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Dickie Freni
July 4, 2024
Dear Kim-
Here we are another year has gone by. I hope you're having fun having Mom & Bob around. I know they are happy being able to be with you. I'm sure you already know this but your older brother has moved to ATL. It's kinda cool to be able to spend time with Krissy. It's taken me little longer than I'd like but I've found a job that I start on Monday. This will be the first year sense we were kids the Krissy & I can send her bday. It goes without saying that I miss you very much & think about you often.
I told you this already but your niece is getting married this oct. to a great guy. We are all looking forward to the big day. Hopefully it won't be too cold. I love you kid & miss you lots.
Lya,
Dickie
Dickie
March 10, 2024
HBD Kim.. I´m a few days late in doing this but it´s another year.. Lots is going on..Your big brother has moved to ATL where Krissy is.. We recently got some awesome news.. Your niece Tara has gotten engaged to a very nice young man.. Her big day is in Oct. So I´m asking you to watch over them as final prep for the big day unfolds.. I miss you kid and I´m happy you spent your BDAY with Mom and Bob.. Here´s to a fresh start and new beginnings..
Lya,
Dickie
Rich Freni
July 5, 2023
Kim-
Here we are another year that's gone by. I'm reaching out to you as I miss you lots. I have a request & hope you can help. A good friend & someone I'm very close to I'd like you to watch over her daughter. She had a rough year last year in softball & is playing again this year on a new team. he has a summer of intense rehab to get her shoulder back into shape to be able to play softball in the spring. She plays softball like you played soccer. She leaves it all on the field every game & gives all her effort to her team. She wants to have a great year injury free, pain free with no limitations, & wants to have fun. I miss you kid lots. As you can see I've got that street sign we grabbed right after your accident. I hope you're having a time of your life now that your mom & dad have joined you. I love you with all my heart & miss you.
Rich Freni
July 5, 2023
Dickie Freni
January 8, 2023
Kim-
Today your dad has joined you & mom. He was definitely a one of a kind. Although I'm sad he's gone & do have some comfort knowing he's with the ones he loves most.
All my love to you all
Dickie
Rich Freni
July 4, 2022
Kim
Wow I can't believe its been 22 years sense your accident. I remember where I was too. I was up north in Mi on vacation with my family when state troopers knocked on my cabin door at 6am to tell me you passed in a car accident. 22 years ago my life changed in a instant. Everyday for 22 years I think about about you on a daily basis. Some days are easier than others. I find myself coming back to the same thought. How much joy, love & laughter you brought to us all. Your niece Tara has blossomed to quite the young lady herself. Dominic is just living his best life. Now that mom has passed I don't have to tell you to keep a special eye on your dad. Honestly what has amazed me the most is although your sister shares the anniversary with her bday she always seems to handle it like a champ. Not a surprise she shares that quality with you. To say the least thinking about you makes this crazy world we are in much better. My only wish is that more people in this world were like you. Just maybe we'd have less craziness to contend with. When I look back its little said that not too many people post on here anymore. I'm proud to say you are my sister & are better for having you although a short time in my life. With your brave wings you can fly and keep your eyes on us all. I love you kid and miss you with all my heart. Stop by to wish your sister a happy bday. Roxie says hi too :) she's such a awesome dog. We are so lucky to have her in our life.
Rich Freni
June 28, 2022
Kim
As your anniversary of your accident gets closer I find myself really missing you. I find myself lately willing to give everything I have away just to have one more day with you. I miss you every day and there is not a day that goes by I don´t think about you. My friends daughter had a great year in softball. Best thing of all she had fun playing this year. My dog Roxie became the traveling mascot for my friends daughters team. Love you kid
Rich Freni
March 8, 2022
Hey Kim just missing you today. To say the least it´s been a rough week. I attended a funeral mass yesterday of a 3 year old. It brought back everything our family went through. So I hope with all my heart they can find a way to heal. A very close friend of mine has a daughter playing collegiate softball so please watch over her and bring her team great success as they enter big 10 play. Miss you a lot. All my love Rich
Rich freni
September 19, 2021
I bought this saying because it reminded me of Kim and her new journey. Not it can apply to mom.
Rich Freni
September 18, 2021
Today heaven got another angel. My mom passed away this morning. God gave her wings today so she could fly. She is now in heaven with her baby girl. I just hope that Bob will be ok now that mom isn't with him. Fly mom & spread your new wings. Look over your family who is still here missing you.
Love you,
Rich
Rich Freni
September 5, 2021
Kim-
Today I found myself consumed to want to talk to you today. I'm sure you know this although its been almost 20 years sense you left us way too early I think or talk about you almost daily. I find myself at times when I'm not sure what to do: what would Kim do. I've included the latest girl in my life photo. She brings so much joy & love to my life. Its funny when I get said missing you she knows & comes to cuddle to let me now its going to be ok. I really miss you kid & love you with all my heart. I hope you know what you meant to me. I hope that heaven gets a glimpse of the Kim we all knew & love.
Rich Freni
February 5, 2021
Kim-
I can't believe its been 2 years sense my last post on your page. There is not a day I dont think about you, I'm not missing you or wonder how life would of been. I have some comfort knowing life has continued although hard with you not with us. You'd be proud to know Tata is now a Clinical Director of her therapy clinic. I've got a boxer name Roxie & Dominic is just doing his thing. Your sister krissy is now grandma but you probably already know this. I do ask that you keep an extra eye on my friend's daughter as she plays softball at KY. Miss & Love you kid
Courtney Nunley
December 17, 2019
Just wanted to let you all know - for those who are still posting memories, thoughts, & poems (especially Tara's) - what a wonderful thing to see. I so often think about what Kimmy would have been in this world of social media, etc., and I can imagine her so vividly navigating it amazingly well. On a snowy, gray day in Lynnfield I found myself looking for her memory & I'm so glad to find these. Always in my heart.
Love, Cagg
(Courtney Caggiano Nunley)
Rich Freni
July 4, 2019
I would like to share with all of you what my 13 yr. old daughter Tara and niece to Kim wrote the day Kim passed away. 7/5/02
To Auntie Kim,
Today you went to a better place,
even though it put a frown on my face.
You left too soon,but I will make sure your nephews remember our Auntie Kim.
The GREAT soccer team member!
They're little, but so was I, when you made me feel like I could
fly! You taught me about soccer,boys and other things,but I know you'll still help me with your new wings!
I wont forget the times we shared,or why we're here.
We're here to celebrate you, the very special,unique,wonderful, loveable you!
Be safe and happy,and when you need someone to talk to,go to my grandpa Nick.
And don't forget you'll always have a special place in my heart.
