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Of Norwood, Jan. 19, age 64. Son of the late John and Remely (Mazzoli) Shalbey died peacefully in the arms of his loving wife at his home surrounded by his family. John was born in 1944 in Boston, Ma., grew up in West Roxbury and eventually settled in Norwood where hes been a proud member of the community for the past 40 yrs. John began his business career as a investor in Florida real estate. He founded the Rojo Corp. in 1967 which has become a landmark business on the Automile in Norwood. Rojo was honored in 2005 as the largest independently-owned retailer of shell gasoline in the Massachusetts marketing area. Along with the Rojo Corp. John has been involved in real estate development and was an active investor in many other business endeavors. John was a daily communicant of the 6:45am mass at St Catherine's Church Norwood, greatly enjoying that service with many regular participants. He was also a spiritual leader of the Thursday Holy Hour, attending weekly along with the children of St Catherine's School. A devout Catholic, John supported many charitable organizations in this country and overseas. Some of his favorites were the former Cardinal Medeiros Center in Boston, St. Francis House in Boston, Food for the Poor in Florida and our Lady's Peace Home in India. John was extremely devoted to the community of Norwood and took it upon himself to encourage its beautification by annually planting flower beds throughout the town. This was one of many civic projects that John initiated in Norwood. John was selfless giver of his time and resources to anyone who he found to be in need. His anonymous contributions to many who otherwise would have been overlooked or forgotten are innumerable. John's faith, love of family, humility, charity, and a spontaneous enthusiasm for life are the legacies he bequeaths to us. John is survived by his loving wife of 27 yrs, Dianne (Elias) Shalbey, his four children, Nicole Tourigney and her husband, Eric of wakefield, Ma, Garrett, John and Leah Shalbey of Norwood, two sisters, Barbara S. Belyea of North Attleboro, Patricia Remely Shalbey of Walpole, 2 grandchildren Mikayla and Matthew Tourigney, his sister in law Sharon Elias Weiskerger of Foxboro, a Niece Jenna Weiskerger of Foxboro, 2 nephews Christopher of SC, and Alexander of Maine, and his beloved Mother in Law Dolores (Tomm) Elias of Norwood. A Funeral from the Kraw-Kornack Funeral Home 1248 Washington St. NORWOOD, Wednesday 10 am followed by a funeral mass at 11 am at St Catherine's of Siena Church Norwood. Visiting Hours Tuesday 3-8 pm. Interment Highland Cemtery Norwood. In lieu of flowers donations made in his name to Partners Hospice Development office, 218 Winter St., Suite 200 Waltham, Ma. 02451-8713. Kraw-KornacK Funeral Home 781-762-0482

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Published by Boston Globe on Jan. 21, 2008.

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Joanne GLeason

February 14, 2008

Dear Dianne, My heart goes out to you I am so sorry to hear of John's passing. I have you in my prayers.

With much love, Joanne

Carol,Maria,Michelle Shaheen

February 6, 2008

Dianne,Tricia,Nicole,
We are deeply sorry,John was a wonderful friend I will always remember his beautiful smile.with heartfelt sympathy to you and your family.

Stacey Miller-Quinones

January 31, 2008

Dear Diane & Family
From the bottom of our hearts we are so deeply saddened by Johns passing.
He was a special person and will be missed by many.
Our thoughts and prayers will stay with your family throughout this trying time, and we know that the strength John demonstrated will help to encourage you and your family through this difficult time.
John had a legacy and I am certain you are all proud of him, as you should be.
We were all blessed in ways to have shared life with him.
Love, Stacey Miller Quinones, Jose & Crystallyne

Carol, DawnAnn and Christine Johnson

January 28, 2008

We are sorry to learn about John's passing. Our prayers are with you.

Darin & Barbara Bennett

January 28, 2008

Dear Diane and family,
We are so very sorry to learn of John's passing. He was a very generous man, in which I learned a great deal from. I will never forget him and your family. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you always.

