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Of Wilmington, in Kamloops, British Columbia, Canada, by accident at the age of 19, November 7. Beloved son of James M. and Mary Ann (Dattero) McGonagle of Wilmington. Loving brother of Michelle A. and Lauren M. McGonagle of Wilmington. Cherished grandson of Joseph and Rose Dattero of Wilmington and Phil and Mary McGonagle of Malden. Nephew of Nancy and Andrew Barr, Janet and Jason Stone, Patricia and Gerald Amirault, Kathy and Mike Spencer, John and Janine McGonagle and Mary and David Lee. Jimmy is also survived by his many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. Funeral from the Cota Funeral Home, 335 Park St. (corner of Park St. and Rte. 28), NORTH READING, at Reading Line, on Wednesday, November 13 at 8:45 a.m. Funeral Mass in St. Thomas of Villanova Church, 126 Middlesex Ave., Wilmington at 10 a.m. Relatives and friends may call at the Funeral Home Monday 7-9 p.m. and Tuesday 2-4 and 7-9 p.m. Interment Wildwood Cemetery, Wilmington. Donations may be made in Jimmy's memory to the James M. McGonagle II Scholarship Fund, c/o Austin Preparatory High School, 101 Willow St., Reading, MA 01867. Jimmy was Captain of the Austin Prep Football Team, Asst. Captain of the Austin Prep Hockey Team and was recruited by the Williams Lake Timber Wolves Junior A British Columbia Hockey League. (cotafuneralhomes.com) (978) 664-4340

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Published by Boston Globe from Nov. 9 to Nov. 10, 2002.

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Katie Fryzel

January 14, 2003

Hey buddy, it's me, 'lil Katie. Just wanted to say "hi" and I miss ya. Also...I have one quick favor to ask. On December 11th God sent my boyfriend of two years, Freddie Pike, to you. I just wanted to ask you to keep him safe, show him how it's done, maybe play a little hockey with him. I miss all you guys a ton, you, Jeffy, my Freddie. It is unbelievable to me that you are all gone at such young ages, it tares at my heart everyday. I hope all is well, and I want to let you know that everytime I see Lauren's cute 'lil grin I think of you. Keep an eye on all of us, we definately need it.

<3 katie

Pat MacElhaney

November 26, 2002

Jim, Maryann, Michelle and Lauren,



No words can express our deepest sympathy to the entire McGonagle family. Our hearts our broken over the loss of Jimmy. His spirit will live on in all that knew him. In his very short time here he touched many. As difficult as it is to accept that Jimmy was called from you so soon, we know that this is a beginning and not an end. Our hearts are heavy, but our hope is eternal.



Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.



Tom, Pat and Kimmy

Meaghan Marsilia

November 15, 2002

Dear Mr. McGonagle, Mrs. McGonagle, Michelle, and Lauren

I am so sorry about Jimmy. We all loved him very much. I will never forget what an amazing person he was. He always knew how to put a smile on someone's face. I love you all very much! You all are amazing people and Jimmy is proud to be watching over you all. He is with the best now, playing for the best. He will always be with you. Lauren, you are so much like your brother, your big smile and the way you can make anyone feel better no matter what. Your an amazing person and I'm so greatful to have you as my best friend. I am so thankful to have you all in my life. I wish i could do something to help you all but all i can say is Jimmy loves you all very much and is watching over you forever. This is just more proof that "Only the Good Die Young." I love you all

~Meaghan Marsilia~

And Jean Marsilia

Amanda Kwolyk

November 14, 2002

I am deeply sorry to hear about Jim, he was a spirited young man,he meant a lot to so many people and he will surely be missed

Paula and Marvin Harris

November 14, 2002

Dear Mary Ann and Jim,we were so sorry to hear the news about Jim,he was such a fine young man we know he will always be here in spirit.May the good lord console you and your family.

Matthew Coyne

November 14, 2002

Jim we will miss you buddy, you were one of the best people I have ever meet!

Bridget and Shannon Kent

November 13, 2002

Mr and Mrs. McGonagle Michelle and Lauren

i hope you have the strength to get through this with your heads held high. Jimmy was an amazing person and he will never be forgotten my prayers are with you always!

"only the good die young"

Joe Molash

November 13, 2002

Jim, Maryann, Michelle and Lauren,



I can't even imagine what all of you are going through right now. But I do know how strong your family is and the amount of love you have for each other. Little Jim touch many people's hearts and always left an impression. Especially with my son Kevin. He never stopped talking about him. I am sorry I couldn't be there for you all. Stay strong and hug each other knowing he is looking down on all of you.



Love Joe

Kelly Silva

November 12, 2002

To The McGonagles,

My prayers are with you and your family. I know Jimmy is smiling down on all of us. He is now playing hockey with all the angels. I will always remember him. He was a special young man. God Bless

Megan Sullivan

November 12, 2002

Jim, Maryann, Michelle and Lauren,



The prayers of myself and my whole family are with all of you. When I think back to all the time I spent with Jimmy I just remember how easy it was to make him laugh. His big smile and light hearted attitude will be missed by so many. Watching him grow up in the "softball family" and then spending alot of time with him at Recreation, I saw him grow into a great kid with such a good heart. I am so sorry for your loss of such a wonderful son and brother.

With all my love and prays,

Megan

Judy Cavanaugh

November 12, 2002

Jim, Mary, Michelle, Lauren.