With all my love,
Your niece Tara
With a special kiss from Dom and Zack!
July 3, 2019
Kim,
I can't believe all this time has gone by. I wish you were here and could see how amazing everyone is doing. Especially Cerissa. You'd be so proud Kimmy.
I think you knew I loved you like a daughter. I wonder if you can see how much I think of you. You are a part of all of us. You always will be.
I miss you Kimmy. Stay close #13
Love,
Coach
Rich Freni
February 14, 2018
Kim Just this week Dominic Forwarded to me a link to a young lady who was on her way to hockey practice with a teammate. Unfortunately she was in a tragic accident that took her life & her teammates at the age of 16 / Jr. year in HS. Now you can imagine this flooded me with emotions of when we found out about you. I just hope & pray that this family as they struggle with learning how to cope & deal with this tragedy can eventually begin to heal as we did. It will take alot of time & I sympathize with what this family is dealing with. There isn't a day that I don't wonder how you are. As you know my dad passed 2 years ago now so I hope you've had a chance to talk with him. I hope you've showed him the ropes up in heaven. With today being valentines day & with this accident bringing back memories of your accident you are on my mind. I thought I'd say hi, tell you I miss you, & send you love from Chicago.
Rich Freni
December 6, 2016
Kim-
Thinking about you today. I'm sure you know this already but your niece Tara has made a huge accomplishment in her life. She not only graduated with her bachelors degree from Central Michigan, but has also gotten her Masters Degree from Akron University. You'd be proud of the young lady she's become. Thank you for watching over her as she navigates through her new life.
Rich Freni
March 9, 2016
Kim I can't believe its been 14 years now that you were taken from us. You'd be so proud of how your niece Tara has turned out. Miss you everyday kid & love you.
Center Ice at the United center with the crew
Rich Freni
April 13, 2015
Kim today a co-worker lost his daughter this past Sat. As he was telling me is story it brought back all the feelings & hard times our family went through after your accident. Having gone through what we did I know all too well what he & his family is going to go through. I wish him & his family prayers & well wishes. I hope in time to come he, his wife & 3 kids can find ways to heal. I know they can't see it now but everything does happen for a reason. Today I was really thinking of you & how much I miss you. Hey BTW did you watch me when I was chosen for the girls HS hockey finals at The United Center where the Black Hawks play. It was so much fun. Lya kid & miss you :)
Brian McDormand
May 25, 2013
Thinking of you today Kim. Missing you.Hi Bob and Vicki. Hope you are well!
Coach McDormand
dominic freni
December 18, 2012
Hey aunt Kim, you have been on my mind for a while this month. It's sad not having u here to spend the holidays with us. You will be missed dearly I miss you aunt Kim. We had lots of fun Times when we little kids growing up!
Rich Freni
December 17, 2012
Kim your on my mind now that it's Xmas time & especially after the senseless shooting of those young children in Ct. I think about how mom & Bob felt after your accident at 19 years old. I can't imagine what those perents are feeling losing 5/6 year old kids. How tragic & crazy that is. Makes you really question what this worlds become. We miss you & help those kids who just joined you :)
Love,
Your brother
Jamie Smith-Daly
July 6, 2012
It's hard to believe that it was ten years ago... It feels like it was yesterday that I got the phone call. Say hi to Natie for us.
RIP # 13
LH
June 17, 2012
Dear Kim,
I can't believe I'm just seeing this for the first time 10 years later. This time of year always makes me think of you because we were together then... You wrote me your number on a piece of paper and told me that when I go off to college in Boston the following year I should call you ANY time I need a pal. We talked about how worried I was because I wouldn't know anyone at my school... The next day, I reached into my pocket and felt it... It was a special gift you left me with. I have kept it to this day... That was just who you were. You were SO kind. So giving. You TRULY TRULY made such an impact. I think about singing "Sittin' On The Dock Of The Bay" on the bus to Lynnfield BBall games, with our team's own special lyrics :) Every time I hear that song it reminds me of you. I also think about the people I was very close to who loved you and missed you, and I always hope they're doing okay. I know we will always continue to think about you. Keep watching over everyone. You will always be so loved!...XXOO
dominic freni
February 5, 2012
Dear Aunt Kim, I miss you & think about you all the time. just writing This is making a little bit sad & kinda upset. I remember spending time with you at your house & going out side to wash your jeep & I remember when you took me to gas in your jeep. I will Always Keep you in my hart every day. i have a picture of you in my wallet. <3 miss you lots & wish that you where here.
Suzanne Conlon
January 24, 2012
Kimmy!
Had a few random LHS flashbacks of both you and Natty tonight and wanted to say "hi". I can't believe it has been almost 10 years. Know that you're always in my heart and will forever be a part of me!
Tara Freni
March 12, 2011
Love you Aunt Kimmy :)
March 8, 2011
Kim,
I am thinking of you today. Your family is always in my heart. You are missed and celebrated often. God bless you my dear.
Sophia Freni
March 22, 2010
Hey Kim - Happy Birthday! Sorry your balloons were a little late this year...Tara celebrated your bday in FLA and Dominic wanted to wait for her to get back. Thanks for keeping an eye on your niece and nephew for me. They miss you lots ya know : )
January 31, 2009
Thank you.
September 15, 2008
I cry, not for the memory of what is gone
More so for those we will miss in years to come.
A thousand sunsets, rainbows after the storm.
Laughter, tears, smiles, life and death.
My heart's aches and pains are but mere echoes of some;
Yet if feels as though a tiny knife cuts out a piece of what should be each day
And I am not getting a whole memory.
A empty chair, an unshared secret, an unfinished life.
It's not fair. It's not fair.
Suzanne Conlon
August 13, 2008
Thinking of you, Kimmy.
Tara Freni
May 14, 2008
Hey Aunt Kim!
So I had this flash back the other day to when I was about seven. You took me to the soccer field and showed me some of your amazing moves. You would have been about 13 but to me you were good enough to be on a team with Mia Hamm! After that day out there I decided to play and because of you I had so many great memories playing soccer. Thank you for that!
I miss you now more than ever. Love you!!
Dickie Freni
March 25, 2008
Dear Kim,
I can't believe it's been over 4 years since I've written in your guest book. I don't have a good excuse, but over the past few years it's been hard for me to think about writting in your book. By no means is that a good excuse. Your sister Krissy said I should read what my beautiful daughter wrote in your book on your special day. As I read it I realized what a remarkable young lady she's become & how proud I am of her. Then I realized it's been way too long since I've written in your book.
As Tara mentioned alot has changed for me. Well Tara survived H.S & at times she probally thought her world was upside down, but she managed to make her way through her 4 years of H.S & did pretty well for herself too. What can I say Dominic is just Dominic. He goes with the flow in his life, but he's so full of life and just wants to make others happy.