Paul and MaryAnn Campisano

January 27, 2008

We are so sorry to learn of John's passing. He was a dedicated husband and father - the love of his family was so obvious. May you find peace in his memory.

Tricia Blais-Blunt

January 26, 2008

Dear Barbara and Tricia;
I am so sorry to hear about your brother John. He was a very special guy. I am sure that he will be looking out for both of you. My prayers are with you. Love Tricia

Richard Payeur

January 24, 2008

Dear Dianne and the Shalbey Family,
We were saddened to hear of John's passing. He was a true gentleman with a kind and generous heart. We have good memories of the times we spent together.
Richard Payeur and Ellen Bradley

A. M. Hampson

January 24, 2008

Deaar Dianne,
Our deepest synpathy to you and your family.
We always enjoyed seeing and talking with
John in Perkins Cove. We know he will be
sadly missed by family and community.
Sincerely, Ed and Ann Hampson

John and Diana Evans

January 24, 2008

Dear Dianne and family, We are so sorry to hear about John's passing; we remember him fondly from our years at "The Shack" in Perkins Cove. He always had a smile and a good word for everyone. Though we haven't seen him for awhile since our retirement,we know his presence in "The Cove" will be missed. God's peace to the family through this difficult time.

Amanda (McCartney) Hayes

January 23, 2008

Nicole -
I am so sorry about your Dad. I will be praying for you and hope that God's healing love and strength will be with you.
Take comfort in the fact that your Dad loved you very much. You are the very person who made him a "dad" and as such, you will always have a very special place in his heart.
Take care.

Kevin Percy (Percy Concrete)

January 23, 2008

To John's family and to the crew at Rojo's. We offer our deepest sympathy for you loss.

NANCY CAWLEY

January 23, 2008

Diane and kids,
Our prayers are with you. Be strong and remember John for the wonderful man he was.
Nancy Gillis Cawley and family

stephen mealy

January 23, 2008

Dear ,Dianne and family,
I will always carry John with me,he is truly one of my best friends and more.I am so blessed to have John in my life.I will miss our father and son talks.
I love you John.

Bill and Marie Pimley

January 22, 2008

Dear John, We were saddened to hear about the passing of your dad. We knew how much you loved him.He will always know what a great son you are!

Brooke Whittemore

January 22, 2008

Dianne & Family,

I am truly sorry for your loss. My prayers are with all of you, may John rest in peace.

Jeani Frederick

January 22, 2008

Dianne and family
May God and the Blessed Mother console you at this time. We pray for John's soul and for your peace.
Love,
Jeani Frederick and Chousa Family

Stephen Phipps

January 22, 2008

To the Shalbey family:

John was always someone my mom and myself respected very much by his accomplishments and his good deeds to many people I knew. It was always a pleasure to talk to him at church and he was very positive influence when he gave advice. He will be sorely missed.

Lori and Fran LaBrecque

January 22, 2008

Diane and Family
With deep heartfelt sorrow we extend our sympathies to you. We will hold onto our fondest memories of sharing family time at St. Sebastian's School where our boys attended together.

Michael & Deborah Perrone

January 22, 2008

We are truely sorry for such a huge loss in your wonderful family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you,

Lorraine Nazzaro

January 22, 2008

Dear Diane, and family, It was such a priviledge for me to care for John at MGH; I only knew both of you for such a short time, but felt close to you both immediately; I only wish that I could have done more for you and that we had met under different circumstances. John was an amazing presence and will not be forgotten but missed and thought of often. Sincerely, Lorraine Nazzaro

Deborah Jhaver

January 22, 2008

Dear Diane, John, Garret and Leah

We are so saddened at the passing
of your Husband and Dad. Our thoughts
and prayers are with you.

