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JOHN NILES Obituary

NILES, John "Jay" Cutler Niles, of Marblehead, MA and Woodstock, VT passed away peacefully at home on Sunday, July 9th, 2017 with his loving family by his side. He was 54 years old. Born in Buffalo, NY, Jay spent the majority of his youth in Londonderry, VT and Hanover NH, where he developed his love for the green mountains and skiing. Jay attended Westminster School in Simsbury, CT and later took great joy in his role on the Board of Trustees. Jay went on to receive a BA in History from St. Lawrence University in Canton, NY where he played varsity soccer and lacrosse. He also completed the Advanced Management Program at Harvard Business School. Jay began his professional career with Bank of Boston before moving on to more entrepreneurial endeavors. He was an early member of the management team at First Marblehead Corporation, where he helped grow the company from its early days as a start-up to a publicly traded entity on the NYSE. He followed his passion of sustainability and alternative energy to several companies, most recently Comet Biorefining, where he led business development. He was an enthusiastic leader with a tireless work ethic and unparalleled ability to solve complex problems. It was at St. Lawrence that he met his future wife, Cara, who shared Jay's lifelong passion for the outdoors which they passed down to their three children. Jay was a gifted skier and a dedicated fisherman. He was a loving boat owner, spending countless hours in his last months restoring and enjoying his Boca Grande 26, SKATE. Jay's creative soul can be seen through his talent as a craftsman and general purveyor of all things that needed fixing. His kindness, quiet nature and love for life were felt by all whose lives he touched. Jay's greatest joy was being surrounded by family in the many beautiful places life took him. Jay is preceded in death by his mother, Carolyn (Wende) Niles, and sister Ashley Bushnell Niles. He is survived by his wife Cara (Bertrand) Niles, and children Lily Barrett Niles, Charles Bushnell Niles and Isabelle Alden Niles, his father John Adams Niles and sister Wende Niles Briggs. A celebration of Jay's life will be held on August 8th at 1pm at The Eastern Yacht Club, 47 Foster Street in Marblehead, MA.

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Published by Boston Globe from Jul. 15 to Jul. 16, 2017.

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Jane Cote

July 29, 2017

Our thoughts are prayers are with you.
Remember him fondly from our days at Westminster.

July 24, 2017

To the Niles Family: My heartfelt sympathies go out to the family and friends during this difficult time. I hope that the promise in 1 Thessalonians 4:14 can bring comfort. Knowing that there's a hope for the ones we have lost in death can be so reassuring.

Parker Johnson

July 18, 2017

My deepest condolences to Jay's family on your loss. We have not seen each other in years too many to count, but Jay will remain a bright light in my memory. Regards, Parker

Hilleary Coleman

July 16, 2017

With much love to Jay's family, and with very fond memories of your son/father/husband. Jay left a positive impression on everyone who met him!

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