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Bridget Mastandrea
February 26, 2009
Dear Laurie,
This is a beautiful tribute to your sons life. Thank you for creating it and sharing it with all of us. My thoughts are with you and your family often.
February 26, 2009
Laurie-
I just found the sympathy card I wrote you almost 2 months ago (I thought it had been sent long ago). Our warmest thoughts continue to be with you and your family.
Carrie Lamont, Ray Fallon, Emma & Nancy Killoran,
Gwen Greeley
February 18, 2009
I have, and will miss Ian for years to come, I used to travel with him at our high school, AQ. I lived with him for 3 years at AQ, and he became a brother to me. I feel a great regret for not staying in contact with him through-out the years, but I have not forgoton Ian. Not a week in my life goes by with out his face pop-ing into my mind. Ian made me feel like a hero when he decided not to run the waterfall in costa rica...and I did. let me tell you, it was the first and only time I showed him up....and not to mention he was years younger than I...Let the waters still flow, parhaps to a bay.. and Ian still play.. With love, Gwen Greeley
Gwen Ellen Greeley
February 18, 2009
Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.
Anne Walters
February 16, 2009
Dear Laurie, Rich, Scott, and Bonnie- you have put together a beautiful tribute to Ian- although I didn't know him his spirit shines through in pictures- I hope you find solace and comfort in your memories of him and with each other- deepest sympathy- Anne Walters
Barbie Hall Gummin
February 14, 2009
Laurie - Beautiful eulogy...My vision of you beaming as you witnessed Ian's incredible success as a vibrant sportsman and honor student is perfectly clear. Ian sounds like an extraordinary son and a young man who was haunted with a dark side that we cannot change and perhaps ever fully understand. Your own strength and endless enthusiasm for life and faith will keep you close to the everlasting spirit of your baby. I know you are a wonderful Mom. Ian’s brother will find comfort in having you all to himself.
Prayers for your continued passion for life…
Love,
Barbie
Kirstin Nagy
February 13, 2009
Dear Laurie, Rich, Scotty and Bonnie
Just wanted to let you know that our thoughts and love are with you. My memories of Ian as a child playing at the farm in Claremont have always stayed with me. He never did show any fear but always found fun and adventure while playing, especially outside. It was a privilage to care for Ian, Scotty and Bonnie as children, if not tiring at times to keep up with them. Ian especially, was always on the move. He will be missed.
The Friedman-Hanna Family
February 13, 2009
What a beautiful tribute to Ian. You are a kind and loving family...Ian was fortunate to have your love and support which allowed him to fully experience life's great adventures. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Melanie Robert
February 12, 2009
This tribute is absolutely beautiful. It touched all of my emotions. He was an amazing friend and sportsman. I was blown away watching his kyaking skill, guts and timing. You should be so proud. I will always remember his smiling face and yours beaming when you were with him. Loving thoughts to all of you, Melanie and DJ
Patrick Morgan
February 12, 2009
Ian, great times at the pool. You'll be missed by everyone you knew.
Emily Murphy
February 12, 2009
laurie,
i am truly sorry for your loss. i loved ian like he was my own brother. he will be truly missed.
Emily M.
February 8, 2009
Ian and I went to school together in Vancouver. He helped make my time there the most wonderful and memorable of my life, and I miss him deeply. There aren't words for how sorry I am and how much I miss my friend.
Dallas and Joe Hancock
January 8, 2009
Laurie, Rich, Scotty and Bonnie,
Words can not begin to express my heartfelt sympathies.
Laurie, we have laughed and cried together since we were 3 years old--- so you know you, your family, Rita and most of all Ian, are in my thoughts and prayers.
We love you!
Friends from Carpenter Lane
David Newman
January 5, 2009
Laurie,
Please accept our condolences and sympathy. This is without question the worst fear of every parent. However, it is his life, the people whose lives he affected, influenced, and improved that are forever changed. Ian's memory will continue in the lives of those he touched. I know this personally as our youngest son Chris lost a classmate and friend senior year. The good memories are permanent and always transcend through sorrow. Peace be with you and your family.