Love
The Jhavers
Debi, Nizar and David

Debbie,Jennifer&Michael Wells

January 22, 2008

Dear Diane,Nicole,Garrett,John,Leah,
Barbara,Trisha,and families,
Our deepest symapthy to you all at this sad time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Amelia Levy

January 22, 2008

Dianne and Family,

I will never forget when I first met John during the Thanksgiving dinner in 2006. I remember how happy, cheerful and interesting he was! I could not stop laughing from the jokes and conversations. He made me feel comfortable and part of the family.

I will never ever forget him.

Love,

joseph capone

January 22, 2008

Dear Diane and Family, I never met a man with a heart so big that he could give so much to so many. All of us including those that don't even know him have suffered a great great loss.

Bruce Everett

January 22, 2008

To the Shalbey and Rojo family; I'm deeply saddened to hear of John's passing. John recently held an terrific appreciation dinner for the many vendors he does business with. This event was a fine example of where John's priorities were - kind, devoted and gracious. I feel very fortunate to have known him. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

Tom and Ella Brown

January 21, 2008

Dear Diane, John, Garret, Leah, Trish and Patrick:

Ella and I are deeply saddened to learn of the loss of John. John was a very special friend and customer to both of us. We enjoyed our many good times with you, John and the entire family.

Doing business with John was always an honor and privilege which I will remember forever.

John was such a good and generous person to so many people, in the Town of Norwood and around the world. John will be deeply missed by everyone. John loved his family above all. We feel so blessed to have known John.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family during this most difficult time.

Jane Hynes

January 21, 2008

Trisha:

My heart is broken for you!!! A sister, a boss, a mentor and your very best friend!! Lots of love and support.

Jane

Jane Hynes

January 21, 2008

My dear Barbara,Christoper and Alex:

Lots of love and heartbreak. I know everything will be okay as we move on!!

Love you all!!

Jane

Jane Hynes

January 21, 2008

Dianne, Leah, Nicole, Garrett and John:

My prayers, thoughts, love and tears are with you!!!

Love, Jane

William Burke

January 21, 2008

Diane and Family,

We are so terribly sorry about John's passing. We pray that he rests in heaven and that you and your beautiful family and wonderful friends are comforted by our Lord's peace, the peace that surpasses all human understanding.
May God bless you all.
Love,
Bill & Patty Burke & The St. Sebastian's Family

Steve and Carol Brown

January 21, 2008

Our prayers go out to at this sorrowful time. May your memories give you comfort in the days ahead.

Patty and Tom Starr

January 21, 2008

Dear Diane and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Paula Mealy

January 21, 2008

To The Shalbey family, I'm SO Sorry for your loss. John was such a Nice, Kind, Selfless man. He made an impact on so many lives. He will truly be missed. I hope you can take comfort in knowing that he touched so many people with his words and prayers. God Bless All Of You, and know that John is with The Blessed Mother, whom he prayed to all the time, and isn't suffering any more, but resting peacefully. I loved you John, and you were a Good Friend to me.

joe hyder

January 21, 2008

dianne and family
my life will never be the same.i'm always there for all of you.
joe

Linda Ippolito

January 21, 2008

Dear Dianne and family,
Your loss is also our loss. John will be so terribly missed by our family for his love, kindness, support and generosity. What about our memories Dianne of times spent in Ogunquit. God took him too soon from us but he can never take away our fondest memories.
We will forever be grateful to have known John and all of the Shalbey and Elias families. We will be here for all of you for years to come.

All our love and sympathy,
The Ippolito Family

Monica Frattaroli

January 21, 2008

Shalbey Family,
My heart and thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
I am so sorry for your loss. Mr. Shalbey is definitely a man who will never be forgotten!

A Friend

January 21, 2008

John did so much for so many. He loved his community and was the true emodiement of community spirit.

He also loved his family and asked that they be prayed for. They will be.

Renee Bertoldi

January 21, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

John & Tracy Murrin

January 21, 2008

You will be missed by the many lives you have touched.

