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Mary Aylward Bache Obituary

86, of Framingham. Wife, mother, and friend, died Saturday, July 12, 2008 at the Metro West Medical Center in Framingham after a brief illness. Mary was born in Framingham, daughter of the late Peter and Gioconda Falconi. Mary sadly leaves her husband, Richard Aylward and his family. Wife of the late Charles W. Bache who died in 1978, her daughters, Veronica Bache Lahage of Marshfield, Ann Giombetti and her husband Dennis Giombetti of Framingham, her sister, Madeline Smith of Maynard, her granddaughter Abigail Bannon and her husband Tom Bannon of Framingham, grandsons Malcolm and Nick Lahage of Marshfield, devoted nieces and nephews, Angelo Zanchi and family, Mary Lou Garvey and family, Peter Manna and family, Janet Wainwright and family, Corrine Rose and family, Carol Robertson and family, Helen Trottier and family, Paul Zanchi and family, Peggy Yuse and family, Susan Gudzinowicz and family, Patrick Kelly, and Pauline Echols and family. She was predeceased by three loving sisters, Victoria Zanchi, Alice Kelly and Eva Manna. Mrs. Bache Aylward was a life long resident of Framingham, attended Framingham High School and went on in 1943 to join the Navy as a wave serving in World War II in Washington D.C. She was an active and loyal member of the Navy Women Veterans of MA. Raising her family along Lake Waushakum, Mary became active in her community and in Saint Tarcisius Parish. Mrs. Bache Aylward worked for many years at Marconi's Restaurant in Ashland. She most enjoyed being surrounded by her loving family and friends and will be missed by all. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated Wednesday, July 16 at 10 a.m. in Saint Tarcisius Church, Waverly Street, Framingham. Burial will follow in Saint Tarcisius Cemetery in Framingham. Calling hours at Eugene J. McCarthy and Sons Funeral Home, 11 Lincoln Street, FRAMINGHAM, will be Tuesday, July 15 from 4-8 p.m. Expressions of sympathy may be made in her name to the American Cancer Society, 30 Speen St., Framingham MA 01701; or to the St. Tarcisius Food Pantry.

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Published by Boston Globe on Jul. 14, 2008.

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donna aylward davidsin

August 10, 2008

I love you Mary, thank you for giving my dad the best years of his life, he loved you with all of his heart! Love Donna I'm so sorry ann, Ronie, Lynn, Tim, Sean all nieces, and nephews,grandchildren, and greatgrandchildren rest in peace

donna aylward davidsin

August 10, 2008

I love you Mary, thank you for giving my dad the best years of his life, he loved you with all of his heart! Love Donna

Nicole Aylward

July 15, 2008

I love you grama =(

Debora Elliott

July 14, 2008

Dolly, Pauline, Susan, and family,
I am not sure why some families have to "do this more often". I do know that your strength as a family will see you through. Aunt Mary had a great life and I am grateful for having met her. Know that the Elliott's have you and yours in our prayers.
Lots of love
Deb, Maggie, and Connor

Steven Aucella

July 14, 2008

Roni, I'm so sorry about your mom.

Pauline Echols

July 14, 2008

Beloved by all, a most gracious and wonderful person and most special aunt. We will miss you so. We can all take a lesson from her can-do attitude and willingness to live life to the fullest. Pauline and Scott Echols

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