I moved to Chicago last year & love it here. The city is so much fun & the kids like coming here too. There is so much to do in the city & its a safe place to go to or visit.
In reading Tara's writting in your book I was very happy to read she approves of Sandra. After my divorce I didn't think it was possible to find true love or even find someone you can say is your best friend. I can honestly say Sandra is my best friend & I love her very much. Besides all that she is so great with my kids & she has fun with them.
I am upset with myself for taking over 4 years to write in your book again. I know you know how much I talk about you & how often I think about you. I miss you now as much as I did after your accident. For me it seems like its getting harder to think about how things turned out & I don't know why. Know I love you little sister & I'm proud of you for the life you lead. I'm proud of you for ther legacy you've left behind.
I love you little sister,
Dickie
Tara Freni
March 8, 2008
Aunt Kimmy,
Every year at this time I find myself reading the same entries over again. I've noticed a pattern; my dad tends to talk about me and soccer. Things have changed a little. I'm not sure if he's up to writing about it this year or not, so I'll fill you in a little. (I know you're watching and already know all about it, but a part of me just likes talking to you this way.)
I'm going to school at Central Michigan University. I live with 3 amazing friends. One of which you should keep your eye on for me!! I'm sure you had a friend or two just like her. haha Dad's struggling a little I think, but he's really happy with his girl friend Sandra. I approve. Dom has some really awful teachers. He will be something because he has ambition. You'll help him find his role in life. I know it.
This was a big year for me. After graduation and moving on to college I found myself looking for a little guidance, someone to sort of tell me what to expect. I had always kind of known what experiences might be headed my way because either you had told me or someone would tell me a story about you. I'm kind of at a point now where I really have to look for your signs. I thank you for the direction you've given me this year. It's been the best year of my life! I'm not so sure I would have the same feelings if I didn't have you looking after me from up there. I think about you a lot. And I miss you. I'll never shake this feeling I have about how different things might have been, but I know and always will know that you are somewhere better, somewhere I can only pray I will end up. And I hope my friend Adam is there with you. Maybe you guys could chat it up and laugh together about me and my college experiences :) I'm sure you're getting a kick out of it. Did you see me fall the other day? Real smooth huh? haha I hope you were the only one who caught that! Anyway, I just wanted to wish you a Happy Birthday!!!
Just like we do every year, Dom and I are going to let a balloon float up to you. Be watching for it. I just got back from visiting with Dad. I'm glad I got to go see him. I wanted to check up on him because I know he's probably thinking a lot about you lately. Kick him in the butt every now and then to get on the treadmill. I want him to be around for a lot longer!! I decided for your birthday I’m going to spend some quality time with my mom before I head back to school. I’ve found some meaning from all of this, and that’s that family is important. If I could be with both parents I would. It just doesn’t work like that anymore. This is so scattered. That's where I'm at in life right now I guess.
I miss you. Happy Birthday!!!
I love you so much Aunt Kimmy.
Tara Freni
March 17, 2007
Hey Aunt Kimmy. I read a entry Dad wrote three years ago and he mentions his hair loss by the time I graduate. Well in less than 70 days I'll be out of high school and he will still have half a head of hair. haha I'm going to Central Michigan to be an elementary school teacher. I'm going to room with my two bestfriends. Look out for us while we're there. I leave for spring break in 21 days and I'm excited for prom. Dad also mentioned maraige . . . that's out of the question for a long time. haha
I miss you. I think about you all the time. I still cry every now and then but usually it's a happy tear as I remember you taking me out to the soccer field and kicking the ball around. The last time I saw you was at your graduation, and now it's my turn. I think you have the best seat in the house. So cheer loud for me because I've overcome a lot and I would still call these past four years the best times of my life.
Oh and one more thing, give my dad a little push and tell him it's not a big deal that I'm not playing soccer this year. I will always love soccer, but I just don't want to play high school ball anymore.
I love you sooo much. I hope you heard me singing happy birthday in the car the other day =]
Kristina Agurto
March 8, 2007
Happy B-day Kimmy. I cant believe it has almost been 5 years. It makes me sad to see that none of us have written in your guest book for the last 2 years. I check it often but for some reason I dont write. Not sure why.... Me and little Zackman are thinking of you today and always. Stay close, I love you and miss you more than you'll ever know! All my love, Krissy
Tara Freni
February 6, 2005
I miss you Aunt Kim.
One of the Fourteen
March 8, 2004
happy birthday Kimmy.. i wish you were here celebrating this awesome year as we had planned for so long.. we all still miss you and hold a place for you in our hearts.. "the promise" -Tracy Chapman.. We love you...
Love,
The Whole FIFTEEN...
Dickie Freni
March 8, 2004
Dear Kim,
Today is your B-day. Like so many people who realize & know today is your big day I find myself sitting up late thinking about you. Like many people who are thinking of you I've shed more tears than I'd like to admit. Like many people who are thinking of you on your day I'm wondering what your going to do today to celebrate your day. Know this Kim I really miss you & love you dearly. I wish you a very happy day today.
Well incase you don't know this, but I'll bet you do Tara starts mandatory conditioning on your big day. So if you can find sometime today around 3/3:30 pm please pay your niece Tara a visit to give her the strength today to practice hard as she embarks on trying to make the varsity soccer team this year. She still has a good shot at making the varsity team as a freshman. She just came off a winter session of indoor soccer where she played pretty well. She'll need your guidence & wisdom out on the field Kim, so if your not too busy pop in from time to time to give her some extra boost out on that soccer field.
You'll be happy to know your sister in law was nice enough to get cup cakes for us to eat & get fatter to celebrate your B-day. So when everyone gets home & we've eaten dinner we are going to have cup cakes in your honor today.
I do have some good news for you though. I recently interviewed for a Gm position with my company I work for. The interview went very well & by all indications I hope to be in the GMIT program by the fall. So I could use any help you feel like giving me. I'm going to do this program & make it you'll see. Work is going pretty good so I can't complain too much.
My dad is going to retire from his job as of April fools day. So keep an eye on him as he becomes a man of leisure.
The kids are both doing good. I've already told you about Tara & her soccer. She is doing pretty good other wise. She lives for the computer like you did as a teenager. She is about to start drivers ed & I'm scared out of my mind. I not only have a daughter who is smart, pretty, a pretty good soccer player, & now learning to drive. Next you'll tell me she's about to graduate & soon to get married. I can't take too much more not too mention I don't know if what hair I have left will last until Tara get's married or graduates.
Dominic is still being his usual self. He goes about life as happy as one can be. He's still mastering need for speed. I think he has more than 1/2 the cars un locked to the game.