I have many wonderful memories of little Jimmy! My thoughts and prayers are with the four of you and all of the McGonagle's and Dattero's.

Judy

Beth Connors

November 12, 2002

Dear Jim, Mary Ann, Michelle, Lauren and all beloved family members,



We are deeply saddened by this terrible loss. Jim was a testament to your loving family. He was sweet and kind, sensitive and loving. He will never be forgotten. Take strength from your family and many colleagues and friends who are grateful to have known you all. There is never logic to such a tragedy, but I believe his spirit will be with you to guide you all through your lives. --- Shana and DJ McMahon and “Mom”

The Holland Family

November 12, 2002

To The McGonagle Family



We are so sorry for your loss. It is the worst heartache a parent can endure the loss of a child. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Unfortunately for us this website has become a familiar place. What is amazing though is that you get to read these wonderful messages from people. Eddie and I never got through them without reaching for a tissue but it's unbelievable to think of all the people our children have touched in so short of a time.

One of Kim's friends sent us this quote: "When somebody dies, a cloud turns into an angel, and flies up to tell God to put another flower on a pillow. A bird gives the message back to the world, and sings a silent prayer that makes the rain cry. People disappear, but they never really go away. The spirits up there put the sun to bed, wake up grass, and spin the earth in dizzy circles. Sometimes you can see them dancing in a cloud during the day-time, when they're supposed to be sleeping. They paint the rainbows and also the sunsets and make waves splash and tug at the tide. They toss shooting stars and listen to wishes. And when they sing wind-songs, they whisper to us, don't miss me too much. The view is nice and i'm doing just fine."

Eddie, Kathie and Tiffany

Julianne Roque

November 11, 2002

Dear Mr. and Mrs. McGonagle, Michelle, and Lauren,

Jim was a wonderful person. I always loved talking to him in classes. He will be missed greatly. You are in my daily thoughts and prayers.

Jennifer Roque

November 11, 2002

Dear Mr. and Mrs. McGonagle, Michelle and Lauren,



My deepest sympathies to you all. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Lisa Dickinson

November 11, 2002

Dear Jim, Maryann, Michelle and Lauren:

We were deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Jim was such a great help to Caitlyn when she was starting out as a goalie at Austin. She always spoke of his patience and willingness to teach the skills he worked so hard to achieve. We all loved watching him play both hockey and football at Austin. You are all in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.



Mike, Lisa and Caitlyn Dickinson

SUSAN BARRY

November 11, 2002

To my dear, sweet cousin Jimmy -



I know you know how much we love you this tribute and the many others reinforces how we all feel and will always feel about you.

A great kid with a big heart and a warm smile. An outstanding athlete and a wonderful human being. Many could learn from such a nice young man.

You will always be close to my broken heart and will never be forgotten. I am comforted by my memories of the good times we shared together. I'll still look for you on the ice.

I love you and I miss you.



To my large extended family, I love you all. Be strong. CHERISH LIFE.



Cousin Susan-B

The Norman Family

November 10, 2002

Dear Mr.and Mrs.McGonagle and Family,



Our daughter Julie was in Jim's class at Austin Prep. We were very saddened to learn of his death and offer our condolences and prayers to you and your family. We will keep you in our thoughts at this very difficult time.



Sincerely, The Norman Family

November 10, 2002

Mac & Maryann,

We were sorry to here of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. The support of family and friends will get you through this. Stay strong.



God Bless.



Kathy and Tom Hannan

Chip Bruce

November 9, 2002

Jim,Maryann,Michelle and Lauren;

I'm so very sorry and I have all of you in my thoughts and prayers. I thank you for letting me know Jimmy and for sharing him with so many fortunate friends. I will alway remember his constant smile and quiet chuckle. May God give you the strength to endure and the courage to go on. God Bless,

Chip

Molly O'Mara

November 9, 2002

Coach Mac, MaryAnn, Michelle, and Lauren, my thoughts and prayers are with you, Jimmy was an outstanding athlete and a great friend. His smile and good nature will always hold a place in my fond memories and in my heart.

Michelle Boutiette

November 9, 2002

Dear Coach, and Mrs Mac. Jimmy was such a great kid he will be missed but never forgotten. We are praying for you. RIP Jimmy.

MADONNA TOTO

November 9, 2002

DEAR JIM, MARYANN AND FAMILY,



WE WERE VERY SADDENED TO HEAR OF YOUR GREAT LOSS. NO FAMILY SHOULD HAVE TO GO THROUGH SUCH PAIN AND SACRIFICE. MAY THE LORD TAKE YOU UNDER HIS WING AND HELP YOU GET THROUGH ALL OF THIS.

WE SEND OUR HEARTFELT SYMPATHY IN YOUR TIME OF SORROW. I WILL PRAY FOR ALL OF YOU.



SINCERELY

MICHAEL AND DONNA TOTO

AND FAMILY

Elizabeth Asta

November 9, 2002

We are keeping your family in our prayers. Jim will be greatly missed, his smile, his charisma, but we know his spirit will always be with us.

H.

November 9, 2002

May he rest in peace... an angel now in Heaven. I pray for his family to find strength during this difficult time, and may others see the lesson learned in this senseless death.

Marco Falcone

November 9, 2002

A great teammate, an amazing brother and an unforgettable friend, I will always miss you Jim.

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