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MARY DESIMONE Obituary

DeSIMONE, Mary (Tobin) Age 85, of Roslindale, passed away on March 25, 2020, after a brief illness. Mary was born in Roxbury, MA. She graduated from Blessed Sacrament High School. Mary was married to Rudolph "Sonny" DeSimone. They were married for 55 years until his death. Mary worked for Whiting's Milk Company after she graduated high school. She taught faith formation classes at the Annunciation Church in West Roxbury for many years. She was also actively involved in the Parkway Seniors organization. Mary is survived by her son James DeSimone, daughter-in-law Susan DeSimone, grandson John DeSimone, granddaughter Eva DeSimone of Minneapolis, sister-in-law Beverly Tobin of Hyde Park, and many nieces and nephews. In addition to her husband, Mary is preceded in death by her sons, Michael DeSimone and Richard DeSimone, and her brothers William Tobin, Hugh "Bob" Tobin, and Francis Tobin. Due to the current situation, no Funeral Services will be scheduled. A Memorial Service will be planned in the future when possible. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be given to the Annunciation Cathedral of West Roxbury. The family of Mary DeSimone wishes to thank the staff of Gormley Funeral Service in WEST ROXBURY for their caring help, the staff and residents of the Hebrew Rehabilitation Center for their wonderful and loving care, and Mary's nieces Jean Mahoney, Elaine Sacco, Bonnie Ward and Donna Sylvester for everything. For guestbook, www.gormleyfuneral.com William J. Gormley Funeral Service 617-323-8600

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Published by Boston Globe from Apr. 1 to Apr. 5, 2020.

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Elaine Sacco

March 26, 2025

Elaine Sacco

March 26, 2022

Keep thinking. Keep living.
Keep remembering.
Want to dial 325 5008 and hear her voice...or a busy signal.
Those were the days.

Elaine Sacco

March 26, 2021

Thinking of you today Jimmy.
I miss her everyday.

Elaine Sacco

May 17, 2020

Thinking of Aunty today as tomorrow is her birthday. The lilacs are blooming in the arboretum in celebration of a life well lived. I wish we could get sundaes at Brigham's together, Jimmy, and enjoy the way your mother made the simplest of moments magnificent. I am here, sending love and remembering Aunty always. Elaine.

Bonnie Ward

April 16, 2020

Auntie Mary was smart, funny, and knew everything'. She had fabulous penmanship - I loved getting cards or letters from her, not only because of what she wrote but because they were written with that beautiful hand. She loved trivia & we reveled in learning obscure facts about a wide variety of topics. She encouraged me to learn, to research, to write, and most importantly to speak up. She stressed the importance of not measuring your success with someone else's ruler and that doing the right thing was about your character not someone else's perceptions. Auntie was a bright light in my childhood and it wasn't because she treated me as an adult, but because she saw me as a whole person and helped me to see myself. She always had a shoulder or a smile when I needed it, and she always had a big dose of reality when I needed that, too. I cherish my memories of early morning walks on the beach in Marshfield, shopping in the china/crystal department in Bloomingdale's, and Friday evening take out from China Gold. Auntie, you are missed terribly ... but you live on in my heart.

Elaine Sacco

April 4, 2020

There are no words to describe what it feels like to be loved by Aunty Mary. You have to live it. I was blessed to live it everyday of my life. Unconditional ever present love and laughter. I learned intelligence in the truest sense of the word. Thank you Jimmy, for sharing your Mother with me. We will hear her in the waves at Marshfield and every time we make the pie I love you. Yes, its Elaine AGAIN!

Jim DeSimone

April 3, 2020

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