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Mary CARNEVALE Obituary

CARNEVALE, Mary Meehan Age 66, of Londonderry, NH, a loving wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt and educator, died on October 24, 2025, at her Londonderry home, surrounded by her loving family and friends. She is survived by her husband James T. Carnevale and their children. Born October 3, 1959, in Lowell, she was the daughter of the late Martin T. Meehan and Alice (Britton) Meehan.

Mary was diagnosed with Glioblastoma in March 2025."Mary's life was guided by faith, hope and love. As tumor progression took away everything she had, it could not take who she was. Mary's prayers increasingly focused on peace for her loved ones, neighbors, friends, faithful clergy and all of her family. In praying peace for those she loved, Mary was in turn blessed with more than 200 days of peace," her husband, James Carnevale said.

Mary was devoted to her family and to the students she had the pleasure of teaching during her years as an educator. Her career in education included teaching appointments at the

Immaculate Conception School and St. Patrick's School, both in Lowell, and at the Academy of Notre Dame in Tyngsboro. Mary earned a Master's degree in education in Curriculum and Instruction, cum laude, from UMass Lowell and held a B.S. from the University of Lowell in Law and Justice, with a Minor in Psychology. She also was a certified paralegal.

Throughout her life, Mary demonstrated a commitment to education and to the well-being of her students. She was a valued member of professional organizations, affiliated with the Archdiocese of Boston and the New England Association of Schools and Colleges. She was a member of the Phi Lambda Theta honor society.

Mary's proudest professional achievement was being credited by her former students for helping them develop a lifetime love of learning and serving as their north star through their formative years. Loyal to her friends and generous with her time for those in need, Mary was active in the Archdiocese of Boston's Clergy Sexual Abuse Survivor Community.

Mary loved the beach, hiking, fine dining and family outings. She loved being involved in holiday celebrations and activities with her children and grandchildren.

Mary is survived by her three children, Alexander Carnevale, Michael Carnevale and his wife, Jillian and their son, Michael Ryan Carnevale, Jr. and Evan Carnevale and his wife, Yuliana and their sons, Matthias and Benjamin Carnevale; sister, Colleen and her husband, John Turco; sister, Kathleen Meehan-Baily and her husband, William; brother, Martin Meehan and his wife, Jennifer; brother, Mark Meehan and his wife, Nanci; sister, Maureen Meehan; brother, Paul Meehan and his wife, Karen; brother-in-law, Ralph Carnevale; brother-in-law, Robert Carnevale and his wife, Cheryl; sister-in-law, Carol Palmer and her husband, Tom; and many nieces and nephews; godchildren, Amanda Baily and Sarah Meehan.

Mary was predeceased by sister-in-law, Suzane Carnevale; sister-in-law, Elaine Carnevale; beloved niece, Nikole Carnevale; and beloved nephews, Paul Patrick Meehan, Jr. and Matthew Turco. "Nonna" will be missed by her three grandchildren, Matthias Carnevale, Michael Ryan Carnevale, Jr. and Benjamin Carnevale.

The family invites guests to attend Mary's Visitation on Wednesday, October 29, 2025, from 10:00 am to 11:00 am, at St. Matthew's Church, 2 Searles Road Windham, NH. A Funeral Mass will follow the Visitation at 11:00 am at the church. Burial will follow in Pillsbury Cemetery, Hovey Road, Londonderry, NH.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in Mary's name can be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, (tinyurl.com/bddw6cd5). Arrangements by Goundrey Dewhirst Funeral Home, 42 Main Street, SALEM, NH. To leave an online condolence, please visit Mary's tribute page www.goundreydewhirstfuneral.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Boston Globe from Oct. 28 to Oct. 29, 2025.

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Paulajoy Pj Savastano

October 29, 2025

My dear friend, you are now watching from above, I'm so sorry I couldn't say goodbye personally, however you're mentioned in my daily prayers. My love to the boys, Jim and all of your grandsons, also. I'm with you.

The Staff of Goundrey Funeral Home &

October 28, 2025

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

Jamie Becotte

October 27, 2025

Mary and I met during graduate school at U Mass/Lowell. She was kind, positive, and her sense of humor was infectious. The program was arduous, but Mary made it so much fun. We always found something to laugh about. We had lost touch when I moved to Florida, but reconnected on Facebook. Mary will be missed.

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