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JOSEPH GAVIN Obituary

GAVIN, Joseph P. 29, of South Boston, suddenly, June 28, 2012. Beloved son of the late Judy A., and cherished adopted son of the late Mary (Mahoney) and James Gavin. Loving brother of Sheila, Johannah, Danielle, Jamie, John Gavin, Kristin Robbins, the late Robert, Patrick, and Lawrence Gavin. Cherished fiance of Megan Hanley of South Boston. Devoted friend of Charlie Daniels. Lovingly remembered by the Hanley, Rehault, Rull families and the Ryan Yeomans family. Longtime drummer for Kings Chapel Band. Funeral from the O'Brien Funeral Home, 146 Dorchester Street, SOUTH BOSTON, Monday at 9:00AM. Funeral Mass in Gate of Heaven Church at 10:00AM. Relatives and friends invited. Visiting hours Sunday from 2 to 6 PM. Interment Holyhood Cemetery, Brookline. Joseph will be greatly missed by his fellow employees at the Stop & Shop in South Boston and his band mates. In lieu of flowers donations may be made in Joseph' memory to The Gavin Foundation, 675 E. Fourth St, South Boston, MA 02127.

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Published by Boston Globe from Jun. 29 to Jul. 1, 2012.

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Anne Rheault

June 23, 2021

Joe , I hope heaven is listening to you and your drums ... I've missed them so much and you too ! I think of you often and the best days ever. We had so much fun and hard times too ...
You have Charlie with you now so I'm so sure you are being funny together . As I seat here and think of you , I think my boy Murphy and your crazy cat Jaxx .
I wanted you to know I miss you and I really do miss you , Ma and Robert . and Charlie too . So I hope heaven is beautiful and you have good company .
Love You My Wonderful Friend , Little Brother ...
Anne

Anne Rheault

June 23, 2019

Joe , just dropping a note to let you know I am still thinking of you . Love and I miss you buddy

March 3, 2014

Truely Missed ,Love You Joey

Jamie

March 3, 2014

Miss you My Brother, Broken-hearted and truely missed, Love always Jamie

Anne Rheault

July 8, 2012

Oh Joe , we missed you today at Johannah and Kristin's house , we had a cook out and we talked and laughed about you and what you would be thinking at the crazy things we talked about doing . We did have fire works , thanks to Chris and Jeff , they were friggen nuts and to funny ... I hope you got a chance to listen to us as we all talked about ! Until next time . See you in while Buddy , take care and be careful as always . Love Ya Brother ...

Sheila Gsvin

July 1, 2012

My sweet little one. It seems like yesterday that you came into our lives. A precious little baby. Ad I watched you struggle and grow you became a sweet young man. I am so proud to have been a part of you becoming the fine young man that you are. I was never prouder then the day you brought the beautiful Meagan home to meet us. We feel in love with her immediately & were so pleased that that she filled your life with such love and joy. I love you my beautiful angel and I know that you are watching over all of us.. God bless you.

Danny Megquier

July 1, 2012

Joe, you will be deeply missed RIP

Michael Burton

June 30, 2012

I'm glad I was able to get to know enough about you to know you were a cool dude. Your with the lord now and trust that he will look after your loved ones.

Cheryl McLean Buckman

June 30, 2012

Joe, even though you are gone never will be forgotten forever will remain in our hearts..

Cheryl Ouellette

June 30, 2012

Dear Joe, even tho I didn't know you-you seemed like a very loving person. I hope you are helping God now and he will be with you and your loved ones here on earth.

Michael Buckman

June 30, 2012

Joe even though u are gone you will never be forgotten toy will remain in or prayers forever rip bro we will miss you

Paul Adams

June 30, 2012

Joe, although I didn't know you personally, I saw how you carried yourself with such dignity at work. You define what a Young Man should be. Not only did the Gavin Family lose a loved Family Member...The entire South Boston Family lost a great Gentleman. God Speed Joe!

Justin Firsch

June 30, 2012

Joe, I thank you for always being there and being such a good friend to Meghan whenever she needed you. Continue to watch over her, And hey, Rock out with Cliff Burton and Ronnie James Dio in Heaven ! ~ R.I.P. Bro !

Neal Blustein

June 30, 2012

SHeila - so sorry for your loss; my prayers are with you and your family.

Jennifer Hanley

June 30, 2012

Thank you for being so special to Meghan. We pray you continue to watch over her.

Terri Shine

June 30, 2012

Although we can't be with you while you remember your loved one, you're in our thoughts from afar.

amanda o'brien

June 30, 2012

dear joe,i hope you find peace in heaven.god's got a new angel.now when i hear thunder,i know it's you playing the drums.rest in paradise joe.

Anne Rheault

June 30, 2012

Joe, I am so going to miss you . You have been a Son,Brother,Friend and one of the best people I have had the honor to watch grow from a child to the kindest , sweetest ,most honest souls ever . I have watched you find love for the first time and seen you forgive people that I dont think I could have ever done , I true sign of a gentleman ...
I have listened to you as you have played your drums and your music and laugh as someone told a silly story or just something so stupid we would look at each other and be Like Really ?
We stuck together as we loss loved ones in our lives , Robert , Ma , My Mother and Sister and all our pets ( Murphy , Lola , Shadow and crazy Jaxx ! . You have lived a short wonderful life full of love had one of the greatest mothers ( Ma ) that you could ever have asked for .... you may not have been born to her or carried her blood in your veins but she truly loved you . We all loved you for being the boy and later the man that you had grown in too ,
Joe , I love you as if you could have been one of my own, I hope that Heaven is really ready for the hard rocking , head banging guy that you are because we are going to miss you so very much .... I love you kid , Bang one those drum Buddy and please remember to watch over us and help us get though this ... See You In A While Buddy <3

Meg Hanley

June 29, 2012

Joe, you are my true Love, my one & only, my soul mate. No matter what, I will Love you always and forever till the end of time. You have been my rock, my best friend and my partner in crime through anything & everything over the past 7 years. You are such a strong man, always have been and always will be. I will Love you with all my heart and soul for eternity ... I Love you Hunny ~ Megs

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