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JOHN J. DESANTIS

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Doane Beal & Ames Funeral Homes - Hyannis

160 West Main Street

Hyannis, Massachusetts

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Mass Of Christian Burial

Dec. 17, 2025

11:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m.

Our Lady of Victory Parish

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JOHN DESANTIS Obituary

DeSANTIS, John (Jay) J. Of West Hyannisport, formerly of Milton, died at his home, on December 11, 2025. Son of the late Joseph O. and Ann P. DeSantis; brother of Margaret DeSantis Ahearn and her husband, Kevin Ahearn of Boston. Father to Melissa Flamburis and her husband, Gary Orlando of Boston, Trina Payan of Dennisport and David Flamburis and his wife, Natalie of Westford. Funeral Mass of Christian Burial will be held at Our Lady Victory, Centerville, MA, on Wednesday, December 17, 2025, at 11 a.m. All are welcome to attend. Burial at St. Joseph's Cemetery, in West Roxbury, MA, immediately following will be private. Donations in his memory may be made to the St. Vincent de Paul Society at Our Lady of Victory Parish, Centerville, MA. Doane, Beal, & Ames Funeral Home Hyannis, MA www.doanebealameshyannis.com

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Published by Boston Globe from Dec. 13 to Dec. 14, 2025.

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Mass of Christian Burial

11:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m.

Our Lady of Victory Parish

230 S Main St, Barnstable, MA 02632

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160 West Main Street, Hyannis, MA 02601

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December 13, 2025

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