Sophia is going to leave me alone with the kids this week. I'll be lucky to make it one day and 3 should be a feet in its self.She is still putting up with your brother. So I asked if you had any input to the saint hood. If you do please put in a good word for your sister in law. If not for tolerating me, but more so for being an awsome mother to your niece & nephew.
Mom & Bob I believe are planning to have people over for cake at the house. Sounds like they have a fun event planned to celebrate your day. Make sure you say hello to them today.
I almost forgot. Your sister Krissy needs help finding a job. while your doing what you do make sometime to help her get a job. You wont believe what a little man zach's becoming.
Well kiddo I'm gonna try to get some sleep, but probally wont be too successful. Have a good B-day & I love & miss you. Your big brother.
March 7, 2004
Dear Kim,
Happy Birthday my dear. To be honest, I always struggle with words. I would much rather give you a tight hug and a smile. Please know that I think of you daily and see your 'you know you love me' grin often in my head. God must have a special place for you ... I have faith that some day.... this will all make sense. Until then...you are loved and missed so very much kiddo.
Vicki Cochrane
February 25, 2004
Well here we are getting ready to celebrate Kim's 21st. birthday. I know that she is watching and would love to have this very special day remembered by those who love her. Kim's big day is Monday, March 8th. and all are welcome to join us in this very special day. All we ask is that you bring a balloon to release into the air. We will provide food and drink for all. Please be here about 5:00 with a big smile. If you are unable to attend please submit a favorite story on this site. Our love to all. Bob & Vicki
Dickie Freni
November 9, 2003
Dear Kim,
Well kiddo where do I begin & what do I say. This past year was hard at times yet great at times if you know what I mean. Another year has past & I've as well as many have thought about you alot. I've thought about the times I took for granted you'd be here still & for that I'm deaply sorry. I've thought about all the great & fun memories we've shared & for that I'm deaply greatful. Most of all Kim I've learned from you that life is way too short & we should cherrish every moment of every day like you did. Live life to the max & as they say in the sports world "leave it all on the field". I have one problem I'm struggling to do that, but I try because you have taught me that's the right thing to do.
Now for some lighter things. Tara played this fall on a rec soccer team made up of all H.S age girls. You would be proud of her Kim because she played great & hard each & every game. She also went to 2 home coming dances & your brother almost had a stroke, but she was beautiful. She is having alittle trouble adjusting to H.S life though so she could use alittle help there if you could give her some.
Dominic took a brief break from sports this year to play with his friends. He still is the king of ps2 need for speed. He's started a new school so he can get the much needed help he needs to improve on his schooling.
Yes your sister in-law Sophia is still putting up with your big brother. If there is room for any saints make some for her.
Now I had the privilige of going to your 1st annual klcc foundation fundraiser & it was fun. You'd be proud of all your friends Kim. Why because most have seemed to put there lives back together & seem to be happy again. Most of all I'm the proudest of Liz who I had no idea what she went throught last year. I actually fulfilled a promise I made to you. I saw the North Eastern girls play UNH @ UNH. Although they lost I had fun seeing them play & now know why you went there to play soccer. You'd also be proud of Becky who decided to join NE's team again.
Your brother on the other hand is doing ok. I've been racking my brain for months on what I can do to do a fundraiser for your scholarship fund. I haven't figured it out yet, but I'm going to do something great you'll see. Most off all I was just putting Dominic to bed tonight & felt the need to type you a letter to say hi. So hi & I miss you.
Mom & Bob seem to be doing ok. Bob is still chasing the Lynnfield teams to make sure everyone is doing well. Mom is working at Joann's still & catches a game here & there.
Krissy & Zac are doing ok too.
This spring when Tara tries ut for the actual girls H.S soccer team she has a good shot at making the varsity team. Look over her to make sure she is safe & give her that inner strength to fight for a spot.
Until the urge strikes me again kiddo
keep the faith. Remember I love you & miss you.
Love ya ,
Dickie
Dickie Freni
March 9, 2003
Today is March 8th the birthday of my little sister Kim.I just wanted to say Hi little sister and tell you I miss you and love you. I also wanted to wish you a very Happy B-day and let you know I'm thinking of you. I stayed up late last night watching your soccer highlight tape about 6 times and thinking about whose butt you were kicking in soccer where ever you are right now.
You'd be proud of your niece & nephew Kim because they are both doing good in school. Tara played indoor soccer this winter & Dominic mastered playstation 2(need for speed2). I your brother reffed H.S hockey again this year. Mom & Bob actually got to see me do a H.S game when they came to visit which was kinda cool. Your sister in-law Sophia is still putting up with your big brother which is a feat in itself. I some how manged to get promoted to sales manager. All in all things are ok here in Michigan & hope they are ok with you too. Oh yeah your sister Krissy bought a new house and she will be moving soon. So if you have any ideas of visiting her right now it might not be a good time. She's gonna be stressed out with moving,packing,work,& all that b/s that goes with packing up an entire house. You know what I'm talking about Kim because I helped finish un loading the truck from when you guys moved from Durham dr to the new house on ForrestHill. I'm babling so I'm going to go now, but I just wanted to say hi & Happy B-day. Stay strong where ever you are & continue to watch over us all. If you have any input with GOD can you ask him to be done with winter. I'm sick of the snow.
Love you,
Your big brother
Dickie :)
Tara Freni
December 23, 2002
I would like to take the time to tell you all that my dad is one of the best dads ever!! He took the time to let me know that he's sorry that he is not his usual self this Christmas season, he told us all that, and I would like to tell him it's okay. All of us are struggling this time of year to make it fun and joyous, but it's hard. I know it is and so does our angel. My Aunt Kim is watching over all of us even if we can't see her, she is saying have fun and don't grieve because this is a time to be happy. Yes I will be honest one of the resons I liked Christmas was because of all the presents, but I also liked it because I knew I would talk to all fo my family including my Aunt Kim. This year I will still talk to all the same people because I haven't stoped talking to my Aunt Kim, I've started talking to her more. I want all of you to remeber that this Holiday season doesn't have to be sad it can be fun because Kim is still with us. Kim is always there when you need someone to talk to!! I wish you all a Merry Christmas and exspecially my Daddy!!! xoxo
Dickie Freni (Kim's brother)
December 22, 2002
The absolute hardest thing I've ever had to face or deal with in my life was the death of my youngest sister Kim. Then arriving home to help my family cope with this trying ordeal I was faced with seeing all these beautiful young men and women in pain. A pain that no one should ever have to face, yet these kids all met that pain head on. Now I find myself trying to deal with a new pain (The holidays). The holidays are suppose to be a time for fun and reflecting on the year that has past. I'm having a terrible time finding the fun in this years X-mas. I'm finding an even harder time reflecting on this past year. I find myself getting frustrated by the fact that I should be more positive than I am because I know that is what Kim would want me to do, but I can't seem to find the energy to do that. I'm upset with myself because I have let my family down this year as far as X-mas goes. Our house doesn't even look like its ready for X-mas at all. For that I apologize from the bottom of my heart to my family because its not that I don't want to I just can't muster up the energy for some reason. To my wife Sophia,daughter Tara, & son Dominic I hope you have a Merry X-mas although your dad/husband really isn't into the holidays this year. I had no idea when Kim died just how hard and lonely the holidays would be. Kim if you can read my mind or know what I'm thinking I need your help to get through this & out of this funk I'm in. I wish you Kim a Merry X-mas from your brother & his family.
