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Steven
March 16, 2025
Dr. Cleary, I am so grateful for your work in translating Pure Land Buddhist literature. Many of your books were available once for free in Buddhist temples in NYC Chinatown like Grace Gratitude, for which we not so fluent Mandarin students are ever-grateful. Na Mo Amitabha Buddha! May you be in the Pure Land.
Michael Clark
August 13, 2023
As I reread Mr. Cleary's translation of Master Ou-i's commentary on the Amitabha Sutra (which I recite daily), I offer thanks for his work, his teaching and his enlightened mind. Amituofo
Art Murray
March 26, 2023
As the Summit (NJ) High School's Class of 1965's strictly unofficial class secretary, I announced Chris' passing to the class, and received some nice responses. Here are some that should be added to others:
Chris was in my class at Franklin. I think it was third grade I was having some trouble with reading, phonics made no sense to me. Anyway the teacher asked Chris if he could help me. We went to the library and he went immediately to the right hand corner of the library (the smart section). He chose a history book and helped me reading it. He was so engaging about the subject matter that phonetics went right out the window.
From that time on history has always fascinated me. Little did I know back at Franklin that my love for history was beginning to last for the rest of my life. All thanks to Chris.
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I remember pretty well a spring Saturday when Chris and I were driven by our Latin teacher, Mrs. Moore, to Montclair State for the event. On the way home, Chris was really agitated because he had mistranslated ONE WORD. I kept my mouth shut and did not admit that FULL SECTIONS of the exam had eluded me.
A month or so later, during the senior awards assembly (a day or so before graduation), the curtains parted, a very ostentatious trophy appeared, and (the school principal) announced that Chris Cleary was state champion. (Chris looked rather mortified as he received it...)
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I knew Chris from our days together at Franklin School through tenth grade at the new Summit High School. We had many classes together and Chris was always the best student in the class -smart, hard working, and wonderfully creative. Whether in Latin, Math, or English, Chris had insights and understandings that were simply beyond the rest of us-along with modesty and a genuine friendliness. His remarkable life bears witness to the gifts he displayed as a boy.
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In junior high I hung out with him all the time. We had Cyril Connolly for Latin and were both influenced by his EXTREMELY dry humor. Chris and I, both being junior iconoclasts, came up with an idea for "The Summit Apathy Club" which never got off the ground, really, but I remember Chris came up with its motto--"Who Cares?"
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I´ll add a short memory. The last day of classes for us in 1965 I wore a non collared shirt, a colored tee shirt with some emblem that was popular at the time. As I remember, all we were going to do was practice graduation. I was told by someone principal ? Assistant principal? that I would not be allowed to attend school that day. Somehow, probably suggested by Chris, I ran over to Chris´s house and got one of his collared shirts and got back in time to participate in our last day.
Chris was an amazing person as all he accomplished proves. He´s one of my friends I wished I´d spent more time with.
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I met Chris on the 9th grade football team having moved to Summit from Syracuse the preceding Summer.
We also in Gunnar Marsh's 9th grade social studies class in which, while I and the others were writing papers like Agriculture in New Jersey, Chris wrote his own language, including conjugations and declensions. I had not met anyone like that before and don't think that I have since. He was in a land way beyond just about all of us including intellectual standouts in the class.
He also was a very nice kid.
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I knew Chris pretty well, as I dated him off and on, when we were in school together. He was definitely one of the smartest that I´ve ever met! What an interesting life he led!
F. Russell Thomas, MD
March 6, 2023
Chris was a brilliant and inspiring classmate at Summit High School, with a sharp, cynical wit which earned him the nickname "El Cyn." I admired his intellect and treasured his friendship before our paths diverged. So it goes.
John E. Rogers
March 5, 2023
As a Summit High classmate, I salute Chris as the "real deal" intellectually. I feel I have met few people who are his academic equal - and his accomplishments, as presented in this obituary, do not surprise me in the least. If memory serves correctly, he and I represented SHS at a state competition in Latin at the end of our senior year. I failed to make a dent in the standings, but Chris was named NJ State Champ. He was awarded an awesome trophy at a school assembly, and I still remember his embarrassment at the grandiose size of this award. His expression was priceless and showed he had many more honors ahead of him!
Rest in Peace, Chris - you used your brilliance well!
Art Murray
March 5, 2023
I first met Chris - in the 3rd grade at Franklin School in Summit, NJ. He was a nice guy then and stayed that way all the way through high school into our senior year when we all graduated and we all moved on with the rest of our lives. His brother, Tom, in my brother's call was the same way. Every Cleary we knew was nice - and really smart!
My fav story our senior year was in June of 1965. A week before graduation, the local paper published all the names of the graduating class - except one. Chris!! Who just happened to be the Class valedictorian. I was 18 and standing near one of our parish priests (no names!) and that was mentioned. I thought he was going to pop a vein in his neck!! Red-faced that they would do that to Chris. I stepped away. I told Chris and he just laughed.
He was a great guy. My condolences to the family.
Kirti
March 2, 2023
Chris was not just my neighbor but a fantastic empathetic conversationalist. We have spent hours talking about software companies of yesteryears and today, the differences and similarities over a cup of tea. He has been instrumental in lending a sympathetic ear to the trials and tribulations of a somewhat young software manager navigating corporate America. Our conversations were always so filled with care, understanding and empathy, and thoughts about how to tackle the future. He made me think and inspired me to act appropriately based on his examples. We went on afternoon walks a few summers back and I will miss Chris tremendously. My hugs and caring thoughts to Kathryn who is equally an amazing neighbor and friend.
hermina sarkissian
March 2, 2023
My deep condolence to Chris Cleary! Happy to have chance to know him!
Bill Karelis
March 1, 2023
Chris, you were and remain the person I admired most in our college class - both for your honesty and your intellect. You were one of the true visionaries of our time. I am so happy that we stayed friends after graduation and then reconnected in later life, meeting many times in person and over Zoom. I will never forget you.
Nuala Creed
March 1, 2023
Chris I will miss you. I am so happy that we reconnected a few years even if only on the phone. I have many fond memories of working with you at Oxford Street and beyond. I was inspired by your intelligence and curiosity and interest in others. You were a friend and someone I loved.
Jeanne Cleary Brady
March 1, 2023
RIP my cousin. May you know the mysteries of the universe and have a beer with your uncle Richard who will be mighty glad to debate and discuss anything.
Jim O´Toole
March 1, 2023
Chris was my first cousin although I hadn´t seen him in many years. A brilliant mind lost. RIP Chris.
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