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Mary Forshay Obituary

Of Melrose, July 9, 2008, 56 years old. Devoted wife of Robert C. Forshay, loving mother of Christopher R. & his fiancee Tracy L. Gallagher of Melrose, Matthew F. & Michael P. Forshay, also of Melrose. Caring sister of Patricia M. Pugsley & her husband Stan of CT, Eileen A. McCarthy & Stephen Toti of Melrose & Francis G. McCarthy & his wife Debbie of Allston. Special sister-in-law of Lee A. Forshay & his wife Evelyn of NH & Lawrence J. Forshay of Jamaica Plain. Much loved daughter-in-law of Lee & Evelyn Forshay of Medford. Also survived by nephews Gerard, David & Mark Pugsley and close friends Mary Lou Kelleher & her husband Kevin & family of Stoneham. Funeral from the Gately Funeral Home 79 W. Foster St., Melrose on Sat., July 12th at 9AM. Funeral Mass in St. Marys Church, Herbert St., Melrose at 10AM. Family & friends respectfully invited. Visiting hours Fri. 2-4 & 7-9 PM. Interment in Wyoming Cemetery, Melrose. Donations in Mary's memory may be made to ALS Association 75 McNeil Way, Suite 310, Dedham, MA 02026 or St. Mary's School 46 Myrtle St., Melrose, MA 02176. For directions, obituary or to sign guest book, visit www.gatelyfh.com Gately Funeral Home (781) 665-1949

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Published by Boston Globe from Jul. 10 to Jul. 11, 2008.

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Marion Beecher

August 21, 2025

Mary may you rest in heavenly peace in Gods Kingdom. I remember how much you loved your husband and sons. Fun loving and very kind.

Karen Smith

August 21, 2008

Dear Forshay Family, I unfortunately just found out about Mary's passing. I got to know Mary when I had taken over for her at Pedi at Spaulding. She was a wonderful, compasionate person, who dealt with adversity with strength & dignity. My prayers & thoughts are with you in this time of great sorrrow...

Carol (Egan) Vandenburgh

July 16, 2008

Dear McCarthy and Forshay Families:

I just returned from a vacation this week and was so sorry to hear about Mary. When events such as this happen in our lives, there is never any explanation nor is there anything that can take away the pain as you grieve. I have fond memories of Mary as we attended St. Mary's High School, St. Mary's Colorguard and later going out to dinner with Mary and Jean O'Rourke. Mary had a terrific smile and wonderful personality was contagious to all around her. My deepest condolences are with your famiies at this time of sympathy. You will all be in my prayers during this time and the days ahead.

Nina & Francesca Di Orio

July 11, 2008

Dear Michael and your family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We offer our sincerest sympathy to you all. Michael, you are in our prayers, God be with you all in your time of sorrow.

sheila pelletier

July 11, 2008

bob, christopher, matthew, and michael~
if you need anything please call.
sheila and mark

Pat Ryan

July 11, 2008

For Mary --

I will miss you always - me and the other MGH gals had some great times at your house -- I will always remember them with a smile.

For her family -- you all should be proud of the care you gave her. Take comfort knowing that you lived every moment with her to the fullest and gave her all the love you could.

Pat Ryan, MGH Pediatrics

Jennifer Shakespeare

July 11, 2008

My mother and I just wanted to take a minute to express our sincerest sympathy for your loss. It seems like only a few years ago we were all in St. Mary's School together, and Mrs. Forshay was lunch mother or bringing Michael to school to see his older brothers. Your mother, wife, sister, was a widely respected and loved woman. She will missed by all!

Donna lazazzero

July 11, 2008

Dear Bob,Matthew,Chris ,Mike, and family,
Please accept our deepest sympathies. Arthur, Donna ,Stephanie, and Joe

Kevin/Lia

July 11, 2008

Dear Matt and Family,

Our caring thoughts are with you during this difficult time and those ahead. You have been SO wonderful to your mother and wife. Not everyone is so lucky to be blessed with such an amazing person as part of their family. May those memories make you smile and give you strength at the times you need them the most. We wish you peace, love and faith.

~Kevin and Lia

Patrick and Lauren Doherty

July 10, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Kate O'Brien

July 10, 2008

DEAR EILEEN,

In all the distress today, it must comfort you to remember that human love is transmuted into the Eternal.
The love and care you gave your sister during the years of her illness are an inspiration to me.


Deepest sympathy,

KATE O'BRIEN

Pat, John, Micheal & Katharine Moniello

July 10, 2008

Bob, our thoughts and prayers are with you and the boys. Mary was, and always will be, a very special lady and I'm sure a part of her will be with Eileen down at Clearwater Beach next week!

Cathi Lander

July 10, 2008

Although I only met Mary once, her stories were vibrant and wonderful. I know she will be missed by all, we were all truly blessed to have her in our lives.

Susan,Frank and Lauren Mauriello

July 10, 2008

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Eileen/Ellen Collier/Walsh(Tracys Aunties)

July 10, 2008

Our deepest sympathies to the Forshay & McCarthy families, Mary was a lovely, classy lady, that will truly be missed.
Her courage and love of family is the glue that will keep you strong.
God Bless!

Shirley Bedrosian

July 10, 2008

Bob,
You and your family are very special people (including Mary) who was very lucky to have you all.
I may not be able to attend the wake due to my move but please know my thoughts, prayers and love are with you at this time.
God bless you all and give you strength

Ester Cardoso

July 10, 2008

Bob, Chris, Matthew and Michael, I am very sorry to hear of your loss. We are left saddened here on earth, but I know the angels in heaven are rejoicing for the return of one of their own. Mary will be greatly missed. I will always cherish the small talks and laughs we had thru the years working together. She was a wonderful caring woman.

Janice Cataldo

July 10, 2008

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept our deepest sympathies. From Mary's friends at Elizabeth Grady Saugus.

Ed Gardner

July 10, 2008

Mary Catherine, you will be missed by all. Many happy memories of our youth and your wonderful smile!
Our prayers are with your family and know that you are now @ peace.
Ed, Pat, and Ted Gardner

Caitlin Kuconis

July 10, 2008

My thoughts and prayers go out to Mary, Bob, Chris, Matt, and Michael. Mary was such a wonderful and caring person. She will definetly be missed.

Judy Newell

July 10, 2008

Mary, you are dancing in heaven now, just because you can. Your remarkable spirit will live on in so many lives you touched. The nursing and support staff of MassGeneral Hospital for Children will always "be there" for your family and friends. You will be missed.

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