David & Heidi Newman
Betsy Lukens
January 4, 2009
Dear Laurie,
I heard from Margo about your son, Ian. I am so sorry for your loss; it is incomprehensible, I'm sure, for anyone who has not experienced the death of a child. I am a kayaker, too, and, without knowing him, I know that he must've experienced some incredible highs in his enjoyment of that sport alone. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Peter Bansen
January 3, 2009
Dear Laurie and family -
I am so sorry about the loss of your son, grandson and brother. From the comments written here, it is evident that Ian was a great friend, a valued companion, an adventurer - someone who made a lasting impression on the people around him. His legacy is one of kindness, enthusiasm and love.
Holding you in the Light,
Pete Bansen - Germantown Friends, '73
Charles Cresson Wood
January 3, 2009
Hello Laurie - So sorry to hear about the loss of your son. Sending you a prayer of compassion and appreciation.
Blessings,
Cresson
Ronaldo Cheek
January 3, 2009
Laurie, My deepest sympathies.
Ken Hellendall
January 3, 2009
Laurie,
I just heard from Margo Lukens about your loss. Having 3 children of my own, I can't imagine how you are feeling. I know it has been years since we have seen each other, buy know that my heart and thoughts are with you. Good Luck during this difficult time.
Ken Hellendall
Margo Lukens
January 3, 2009
Dear Laurie, Rich, Scotty and Bonnie,
I have been thinking of you all ever since I heard the sad news. Losing Ian is an unimaginably hard loss. Ken, Sarah and I send our love and condolences,
Margo
Luke S
December 30, 2008
Ian and I became close while we travelled with Huge Experiences. He was a very intelligent and thoughtful human being and I will miss him, and am very sad to hear the news. He was a very good person and friend - always looking out for everyone. Please accept my deepest sympathies for this loss..
Susan Burke
December 30, 2008
Dear Laurie, Rich, Scotty and Bonnie,
I am a very good friend of Laurie's from college. We don't see each other much due to distance. But my heart goes out to Laurie and her family as you grieve for your son/brother Ian. I only met Ian when he was small, but I enjoyed seeing him grow up through Christmas cards and email pictures. Know that my family has you in their hearts and prayers. Love, Susan, Roger and Kira Burke
Susan Wilensky
December 29, 2008
Dear Richard, Laurie, Scotty, and Bonnie,
You don't know us, our son, Jesse Wilensky, knew Ian from AQ and paddling and we had the good fortune to meet Ian when visiting Jesse. My husband and I want you to know that we were so sorry to hear of Ian's death and we hold him and you all in our thoughts and prayers.
I remember Ian as an enthusiastic paddler who was always up for a challenge on the river. He was younger than some of the other students but he had the stamina and drive to keep up with them. When I think back on my mental image of Ian, he has a smile on his face and a spray skirt around his waist.
The loss of a child is such a very painful loss. I hope that you can find some peace in the days to come.
Susan and Mark Wilensky
Michelle Byrne
December 29, 2008
Laurie, Rich, Scotty and Bonnie - I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
Aimee Byrne Healy
December 28, 2008
I am so sadened by your loss. My childhood was complete by your family and being able to come over after school and play with Ian. I have such fond memories of all the kids and you and Rich. I love you all and you remain in my thoughts and prayers.
Chris Norton
December 28, 2008
Bonnie I am sorry about what happened. I came here to tell you a little something that you dont know. Ive known Ian since we were freinds. When Ive heard about this I felt bad. If there is any thing I can do for you I would be happy to do it. I will be happy to call you tommorow I still have the phone number. Even though we didnt talk in a while. BFF Chris
MARIE DONOVAN
December 27, 2008
Laurie, Rich, Scotty, and Bonnie - Can't express in words how truly sorry we are about your recent loss of Ian. We're here for all of you. Bonnie, you are always welcome to come and have Irish breakfast at the Donovan's. You are all in our prayers, and thinking of you.
Love, Marie and Kevin
Olivia Franceschelli
December 27, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. I am glad that i had the pleasure to know Ian. He was always so happy and joyful. I'll always remember when Laurie took Bonnie and I to Canada to pick up Ian. He was so happy to see all of us. Again so sorry for your loss, My Family's deepest sympathy. If there is anything we can do call us: and i will always be there for Bonnie if she needs someone to talk to!
kayla donovan
December 27, 2008
i am so sorry for your loss , im so glad i had the pleasure of knowing Ian. I will always be there for Bonnie.
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