To Kim's freinds I hope you all are having as Merry a X-mas as much as you can. I hope you all have a safe and happy holiday season.
To my family although I'm struggling to find the happiness in this years holidays I hope you can still have the joy and excitement of X-mas that you should & deserve even though I'm having a hard time finding that fun.
To you Kim with all my love,
Dickie
one of the fourteen
December 14, 2002
Kimmy~my oldest friend. We grew up together since we were five as classmates, teamates and most importantly friends. I am at a loss of words to describe just how much you and your friendship meant to me and will continue to mean to me forever. My heart is breaking more with each day that passes and although I can not physically see or talk to you, I feel your presence wherever I am. The love and guidance that you showed to me over the last 14 years can never be replaced. I am forever indebted to you for all that you have given to me and shown me about living life. I will strive to live my life to its fullest, the way that you did, but I do not think that I can ever come close. Thank you for so much; for all that you taught me, for all that you gave to me, for your indescribable friendship, but most of all, thank you for you. You were and will forever continue to be my best friend and the sister that I always wanted. You were like blood to me and it does not get any deeper than that. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I love you with all that I have and miss you more than I can ever describe. Suddenly death does not seem so scary to me because I now know that I have you, along with my Nana, to look forward to seeing once again. Watch over us all and keep us safe, help us to get through this.
Mr. and Mrs. Cochrane, thank you for everything you have done for us all over these last 5 months and most importantly thank you for bringing Kimmy into our lives. The fourteen of us will forever be grateful to you, we love you.
December 2, 2002
Not a day goes by that I don't think about you, talk to you, or wish you were back with me. I can't believe it has been 4 months, it seems to me that you have been gone a lifetime. I can't help but wish that I could go back and change the course we all took, not only that night but everything. I would have cherished more, taken more pictures, spent more time driving with you, and appreciated you even more than I already did. This fall break was so strange. It was like a piece of the homecoming was missing. We went out, we went to the game, we did everything our friends did last year; yet a gap could not be filled. There was that chair that was empty. There was a reservation at Fridays for 15 that turned to 14. There was that silence at parties that would have been filled with your laugh. Most of all there was a hole in my heart that will never be filled. I miss you so much Kimmy, everyone does, and I wish I could tell the world what a wonderful person you are. I love and miss you Kimmy.
Megan Frederick
September 19, 2002
Its not a day that goes by where I am not reminded of Kim. Its amazing to see how much of an influence she has on my life, however its terribly sad that it has to be through the loss of this wonderful smiling person that has touched so many souls. I have been writing a book and in it there is memories of people who have an influence on my life, and Kim will forever live there and in my heart. In it I wrote a quote that simplifies her and reminds me of the good, "Her dreams never stopped because she never stopped believing and she never stopped believing because her dreams never stopped." The dreams will live on in all of us as well as the memories. I miss you Kim and my love goes out to your parents.
Katie Tracia
September 11, 2002
I HAVE AN ANGEL!
Just as sure as the tide is part of the sea, I have an angel who walks with me. She's a faithful companion sent down from above, A vision of beauty--symbolic of love.
I know she protects me for I feel her light, In the brightness of day and the dark of night. She's a comforting force with harmonious ways, and gently she guides me through all of my days.
She's there to console me when I'm feeling blue, and her presence is felt during joyful times too. With no secrets between us--no cause to pretend, I'm bonded for life to my heavenly friend.
*All of my love and prayers go out to Bob and Vicki. Kimber~Although you have moved on to a peaceful place physically, I know you will be forever with us as we continue our journey through life. You will certainly live on through all those who love you dearly.
I will never forget when you told me that I was your "conscience." My job was to watch out for you and make sure you were being a good girl--right Kimmy!!! Well now I am proud to say that you are MY conscience that will forever follow me throughout my entire life. I miss you more than ever and my love for you will remain for eternity. I'm so blessed to have had such an amazing person in my life, who now I know is a beautiful angel.
I love you and I can't wait for the sweet day when we will meet again
With all my love and prayers,
Ktrae<3
Vicki and Bob Cochrane
September 7, 2002
There are not enough words to express our gratitude to everyone who has signed this guestbook for Kim. To my nephew, Robert, thank you for maintaining this web site so that everyone could express their thoughts and prayers for us and Kim. I also remember Kim running around Grandma Vada's house wearing your cowboy boots. What you may not know is how mad Kim was when Grandma Vada said she couldn't take your boots home! It didn't matter that your boots were too big for Kim. They were yours and that was all that mattered to Kim.
Thank you to our family members who have shared their thoughts and prayers for us and for Kim.
Thank you to everyone who signed this guestbook. Your words have helped to ease the emptiness we feel by your kind expressions and memories of Kim.
A special thank you to Kim's friends. You have not only helped us through the past difficult eight weeks, but were also constant reminders that Kim and her friends were TRULY SPECIAL. Your spirit, determination and sense of caring are what life is all about.
XOXOXOXO to everyone.
Kim's parents,
Bob and Vicki Cochrane
Suzanne Conlon
August 22, 2002
Kimmy- every time I picture you now, I picture Saturday morning basketball practices and the look on your face (similar to mine) .. and then I picture, U-10 soccer, riding in the 'limo' to Papa Gino's... You were and are a lot more than just a face though, you're an incredible person with a true love for life and everything it has to offer and beyond. I'll miss you more than you'll know .. don't have too much fun up there without the rest of your friends :)! My deepest condolences to Bob and Vicki and the rest of the family.
