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John F. McCabe Jr.

1951 - 2017

John F. McCabe Jr. obituary, 1951-2017, Westborough, MA

BORN

1951

DIED

2017

FUNERAL HOME

Roney Funeral Home

152 Worcester Street

North Grafton, Massachusetts

John McCabe Obituary

McCABE, John F. Jr. MA State Trooper (Retired) WESTBOROUGH - John F. McCabe Jr. 66, MA State Police (Ret), passed away while surrounded by his loving family on July 27, 2017 after a brave battle with cancer. He is survived by his wife of 41 years, Deborah M. (Gibbons) McCabe; Four children, Patrick F. McCabe, his wife Corinne, their children Michael, Kayleigh and Brayden of Westborough; Meghan E. Remuck, her husband Kevin, their children Melanie and Emily of Millbury; Brendan J. McCabe, his wife Casey, their daughter Annabelle of Stoughton; Colleen R. McCabe, her son Joseph of Grafton. He also leaves one sister, Martha Frawley of Burlington VT, three brothers, Stephen McCabe, his late wife Lois of Plymouth; Philip McCabe, his wife Beth of Scituate; Paul McCabe, his wife Gail of Mattapoisett; his sister-in-law Joyce who is the wife of his late brother Frank and many loving nieces, nephews and friends. Mr. McCabe was born in Boston, the son of John F. and Frances (Skelly) McCabe and was raised in Roslindale and Dedham. He was a 1969 graduate of Dedham High School, where he was a standout football player and shot putter. He was a proud graduate of Northeastern University, which he attended on a full football scholarship. He moved to Westborough in 1976, where he lived for 41 years with his beloved wife, Debbie and four children. John was a graduate of The 59th Training Class of The Massachusetts State Police in 1975. Over his 26 year career he worked in C Troop, the Attorney General's Office, and the Worcester District Attorney Drug Enforcement Unit. He was sworn in as a US Marshall while serving in the Violent Fugitive Apprehension Section. For sixteen years, John made significant contributions to the Middlesex District Attorney's Drug Enforcement Unit as an undercover narcotics officer. He retired from the State Police in 2000 and went on to become President and owner of McCabe and Associates, a private investigative firm. He was also a volunteer and supporter of the Cystic Fibrosis Foundation for over 30 years. In his personal life, one of his greatest joys was bringing a smile to others with his lighthearted jokes. John lived life to the fullest. Many of his happiest moments were family vacations to Martha's Vineyard and Old Silver Beach. He most enjoyed fishing, special time with his grandkids and sitting next to Debbie by the fire watching the Patriots. Whenever someone was in need, John was always only a phone call away and would do whatever he could to help. His selflessness will never be forgotten. John's family requests in lieu of flowers, donations in his memory to; Boston Children's Hospital, The Jimmy Fund or The Make A Wish Foundation. The Funeral will be Tuesday August 1st with family and friends gathering at The Roney Funeral Home, 152 Worcester St. in North Grafton at 10 AM begin a funeral procession at 10:30 AM to St. Luke the Evangelist Church, 70 West Main St. in Westborough for the celebration of a Mass of Christian Burial at St. Luke the Evangelist Church, 70 West Main St. in Westborough. He will then be laid to rest at St. Luke's Cemetery in Westborough. All are invited to calling hours Monday July 31st from 4 to 8 PM at The Roney Funeral Home, 152 Worcester St. in NORTH GRAFTON. A book to share memories and offer condolences is available at; www.RoneyFuneralHome.com Roney Funeral Home Grafton MA 508-839-4491 www.RoneyFuneralHome.com

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Published by Boston Globe from Jul. 29 to Jul. 30, 2017.

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Mal Kadra

July 23, 2020

Rest in Peace John.

Yessie gonzalez

August 14, 2017

best patient ever, wonderful human being!! DR. Gonzalez and I will truly miss you John may you rest in peace.

July 31, 2017

Mrs,McCabe and family. Sincere condolences from mike Greaney ,brother of deceased MSP det. Lt. pat Greaney John was a great man. Peace

ROBERT O'KEEFE

July 31, 2017

Mrs. McCabe and family,
Sincere condolences from my family to yours. I had the privilege to work with John both with the State Police and after privately. He was a great, caring man. May he rest in peace.

Susie Flynn

July 31, 2017

Debbie, Patrick, Meghan, Brendan, Colleen & the entire McCabe Family,
John was a larger than life person who had a smile that was contagious & would light up a room. I loved when I would ask him how he was doing and he would answer "Livin the Dream". And he did live his dream. He was adored by his family & friends and loved them with all his heart.
I love you John and may you rest in peace.
Susie Flynn

Steve Byron

July 31, 2017

Debbie and Family,

You have my Deepest Sympathies and Heartfelt Condolences for the loss of John. I knew John for more than forty (40) years. Although, we were never assigned together, we were friends.

After retirement, I was lucky enough to work for John in his PI business. We spent a lot of hours together through the Good Times and the Thin Times.

God does not send us many forty year friends and John was the very best!!! I am truly heartbroken at his passing.

My only comfort is that John is now Young, Pain Free as he patrols the streets of Heaven!!!

Michael John McCann

July 30, 2017

I do not really know what to say Deb. Love you! To the entire family. I send love. He was one of the finest people I ever met. We all had many laughs together. A great spirit! Travel safe.

Gene Dumas

July 30, 2017

Always remember how dedicated John was to his friends .RIP friend.

Susan (White) Webster

July 30, 2017

Mrs. McCabe and family,
Please accept my very deepest condolences on John's passing. I went to Dedham High, and John was in my class. I remember him as funny, full of personality, and a great guy. I was amazed at his vast accomplishments as an officer of the law, and I can imagine how proud you are of him. You will be in my prayers for God's peace and strength.

michael macedo

July 30, 2017

Rest in Peace John, God Bless you my brother.

Thomas King

July 30, 2017

I am on sorry to hear about your loss. Prayers to you. John was a great man and officer.

Michael Sullivan

July 30, 2017

To the McCabe Family:

Please accept our deepest sympathies. We enjoyed working with John both at the DA's and AG's offices. He cared about what he did and those he worked with.

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Sincerely,

Michael and Walter Sullivan

Kim and Terry Barton

July 30, 2017

Deb and Family, our deepest condolences during this difficult time. Prayers for strength and peace to you all. Kim and Terry, Ben and David Barton

MALCOLM KADRA

July 29, 2017

My deepest and heartfelt condolences to the McCabe Family on the loss of John. He was a fine man. May he rest in Peace.

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Calling hours

4:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Roney Funeral Home

152 Worcester Street, North Grafton, MA 01536

Aug

1

Memorial Gathering

10:00 a.m.

Roney Funeral Home

152 Worcester Street, North Grafton, MA 01536

Aug

1

Funeral

10:30 a.m.

procession to St. Luke the Evangelist Church

70 West Main St., Westborough, MA

Aug

1

Mass of Christian Burial

11:00 a.m.

St. Luke the Evangelist Church

70 West Main St., Westborough, MA

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152 Worcester Street, North Grafton, MA 01536

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