Mary and David Joseph

January 21, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God bless you during this very very difficult time. xoxoxo

Jim & Brenda Harrington

January 21, 2008

We remember John from my son's little league team, the Pirates. John was a devoted father and was always a positive influence to the boys and parents from his sons team. Our heartfelt condolences to John's family.

Richard Laham

January 21, 2008

With my deepest regret John was great person and a great friend. He will be deeply missed.

Nancy McIntyre

January 21, 2008

A rare and wonderful person, who graced us all with his presence. To be in the company of John was to feel like the sun was shining on you. He had such a way of making people feel special. The world was a better place while he was in it. John, you will be sorely missed. Put in a good word for us with Our Lord. -The McIntyres

Lewis Stoller that

January 21, 2008

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

MAURICE DAABOUL

January 21, 2008

TO A VERY DEAR FRIEND,
GOD BLESS YOUR BEAUTIFUL SOUL,YOU ARE ALWAYS GOING TO BE REMEMBERED.
WITH ALL OUR LOVE TO YOU AND SINCERE CONDOLOEANCES TO YOUR FAMILY. ALLAH MA'AK AND MAY THE DEAR GOD OF THE CEDARS OF LEBANON BE ALWAYS WITH YOU DEAR JOHN.
MAURICE DAABOUL AND THE FAMILY.

bryan clayman

January 21, 2008

I was introduced to John by Patrick about 5 years ago. Although it started as a business relationship, I feel it grew into more of a friendship with the entire Rojo crew. John welcomed me into his office for discussions about new signs for Rojo, however, it always ended up with us talking about muscle cars. We chatted about about what we drive, drove and how fast we drove them.
John, it has been both an honor and pleasure.

Mr and Mrs Tony Prevett

January 21, 2008

Dear Diane and family;
We are so sorry about the passing of John. He was loved by so many and will be missed here on earth by us all. He leaves only pleasant memories of his generous life to others and the many good things he did while here. It is a great compliment to pass on and leave such a beautiful memory left behind. John was truly a good friend to us and our family all through the many years we knew him! God bless you and all of your family.
With sympathy,
Mary and Tony Prevett

Tom Barry , Chief NFD (ret.)

January 21, 2008

My condolences to Dianne and the Shalbey Family. John was a lontime friend to many people and to all of Norwood. He was one of those special people whom you never forget. I know I never will.

Barbara Murphy-Henry

January 21, 2008

Diane, Trish and Barbara
My deepest symapthies in the loss of John. He was a very special man! You will have a huge void in your lives, but always remember how much he loved you all. That love will carry you through the next few days and years to come.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Jill Dadmun (Cannon)

January 21, 2008

Diane and family,

Sorry to hear of your loss. I haven't seen either of you in a long time, but Joan and Judy have always informed me of how you guys were doing. Everyone always spoke so highly of you both. I'm sure he will be terribly missed. May he rest in peace.

RICHARD MINSK

January 21, 2008

REST IN PEACE. I WILL THINK OF YOU OFTEN AND REMEMBER THE TIMES WE SPENT TOGETHER

Gundlach Family

January 21, 2008

John will be sorely missed by the Norwood community and us, the Gundlach's as well. We wish the Shalbey family peace and comfort in these trying days, gaining assurances that John is where he is suppossed to be keeping tabs on all of us as we strive to be even an ioda of the man he was here on earth.

Bill Rich

January 21, 2008

Dianne & Family I am very sorry for your loss, John was a good friend and will be Missed.

Lee and Susan Hyder-Pratt

January 21, 2008

John will be missed dearly as he was a great man..

Linda Ippolito

January 21, 2008

Dianne and family,

To our dear and loving friends, we feel your pain and will do everything we can for you now and forever. The love and kindness John bestowed on our family will be remembered long after this painful week is over. We are hear for you and your family and we know that you know that.

Love and peace.
The Ippolito family

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