Sincerely,
Suzy-Q
Tara Freni(Kim's niece)
August 3, 2002
~Auntie Kim~
I've missed you more than I ever thought humanly possible! I wasn't sure I could make it with out you, but I have realized I don't have to I have you closer to me than ever before! You are right there in my heart in a very special place! I kept thinking to myself why her why my Auntie Kim it's just not fair and I couldn't come up with any reasons, finally I was able to conclude this,God only takes the BEST and you were it!! You were and are the best and that is why so many of us miss you so much!!! I've had a lot of time to think about this whole situation and the one thing that could possibly be good about this is that now I have a gaurdian ANGEL to look over me while I play the game you convinced me to play, soccer!! I no in my heart you will always be watching me ,but I will really know it when I step on that feild in a few weeks, for the first time in a while!! As though I havn't already asked you for enough I have a question for you and this is it, will you please watch over all of us with all that is good inside of you because each and every person that was blessed to know such a wonderful person, you, needs you now more than ever, expecially me. I would also like to tell you, while I was doing all of this thinking I speek of, I thought about what type of person you were, like which catigory you fall in, but there is no catagory because you are one all in it's own which no one but you will ever be a part of!!! I truely mean that and I truley mean this to, you are all I have ever wanted to be and much much much more!! And I hope one day I will be as lucky as you to go to a remarkebly better place with you and other loved ones of mine because that is where the best go and I want to be one of them just like you!! I will miss seeing you and speeking with you on the phone and things like that, but I will be fortunate enough to talk to you in my heart!! Thank You for that!!
xoxoxox
With all of my luVv,
Tara**
Dickie Freni
July 30, 2002
I've been reading all the nice thoughts now for a week or so and the same message is coming through about my sister Kim. What a great kid,person,friend,sister,athlete etc and the list could go on. One thing to me seems to be missing. A thank you to those inner circle of Kim's friends. You know who you are so there is no need to list them nor could I because the list is endless. I wanted from the bottom of my heart say thank you to all of you for not only being great friends to my sister but also being a part of her family as well. I have great comfort in knowing that Kim had such special friends. You all know that although its hard for you all right now, that Kim would want each and everyone of you to become the best people you can be. Nothing would please me more when I visit Lynnfield to hear the stories of how schools going or how your athletic teams are doing and hear that you all are doing well. I wish you all the very best and hope that you all can put the pieces together enough to try and be happy again. Remember I'm going to ask you all if you have been eating or not. Stay strong all of you and thank you again for being so special to my little sister KIM.
All my love,
Dickie(Kim's big brother)
Kelli Meade
July 29, 2002
Dear Bob, Vicki & Krissy,
I am so grateful that I was fortunate enough to have known Kim. She had touched so many lives and she had accomplished things in such a short amount of time that people who live much longer lives may never accomplish such incredible things. Kim was a unique, most loving girl. I believe that she will continue to touch lives and make a difference in this world in ways we may not be able to see but we will know in our hearts.
My heart goes out to all of you.
All my love,
Kelli
Anonymous
July 26, 2002
Kimberly Lynn Cochrane
March 8, 1983-July 5, 2002
I’m Free
Don’t grieve for me, for now I’m Free.
I am following the path that God has laid you see.
I took His hand when I heard Him call,
I turned my back and left it all.
I could not stay another day,
To laugh, to love, to work or play.
Tasks left undone must stay that way.
I found that peace at the close of the day.
If parting has left a void,
Then fill it with remembered joys.
A friendship shared, a laugh, a kiss.
Oh yes, these things I too will miss.
Be not burdened with times of sorrow.
I wish you the sunshine of tomorrow.
My life’s been full, I savored much.
Good friends, good times, a loved one’s touch.
Perhaps my time seemed all too brief.
Don’t lengthen it now with undue grief.
Life up your hearts and peace to thee.
God wanted me now, He set me free.
-Anonymous
Ashley Abruzzese
July 26, 2002
Kimmy,
This is the hardest thing I’ve ever done and I don’t’ know how to start it off…
You were the best friend anyone could ever ask for. Since we were little, playing soccer and enjoying life you have always been someone I’ve looked up to. You had such a big heard and never in your life put someone down. You always believed in me and helped me through my tough times. If there was a conflict you were the one to solve the problem. That’s why it’s so hard to understand WHY this happened to such an awesome person? There are so many questions that will never be answered but I know that now you are in good hands and resting in peace. I know you are still here above everyone who loves you guiding us through life through your spirit. I just wish I had a last good-bye and had a chance to hold you just once more before the lord took you. Kimmy, you are someone special and you’ve touched so many people in your own way that you will NEVER be forgotten and I will always love you forever in my heart. You will be missed by so many people. You are with my papa now and your friend Merry and I know someday you and I will be reunited in each other’s arms again.
For nothing loved
Is ever lost,
And you were loved so very much…
I love you so much words just can’t describe…
Love always and forever- Ashley Abruzzese-
Michael Petrillo
July 26, 2002
Kimberly Cochrane was more than a friend to the people who knew her. She was a symbol of strength, kindness and a perfect friend and leader in this world. She would put everyone else’s priorities first before hers. In many ways to me She was a living Angel. I stand before you all here today still in shock of her death, I wondered how God could take such a wonderful person from all of us, but then I think why wouldn’t God want such a great person to be side by side with him. I believe that God has a plan for all of us, and for Kim it was to live with him and rejoice in happiness in heaven, and shine her love down on all of use here today. When ever I was around Kimmy she made everyone feel at ease and made sure that everyone could feel comfortable around here. I am sure that if she was here today she would want you all to be very happy. If I could sum Kimberly Cochrane up in one word that word would be COURAGE. To me courage is the ability to stand up for what you believe in, no matter what the odds, to be brave when all hope is lost, to be the type of person that will not give up no matter how bad the odds are stacked against you. So friends and family of Kimberly Cochrane I leave you with this quote: “Have I not commanded you? be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.” Joshua 1:9
Tara(Grandaughter of Vicki and Bob) Freni
July 25, 2002
Dear Gram and Uncle Bob,
I would just like to say to you both that although the reason i saw you was truely tragic and upsetting I was blessed to see a new side of the both of you, and I don't mean grieving side. You both showed me that through the worst times a realationship can grow stronger! In all the years I can remember I never really saw you hold each other in the ways I saw during the time I was with you! I truely would like to give you both thanks in giving me such a wonderful aunt! You both raised her to be a wondeful role model in my life! Auntie KIm was all I have ever wanted to be and more! She was loved by so many, she was smart,funny,friendly,a sports star,a friend and a fantastic person with fantastic parents a lot of what I have but also a lot more! I will miss her but I will forever more apprecieate the time I am able to spend with all my family now and will no longer take it for granitt!!! You both mean more than words can say to me and i will look forward to possibly having some more talks with you Uncle Bob and more bigg huggs from a tiny ladie, you, Gram, this summer!! I love you guyz so much!! Take Care!!!!!
luVv,
Tara**
Katie O'Brien
July 24, 2002
Growing up I always knew of Kimmy, then as I was going into my freshman year at LHS I became yet another one of Kimmy's friends. She was a great friend, captain, teammate and leader. She went out of her way to make sure I was happy.
