W. Drinan, M.D., her brother, Harold Aucker, her sister, Ruth Aucker, and her son, Thomas J. Drinan. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Monday, September 13th, at 10:30 AM at Sacred Heart Church, 1317 Centre St., Newton Centre. Interment will be private. Visiting Hours are Sunday, September 12th, from 3-6 PM at Burke & Blackington Funeral Home,1479 Washington St., WEST NEWTON. Fully-vaccinated guests are welcome to attend; masks are required. For those unable to attend, an online guestbook is available to sign at BurkeFamilyFuneralHomes.com. The Drinan family acknowledges and greatly appreciates the loving care bestowed on Helen in her final years by Mary Depradine, Teo Velikov, and Suzy Drinan. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Thomas J. Drinan Fellowship at Suffolk Law School, bit.ly/sulsdrinan, or to the Greater Boston Food Bank, https://www.gbfb.org Burke & Blackington BurkeFamilyFuneralHomes.com

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Published by Boston Globe from Sep. 11 to Sep. 12, 2021.

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GLORIA L. Gomez

August 16, 2023

She was like my second mother for a few time during my stay in Boston a long time ago.
It was a wonderful opportunity and an special experience that I'm keeping for the rest of my life. I had a lot of good memories from a Christmas time at Drinan's house with all the family including father Drinan an the uncleshouse an Christmas time with all the family. I will not forget that wonderful experience and I give thanks to God for that.
My love forever Gloria Lucia Gomez

Gloria Gomez

November 7, 2021

My love and simphaty to Ann, Betsy and Susan for the good times when I had the opportunity to live as a foreign student with your family and I will never forget those special moments and how your mother protected me like a second mother.
Hope to have news from you some time
Gloria L. Gomez [email protected]
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Thomas McMahon

September 22, 2021

This is a son of Henry and Doris McMahon. My condolences to the entire Drinan family. Helen Drinan was the epitome of what made the greatest generation so great - wise, compassionate and deeply committed.
I remember her making hot chocolate for me many times after I played hockey on Crystal Lake, encouraging me to pursue a congressional internship with Fr. Drinan, and continually sparring with my mom at book club meetings! About 10 years ago, I visited her with my partner John from California, and she was as sharp, and as kind, as ever. I once ran into Gerard Kenslea at a bar on Santa Monica Boulevard, and we had a spirited argument over whose mother was really Helen Drinan´s best friend! That is what a special and unforgettable person she was. She touched so many lives in small but very important ways. Rejoice in her long and happy life!

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Debra Iles

September 13, 2021

We were neighbors of Helen´s for over twenty years on Norman Road in Newton, and always enjoyed her spirit, wisdom, generosity and feisty sense of humor. Our children had an open invitation to play in her large yard - she was kind and important to us all. We will miss her!

Myrna Swartz

September 12, 2021

Condolences on the loss of your mother.She sounds so much like you Betsy,and you are carrying on all of her good works.

Cathryn Capstick Costello

September 12, 2021

So sorry for the loss of Mrs Drinan. Such a long and beautiful life she had . With deep sympathy and love.

Cathy Capstick Costello and family

Eileen Drew Greisch

September 12, 2021

My condolences to the Drinan family at this sad time. My mother, Alice Drew, worked with Helen at BC Law School for many years, and always spoke well of her, and their friendship.
May she Rest In Peace.

Roger, Winnifred & James Drinan

September 12, 2021

Sending our condolences and love to our Drinan cousins.

Helen was a true lady and it was a privilege to have met and spent time with her and with yourselves in Newton in August 2016, such great memories!

Thinking of you all

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