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JAKE COLBERT Obituary

COLBERT, Jake Of Manchester, NH, born in Boston, MA, died tragically in a car accident early on Friday, February 28th. He was only 32 years old. He is survived by his mother & stepfather, Jennifer & Keith DeSutter of Abington, MA, and his father & stepmother Charles Colbert & Toby Michelle Alley of Bar Harbor, ME. He is also survived by cousins, and friends, and uncles (Adam Brown, Tim DeSutter, and Mark Colbert), and best buddies, and aunts (Debi Colbert and Gail Conboy), and more friends, and by several communities of humans that have had their lives made so much better for having had what is far too short lived an opportunity to know and love Jake. Jake leaves family and friends in Downeast Maine, where he was much loved and a big part of an amazing, weird and wonderful community. The Colbert, Henries, and Klein families, and the Harvest Gathering folks will miss him fiercely. Jake was a survivor of the Boston foster care process. Thanks to an excellent program with The Home for Little Wanderers, he joined Jennifer & Charles in their Jamaica Plain home known as The Castle in 1999. Adoption quickly followed. As his parents both worked at the Boston Center for the Arts, Jake was brought into the world of theater and production. Jake shone...he was Jake-Star to his parents. At the BCA he was welcomed by a beautiful band of artists, administrators, & performers, and was able to participate in the BCA Teen Program (no longer funded), where he began to learn his love of technologies by running sound for their plays. He was also involved with Until Tomorrow, a Summer arts camp, where he got to clown around with other teens with, or without, special needs, launching him on his path to being extraordinarily compassionate and extremely silly. Jake was a graduate of Clearway School in Newton, MA ('06). There he learned to advocate for his learning disabilities and, importantly, began a lifelong commitment to advocating for himself, his friends, and family. He was always making time to help a friend, move a friend, visit a friend... He was dedicated to being a great friend to every friend he ever made. He went on to graduate from Benjamin Franklin Institute of Technology ('09) and then on to get his Bachelor of Science, Information Technology, from UMass Boston ('16). He had been working for Integra Biosciences US, in Hudson, NH. He was extremely proud of what he had accomplished in his job, and he really valued his colleagues and supervisors at Integra. He was also a passionate and proud lefty. A big, beautiful, Bernie-Supporting, Lefty. He was knowledgeable, extremely well-read, and woe to anyone on any page on Facebook that did not have their facts straight. His writing was sharp, and often extremely funny. Except when he hit you with one of his really bad jokes. Really, really bad jokes. His posts on Facebook were often likely to make a person fall out laughing. His humor, his love, his intelligence, his smile, his laugh… Everything that was Jake is going to be terribly missed. He was an amazing son. In lieu of flowers, his family and friends request donations to be given in Jake's name to: The Home for Little Wanderers www.thehome.org Click the big green DONATE button near the top, then click to complete the tribute form. The Home has the address for acknowledgements on record, so no need to enter anything but the name Jake Colbert to process a memorial gift. Or, other suggested donations are The Clearway School of Newton, Benjamin Franklin Institute of Technology, or Boston Center for the Arts. All of these organizations were very important to Jake. Relatives and friends are kindly invited to visit with Jake's family in the William J. Gormley Funeral Home, 2055 Centre Street, WEST ROXBURY, on Saturday, March 7th, 2020 from 1:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m. For directions and guestbook, please visit gormleyfuneral.com William J. Gormley Funeral Service 617-323-8600

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Published by Boston Globe from Mar. 2 to Mar. 3, 2020.

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Josh

March 25, 2020

I am so sorry to hear about this. My wife and I were were Jake's neighbors for the past few years. We didnt talk very much, but from the few times we did talk, I could tell he was genuine and a really nice guy. So sad to hear about this. My sincerest condolences to his family.

Kathie Gaianguest

March 6, 2020

My heart and comforting thoughts go out to all of you. May you be surrounded by love, support and caring now and in the many days to come.

March 6, 2020

It can be so hard to face the first year without your loved one, but the love of family and friends can carry you through.

Jody Steiner

March 6, 2020

My heart goes out to family and friends. Sending gentle waves of healing and comfort.
Jody

Ash Brown

March 5, 2020

I met Jake during his first years at the castle. I remember him as a kind and curious kid. I'm not surprised to read the kind of man he became in this touching remembrance. Big love to Jenn, and Jakes family and friends during your time of grief.

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Chris Senhouse

March 4, 2020

I taught Jake at Clearway School and we kept in touch in the years since. I was so proud of the intelligent, thoughtful, and good man he had become. My condolences to all of Jake's family and friends who are going to miss him.