Kimmy~thank you so much for "taking care of me" my freshman year. I dont know what I would have done without you. I feel blessed to have played with you and you will forever be an inspiration to me. I look up to you.
With all my love, Katie O.
July 22, 2002
To the Cochrane Family-
Although I only knew Kim from playing against her in sports, she was always an inspiration to me. My heart goes out to Kim's family and friends.
Kimberly Cochrane
Neal Bocian
July 19, 2002
Krissy Freni - Agurto
July 17, 2002
Dear Mom and Bob -
I want to take this opportunity to share with you and everyone reading this guest book how fortunate Kim was to have you as parents. Bob, I told you while I was there and I speak from my own experiences when I say, there are no two better parents than you and mom! The tribute to Kim was not only a reflection of the person she was but a reflection of the parents you are and I am proud to be a part of your family! Please stay strong, continue to love each other and when you feel like you may not be able to face a new day, remember all of those individuals who love you and need you, myself and Zack included!!!!
All my love to you both -
Krissy
Krissy Freni - Agurto
July 16, 2002
Dearest Kim -
Words can not say how I feel. All I want to do is hug you and tell you how much I love you. It seems like yesterday when you were born. Me, Bethany, Debbie and the entire Lynnfield High School were anxiously awaiting your arrival. My famous saying to Mom and Bob was "she better not grow up to have long legs and high cheek bones" and you did just that plus more!!! My love for you only grew stronger as you grew older. I always thought about the day you and I would be adults chatting about our kids and me helping you get through your college years. Now all I think about is your spirit and the way you will help me get through "this thing we call life!"
What I will miss the most, is watching you play with Zackery. The last time we visited you were so wonderful to him and he had a BLAST!!! Lets not mention the times I got upset with you because you wondered off with him and did not tell me! Promise me you will always stay close to him, watch over him and help guide him because he needs you and so do I!
Kim, you will live forever in my heart and July 5th is no longer my day but a special day that you and I will share forever!
All my love,
Your sister Krissy
Clif, Deb & Meghan Treco
July 16, 2002
Bob & Vicki,
The multitude of people who are sharing your loss is a tribute not only to Kim, but also to you both, for the love and support you've shown all of us throughout her short and vibrant life.
We feel fortunate to have known Kim for these last several years; and know that her legacy will endure for many, many years to come.
The Fredericks
July 15, 2002
Life is taken from us so quickly. I miss you so much Kim, you were a candle that burned so bright, it burned out to quick. "What we have done for ourselves alone dies with us; what we have done for others and the world remains and is immortal."
-Albert Pike
You have shown us light and love in life Kim, thank you. I will never forget what you have taught others and myself, to be yourself and love life because one day it might be gone. You will be missed terribly. Blessings to Bob and Vicki, our support will awalys be with you. Don't worry Vicki, she is with the fireflies now.
Dickie Freni
July 15, 2002
I would like to share with all of you what my 13 yr. old daughter Tara and niece to Kim wrote the day Kim passed away. 7/5/02
To Auntie Kim,
Today you went to a better place,
even though it put a frown on my face.
You left too soon,but I will make sure your nephews remember our Auntie Kim.
The GREAT soccer team member!
They're little, but so was I, when you made me feel like I could
fly! You taught me about soccer,boys and other things,but I know you'll still help me with your new wings!
I wont forget the times we shared,or why we're here.
We're here to celebrate you, the very special,unique,wonderful, loveable you!
Be safe and happy,and when you need someone to talk to,go to my grandpa Nick.
And don't forget you'll always have a special place in my heart.
With all my love,
Your niece Tara
With a special kiss from Dom and Zack!
Brianne Linskey
July 14, 2002
I knew Kim from playing soccer against her, I remember she was the only girl on the field you really worried about. My prayers are with her and her family.
Brianne
Rich/ Dickie to my sister Kim Freni
July 14, 2002
Dear Mom and Bob,
Where do I begin and how do I try to make any since of this terrible ordeal that has just torn my family to shreds. The first thing I'd like to do is thank you Bob for being there as a father figure to me when I lived with you and mom. I will never forget you for that Bob. Second I'd like to thank you Mom and Bob for bringing Kim into my life. Although I wasn't as active in Kim's life as I'd like to of been she was and always will be a huge part of my life. For that Mom and Bob I can't thank you enough for sharing Kim with me and my family. Third I'd like to thank all kim's friends, teamates, former teamates,coaches, and family freinds of Mom and Bob for all the love and support you have shown us all. Lastly I'd like to share with all of you what I wasn't able to share at Kim's funeral. The proudest day of my life was when my mom told me I was a big brother and her name was Kimberly Lynn Cochrane. I didn't know it then how much Kim would impact my life. Like so many others have said and shared Kim was a diamond in the rough.Then as you watched her grow up from a baby, graduate High School, and become a young adult you knew she was someone special. Kim although my heart is broken I will stay strong for Mom and Bob because they are truely two speacial people for sharing such a wondeful person with us all. I am without a doubt proud to say I'm Kim's older brother. I love you Kim and you are in my heart forever. So fly and be free as you begin your new journey in life.
Love,
your big brother
Dickie
Kristen Herlihy
July 13, 2002
My prayers and thoughts are with Kim and her family. My sister, Jennifer Herlihy, is a friend. May she rest in peace. ~Kristen Herlihy
Jack Adelson
July 13, 2002
Bob & Vicki,
No words can express our sorrow over your loss. Kim was so full of life, her memory will always be etched in our minds. Your grace and dignity, consoling others as they try to cope with Kim's passing, has been an inspiration to all of us.
Love,
Jack & Betty Adelson
Jim & Kathy Herlihy
July 11, 2002
Bob,Vicki and family,in this time of sorrow our thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless you.
Rich Hatfield
July 11, 2002
With deepest sympathies,
Lynnfield Youth Soccer Club wishes to extend its' deepest condolences to Bob and Vicki Cochrane over the tragic loss of their child.
Kim was a remarkable person in all regards. Her passing will leave a void in the lives of all who knew her. Her warmth, caring, love of life, friends and family will always be remembered.
Words cannot express the sadness we feel over Bob and Vicki’s loss. This is a tragedy one cannot even comprehend, and our thoughts and prayers are with them in this their time of need.
