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LEONARD "LENNY" BERHEIMER

1941 - 2024

LEONARD "LENNY" BERHEIMER obituary, 1941-2024, Natick, MA

BORN

1941

DIED

2024

LEONARD BERHEIMER Obituary

BERNHEIMER, Leonard "Lenny" Cherished husband, adored father, adoring grandfather, loving brother and exemplary friend, passed away on March 26, 2024. He was 82 years old. He leaves his wife and best friend of over 60 years, Marilyn Bernheimer, who he met as a shy 16-year-old and who was the light of his life. He also leaves his two children, Beth (Mike) Harrington and Jonathan (Ingrid) Bernheimer; three siblings, Walter (Roz) Bernheimer; Robert (Nancy) Bernheimer; and Susie (Mike) Steinberg; and seven grandchildren, Caroline (Graham) Reynolds; Molly; Megan; Kerry; and Mark Harrington; and Maya and Anya Bernheimer. Born in Newton on October 13, 1941, Lenny was a lifelong athlete and lover of all sports. While at Williams College, from which he graduated in 1963, Len discovered his lifelong passion-squash. Lenny's legacy in squash will live on for years to come, thanks to his long-term involvement with SquashBusters, including serving as its first chairman of the board for 11 years, his more than 35 state, national, and international singles and doubles championships, and his tireless work on behalf of the sport. In recognition of his many contributions, Len was inducted into the U.S. Squash Hall of Fame in 2012. Lenny was also a graduate of Stanford Business School, longtime member of both Belmont Country Club and the University Club of Boston and had a long and distinguished career as owner and president of United Lithograph, an innovative commercial printing company in Somerville. Lenny's greatest achievement, however, was his love for his family and his friends. He would stop at nothing to support those around him. Universally, loved by all who had the good fortune of knowing him, Lenny will be remembered for his unwavering spirit, his unmatched kindness and his incredible love of humor, especially puns. Lenny was truly one of the good guys. There will be a Private Burial on Thursday, March 28, 2024 followed by a Reception at the family residence from 3:30–6:30pm. In lieu of flowers, gifts in his name can be sent to SquashBusters, at 795 Columbus Avenue, Boston, MA 02120.

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Published by Boston Globe from Mar. 26 to Mar. 28, 2024.

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bill cunningham

July 12, 2025

I was just thinking about my years of working in the press room of United Lithograph and wondered how Lenny was doing. Alas he has passed. What a great boss and salesman he was.... Valé Lenny, glad to have known you

Antonio Dias

July 10, 2024

Mr. Bernheimer will be etched in my memory forever. He was good and kind to me. A was a valet at a private squash club he was a member at years ago. I crashed his Porsche and had to tell him... the first words out of his mouth was is anyone hurt??? I was stunned... after saying no he asked me to please take care of the paperwork so he could finish his game...
Never forgot his kindness to me!!
Rest in peace.
Condolences to the family,
Tony

Dave Hetherington, Toronto, Canada.

April 7, 2024

Sincere condolences to Lyn and family. Lenny was unique; a highly talented competitor on the squash court while always exemplifying the utmost in fair play.
In the many times we met in doubles competition we always managed to share a mid match chuckle over something that happened on court. Our respective partners could never quite fathom how we managed to find something humorous in the middle of a fiercely competitive tournament match- that was Lenny's great gift.
The last time I saw Lenny was at the Canadian Doubles at the Toronto Cricket Club. I had retired from the game of squash due to injuries and was there as a spectator. I hadn't seen Lenny for a few years but when Lenny spotted me, he came towards me saying " there's something I've got to do" - he hugged me! I treasure that moment.

George S Rosen

March 29, 2024

My sympathy to the entire Bernheimer family! While I did no know Len personally, I was friendly with his brother, Wally, and wife and children. I understand that Wally and Len were very close.

Carol & Leo Pessin

March 28, 2024

Leo and I send our most heartfelt and sincere sympathies to all of you - friends and neighbors from Natick and Florida. May he rest in peace.
Carol & Leo Pessin & Family.

Fred and Carole Pritzker

March 27, 2024

Lenny and I became best friends as camp mates in 1949, double dated our future wives since 1956, became neighbors in Natick, shared our lakehouse in NH with our kids for many years, became neighbors in FL and remained dear friends throughout. We will think of him and miss him dearly. Fred and Carole Pritzker

Bob Pearson

March 27, 2024

So sorry to hear of Lenny's passing. Remember seeing he and Marilyn at the NHS 50th Reunion. Have friends in Ballen Isles, Fl where they also had a home , but found that out just recently. RIP my friend. Condolences to his family. Bob Pearson

Polly and Venkat Iyer

March 27, 2024

Lenny was my cousin´s husband, but he became my cousin too. He was funny and punny, a true gentleman, and always truly interested in what others were doing. He leaves a big hole in the hearts of everyone who knew him. I know there´ll be a big space left unfilled in mine. Fair winds, Len.

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Susan Horwitz

March 27, 2024

So sorry about Lenny´s passing.we send our prayers to the family we remember many happy times David and Susan Horwitz

Beth&Gerry Tishler

March 27, 2024

We are so sorry to learn of Lenny´s passing. Sending condolences to the family. Beth& Gerry Tishler

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Daniel and Cheri Iyer

March 27, 2024

Lenny was one of a kind. Learned to water ski and play squash courtesy of a master. He will be missed.

Matt Iyer

March 26, 2024

I will always know him as Uncle Lenny. He was the perfect embodiment of a gentleman. He was filled with a positive engagement with the moment and everyone around him. There are so many memories I have of him growing up: from riding in his beloved Porsche, to the many Thanksgiving jokes and insight, working out at the "club", great meals and a couple of one-on-one beers that I will always cherish. Growing up, and still today I regard Lenny as setting the bar for class and integrity as a human being and made it impossible for anyone else to ever come close to his level. My heart goes out to the family and send my deepest sympathies and love. Know that I and my family are here for you in any way.
I love you all.
-Matt Iyer

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