KELLY OSGOOD

March 4, 2020

I never had the pleasure of meeting Jake, however I too lost my son to a single car accident on NH roadways. My deepest sympathies go out to all his family and friends. May this candle shine bright in his memory and may the Lord comfort and bless you all.

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Leslie Ranft

March 3, 2020

Thinking of you! Sending love!

Karen Stensrude

March 3, 2020

Dear Jennifer,

Sending you, your family, and all who knew and loved your remarkable son, Love, Comfort & Peace. Please accept my deepest condolences.

Kate Laurent

March 3, 2020

My condolences to the family and close friends of Jake. I have had the pleasure of working with Jake for almost three years and am grateful I had. My fondest memory is when he and I talked about his cat and training the cat on the toilet. He was always willing to listen when I had stories about my dog too! Recently, when he came over to my desk to help me with my computer, he saw a magnet of a Labrador Retriever with a few tennis balls and the magnet said "Retriever's Conundrum" and he taught me what the word meant. Jake was always so helpful and always made me laugh <3

Kate Laurent

March 3, 2020

Kate Laurent

March 3, 2020

Jake was an incredible person to work with. He always knew to listen and actually cared when I had to share stories with him about my dog. One of my favorite memories of Jake is when he told me he taught his cat to potty on a toilet. I kept that conversation going for a long time when I first met him at work almost three years ago. He also recently taught me the word "conundrum" when he came to my desk and I had a magnet of a "Labrador Retriever's Conundrum". Over this past weekend, that word ironically kept popping up. I'll remember you always, "Jake from State Farm".

Jake with the INTEGRA IT Team (minus me, taking the picture)

Garrett Nelson

March 3, 2020

Jake was an incredible force that any IT department or friend would be lucky to have.

He was a fantastic coworker. He would consistently go out of his way to make sure people felt happy, comfortable, and supported. He was always offering advice (sometimes not even asked for, but he always had an idea!), often teaching me new skills while juggling his own workload, and even on his days off he was available when I needed him. Not only was he a hard worker but an innovator who never stopped looking for a new ideas and solutions with the latest tech. I can't imagine asking any more from a colleague and we will certainly never be able to replace him.

While I mainly knew him professionally, that didn't stop him from making an impact on my personal life. He was always giving to others and it was impossible to not admire his ability to make new friends and elevate them to a higher level, despite the cost to himself. He shared anything if asked, always willing to take a movie request or to lend his tools to someone for some random task. It seemed like every weekend he had plans to help a friend move or to set something up for someone he loved. He was the type that would do more for a stranger than many others would do for their friends. Jake was bold and never hesitated to share his opinion, for better or for worse. And while it seemed like he always had some issue with his apartment or his car, he never let it impact his attitude and it seemed the only things he didn't share with others were his burdens.

Jake was an excellent dude, through and through, and will be missed sorely. My deepest condolences to his family and anyone who was lucky enough to know him.

March 3, 2020

I only knew Jake for a short time, but he is someone i will never forget! So tragic to lose someone so young and full of life. My heart goes out to his family and friends during this difficult time.
Dan Tesoro, integra

March 3, 2020

I only knew Jake for a short time, but he is someone i will never forget! So tragic to lose someone so young and full of life. My heart goes out to his family and friends during this difficult time.
Dan Tesoro, integra

March 3, 2020

This Obituary so beautifully captures what I knew (and didn't know!) about Jake. I am sending my prayers and Condolences to his family.
Gina Gould, Integra

March 3, 2020

We hardly knew the extent that his brilliance would reach. Gone too soon. Rest in peace, Jake.
Gary and Kathy nelson

sarah patchett

March 3, 2020

Jake was so loved by his parents and I know how much they will miss him. Im sorry I didn't get to know such an amazing young man but my heart goes out to those that knew and loved him. Sarah x

Abe Rybeck

March 2, 2020

I am grateful for this Obituary that so beautifully captures what I knew (and didn't know!) about this terrific young man. I am sending deep love and condolences to Jennifer Brown DeSutter and Chuck Colbert. You have brought so much wonder to my life and work, including the privilege of knowing and working with Jake. As we say in Jewish tradition: May his memory be as a blessing.

Joan Thomas

March 2, 2020

Jake a soul who will be missed by many. May your next journey be joyous. your cousin Joan

Isabel Cobb

March 2, 2020

I didnt know Jake for long but the time I got to spend with him was special, he was special! Im so very sorry for his tragic and sudden departure.

Kellie Bradshaw

March 2, 2020

An extraordinary young man who has left us too soon. Sending my love to Jen, Keith, Adam, chuck, and Toby as well as his extended family.

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