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Mary Schafer Obituary

SCHAFER, Mary E. (Fries) 79, of Framingham died on Monday September 21, 2009 at the Miriam Boyd Parlin Residence of Wayside Hospice in Wayland. Born in Chicago, IL, daughter of the late Casper and Mary (Adams) Fries, she was the wife of the late Joseph L. Schafer, who died in 1998. Mrs. Schafer had been a resident of Framingham for the past 5 years and had previously been a longtime resident of Chicago. Prior to retirement, she was employed for over twenty years as a postal clerk with the US. Postal Service. She is survived by a daughter, Trudy R. Schafer and her husband Robert Hoffmeister of Framingham; a brother, Casper Fries of Chicago, IL, her granddaughters, Bianca and Jasmine Hoffmeister of Framingham and many nieces and nephews. Calling hours at the Eugene J. McCarthy and Sons Funeral Home, 11 Lincoln St., Framingham will be on Tuesday from 4:00 to 8:00 p.m. A Funeral Mass and Burial will take place in Chicago at a later date. Expressions of sympathy may be made in her memory to the Learning Center for the Deaf, 848 Central Street, Framingham, MA 01701.

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Published by Boston Globe on Sep. 22, 2009.

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Bianca

October 7, 2023

I miss you grandma so much ! Today you on my mind a lot . Miss our conversation every time I got home from school . You always have faith in me. You patient you so loves . I know if you still alive you will love my babies so much !!!

Janice Cagan-Teuber

September 22, 2009

Trudy and Bob,

I was saddened by the news that your mother had passed. I know she had lots of joy the past 5 years while living with you and the girls. I truly enjoyed the times I was with her, out at Deaf events, in your home, wherever. She was a sweet, sweet, gentle woman.

My heart goes out to you.
Janice

Susan Stange

September 22, 2009

Dear Trudy and Bob,

I am so sorry for the loss of Trudy's mom Mary. I know Trudy was especially close to her mom and can only imagine that the kids loved her to bits.

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