Rich Hatfield
President
Lynnfield Youth Soccer Club
Lauren Adelson
July 11, 2002
My sincere condolences go out to Bob and Vicki and the rest of Kim's family and friends. I have not had much interaction with Kim since I used to enjoy babysitting her back when she was just a youngin. Even back then it was easy to see that Kim was going to grow up to be a great athlete, an excellent role model and wonderful person.
Kim and her family are in my thoughts and prayers...
Love, Lauren
Dave Edleman
July 11, 2002
Bob & Vick, I'm so sorry for your loss. I wish I had been closer to you all.
Love Dave
July 11, 2002
I miss you so much
Amy Sawin
July 10, 2002
Kimmy -
I didn't know you as well as some, but I admired you. Your amazing athleticism and spirit and your happiness with everything in life inspired me. I will always remember your big smiles while you worked out during winter track and hearing you laugh and sing along with the radio on the softball bus with your friends. You will never be forgotten, and we'll always love you.
Amie Muise
July 10, 2002
I have played against Kim since 6th grade and she has been a player that made a lasting impact on me and my entire team. She always was the toughest girl out there and i truly looked up to her. My heart and my prayers go out to her family.
Relesha and Keilani Billups
July 10, 2002
Krissy and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers and are with you and your family. Although I never had a chance to meet Kim,the wonderful stories you shared about her made her so special to everyone. She was a beautiful person and will truly be missed.
Brad and Pam Thompson
July 10, 2002
Our sincere condolences to Kim's family and friends.
Ashley Ford
July 10, 2002
"There are people whose brilliance continues to light the world though they are no longer among the living. These lights are especially bright when the night is dark."
--Hannah Senesh
~*Keep shining bright for us Kimmy...Love u and miss u...*~
Amy Devaney
July 9, 2002
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Cochrane family....Kimmy touched so many lives and will forever continue too..I am blessed to have known her, God is lucky to have an angel like Kim by his side.
Kimmy- words cannot explain how much i miss you...your smile made me smile and your laugh brightened my day, you sure made the most of the nineteen years you were here..i know your in a better place now and i cant wait to see you again...take care of everyone here and up there...i miss you and love you...love your "favorite cousin" Amy
Sandra Browning
July 9, 2002
Krissy,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Jennifer Jacobs
July 9, 2002
Krissy and Family,
I am so truly sorry for your loss and I can't imagine what you must be going through. I know it is hard to seek and find comfort during these times, but please know there are so many people that are praying for all of you and keeping you close to our hearts. May you find strength and comfort in knowing you are not alone.
Phyllis Crainshaw
July 9, 2002
Krissy and Family:
Please accept my deepest sympathy during this very difficult time. Many friends are thinking of you and including your family in their prayers.
Timothy Manning
July 9, 2002
You all are in our hearts and prayers during this difficult time. God bless you all and keep God close.
Robert Edelman
July 9, 2002
Dear Vicki, Bob, Krissy and Richard,
I still have pictures and vivid memories of little Kimmy running around Grandma Vada's house in my cowboy boots - Great memories that I will never forget. Although I missed the opportunity to know her as she got older, it is obvious from the words of her friends and family how special Kimmy was and how many people she touched. Grandma Vada could only have been proud of her and you all as well. I can not even begin to tell you how sorry I am and how sad I feel for you, Kim's friends and her teammates. I miss you all very much and think of you often. My only comfort is knowing that Grandma Vada and Kimmy are together now and that Gram is there to look over her.
All my love and sympathy,
Robert Edelman
DICK ABBOTT
July 9, 2002
DEAR BOB&VICKI,WATCHING KIM GROW INTO A VERY SPECIAL YOUNG LADY WAS A REFLECTION OF THE ATTENTION AND PRIDE OF TWO WONDERFUL PARENTS.YOU HAVE OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY. DICK&MARILYN ABBOTT
Sierra Ruiz
July 9, 2002
Dearest Cochran family, I did not know Kimberly but when I read about the accident, I felt like I did. I am also an athlete and I can tell you that she lived a full life however short. Her memory will definitely live on the soccer fields she touched. God Bless You!and
Desdie and Tom Eberman
July 8, 2002
Kimmy,
From the first day we met you and Dad at the field in Millis last summer I knew you were a player after my own heart. You were as fearless and crazy as Lindsey and I knew you would leave your heart and soul on the soccer field. Your spirit touched the souls of many and you will live on. You have left your footprints in the sands of time. Maya Angelou says "the strong and courageous are rainbows to those who need them". You are a rainbow in God's heaven. Shine brightly so we know you're there. You will be missed by so many.
Christina Lucci
July 8, 2002
To the Cochrane family,
I am deeply sorry to hear about your loss. My sincere condolences to you all. Kim always showed class even after the most fierce competitions. She was a good kid and I sincerely enjoyed sharing the field with her.
Christina Lucci-NRHS High School Class of 2001
Myrna Clemmons
July 8, 2002
Dear Krissy, We have you in our prayers and we know that God will take you and your parents through this journey.
Joyce Stevenson
July 8, 2002
Krissy and Family,
My heart and love goes out to you. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
The Fourteen Friends
July 8, 2002
In this time of great sadness we must remember how lucky we were to know Kim. We must think of how much she effected everything she touched. She did more in her nineteen years than some do in eighty. We were a group of fifteen girls who walked together through the halls of Lynnfield High, we were fifteen girls who went sledding on snow days, and we are fourteen girls who will never feel complete without our fifteenth wheel. We love you Kim.
To the Cochrane's-Thank you so much for bringing such a beautiful person into the world and sharing her with our community. Kim is a credit to her family and the fourteen of us know that she loved you as much as you loved her. Our hearts break with you and we will always be your fourteen other daughters and we can comfort each other over our fallen sister.
Joy Stone
July 8, 2002
Krissy and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Kara Krummel-Logsden
July 8, 2002
Dear Family - You are in my thoughts and prayers.
July 8, 2002
Kim still touches the hearts...
of those that knew her
and those that only knew of her.
The heart knows
what the eye can't see.
Her heart pulsates love to her family, those that knew her and those that only knew of her. Can't you hear her, "What are you crying for, for heavens sake, I am right here."
Connie Chiasson
July 8, 2002
Krissy and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss...my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Jessica Rando
July 8, 2002
Kimmy- You brought so much to the Lynnfield High School community. Your smile and spirit live on in all of our hearts. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the loved ones you leave behind. We are all truly blessed to have known you.
The Burke family
July 8, 2002
Kim,
Six years ago you became a role model for our family. We knew you as Bumble-bee. You took Kerri under your wing, brought her out of her shell. You were competitors on the field and court but friends off. Always with a smile and encouragement you were contagious. You will always be in our hearts, whenever we see a bee we will think of you flying around gods soceer fields.You are loved by so many.
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