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MICHAEL AESCHLIMAN Obituary
Mike was the brightest light in every room. He loved spending his time playing and coaching basketball, making his famous chocolate chip pancakes, watching funny shows as well as basketball games, riding his bike, making silly faces, obnoxiously singing, walking the family dog Rory, and spending time with his wonderful wife and kids every chance he got.
Private Services and interment. A Celebration of Mike's Joyous Life will be planned for a later date. Holden-Dunn-Lawler
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for MICHAEL AESCHLIMAN
Scott LaCoste
September 9, 2024
Mike i can't comprehend this devesting news. Tim and i talked about the headache we caused you growing up. I hope those times can be replaced with good memories. Rest in peace my friend
Brad Cameron
January 29, 2020
I worked as a close partner with Mike when he first joined our organization and loved his sensitivity, focus and caring approach to his work and his relationships. I came to really appreciate our partnership and I learned from him. This is truly sad news, my sincere thoughts and best wishes are with his family, to whom I know he was very dedicated. RIP my friend.
Nicholas Stahl
January 24, 2020
I worked with Mike for about a year - when he first arrived, he shook us out of our complacency to do more and do better, all with a quiet, confident leadership style. while we didn't work together directly, I knew right away he would be a great leader for the company both because of his experience, but also because he brought his full self to work every day. He was willing to deal with the stuff that was broken, and fix it. These are rare qualities and we were lucky to have had him.
Steven Feinschreiber
January 10, 2020
Mike was such a great guy to work with. He always had a positive can-do attitude and a good sense of humor too. More than that, he was an all around good person who genuinely cared about people.
Shannon Vettes
January 7, 2020
The first time I ever communicated with Mike was when he joined the company and sent his first email. I noticed that his avatar was Bill Murray, which immediately made me like him.
I only worked with Mike for a short time, but that first impression stuck. I appreciated his direct and honest communication, and his ability to focus on what ENG needed. He was a good leader who pushed for integrity, quality, and continuous improvement; traits I suspect were within him outside of the workplace as well. It was obvious to everyone through his successes that cared a great deal about his staff and our collective achievements. God, he will be missed so much by so many.
Our hearts go out to his family during this difficult time, we hope you are comforted knowing that he was so well loved and respected at Acquia.
Ken D'Amico
January 6, 2020
Mike and I only worked together for a short time but in that time it was clear he was a very devoted family man. My thoughts and best wishes are with Mike's family, hoping that they can find clarity and peace with this situation and remember the good times and contribution that Mike made to each of their lives (and visa versa). With sympathy, Ken
Adriana Bourgoin
January 6, 2020
To the Aeschliman family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I had the honor of knowing Mike through Salesforce. He was always a genuine pleasure to work with which is worth noting as it is not often true - in this case, it really was. I know these notes won't blunt the sadness - I lost my father when I was 16, so I speak from experience - but I wanted to somehow convey that while we are strangers, I feel lucky to have known Mike and I share in your grief.
My thoughts go out to you now, and over the course of the next few months - it is a sad, and surreal adjustment. But eventually, somehow, without even noticing it, you will realize that while life is not the same, it can still be good.
Adriana
Malachy McConnell
January 6, 2020
Mike was highly respected at work. He will be remembered as a kind open and supportive manager. Our thoughts are with you.
Kris Stepenuck
January 3, 2020
I was stunned and saddened to learn of Mikes passing. We attended grade school together and were later friends during college. I recall one story of him, in-particular, that demonstrated his compassionate character, putting him head and shoulders above the rest. While driving down Main St in Keene with him, he suddenly careened to a stop and leapt from the car, rushing over to help an older woman who had fallen on the sidewalk. Most people would rely on someone else react to such a situation (such as someone walking nearby), but Mike not only processed what had happened instantaneously, but he planned a course of action to help and implemented it in seconds. Its clear from reading others comments that he continued to live his life in a similar way. Heartfelt condolences to his entire family. Only the good die young.
Jennifer Babb
January 2, 2020
When Mike first started at Acquia, he flew out to Oregon to meet with the team here - and in the very first meeting he held with us, he talked about his wife & kids. It was clear how much he loved you. I feel lucky to have worked with a man who brought his whole self to his job. He was smart & experienced & capable but it was his forthrightness and fun that'll leave the big hole at Acquia. My deepest condolences go out to the family.
Adam Globus-Hoenich
January 2, 2020
I worked a few levels underneath Mike at Acquia. I didn't have the privilege of interacting with him very much, but it was very obvious that he was a great and capable guy, well-liked by all, and it's clear that he is greatly missed. I'm really sorry for this loss. My heart is open to you, and I send hugs and condolences.
Meagen Williams
January 2, 2020
I did not have the privilege of working with Mike closely or for very long, but I knew him well enough to know that Acquia was lucky to have a man of integrity, candor and humor on our leadership team. He will be sorely missed. My prayers are with you all.
Mike Blair
December 31, 2019
To the Aeschlimans; I was shocked and deeply saddened to read of Mike's sudden passing at such a young age. My heart is laid open for the entire Aeschliman family and especially Mike's wife and kids, all of whom have been cheated with this loss. My earliest memory of Mike is when he and his brother Tim would knock on the back door of the quonset hut at MPB where there Dad, Jim and I worked when they were around 6 or 7 years old. Then later, Mike played basketball for Keene High and I enjoyed watching the games with Jim and Kate occasionally. I think I also played some pick-up ball with Mike at the old YMCA during those years and he was a tough competitor. It was always obvious to me that the Aecshlimans were a close knit bunch. Again, my deepest sympathies to the entire family.
Sincerely, Mike Blair
Riccardo La Rosa
December 31, 2019
I had the pleasure to be part of Mike's team at Acquia and worked with him closely for the last few months. To the Aeschliman family, please accept my deepest condolences. He will be deeply missed. He has achieved a lot in the short time that he has been with us with integrity and candor.
Charley Dublin
December 30, 2019
Mike recruited new into Acquia and was very good to me. He was clearly a very good person and very capable. He was a straight shooter and operated with integrity and transparency. I am grateful to have met him and offer my sincere condolences to his young family.
Megan Christudas
December 30, 2019
My deepest condolences to the Aeschliman family. I had the honor of working on Mike's team at Acquia, where he will be deeply missed. He was a force at our company, known for building people up, not taking any nonsense, and bringing out people's best. One of the last conversations I had with Mike was about how proud he was of his eldest daughter who had just completed her first semester of college. He spoke so highly of all of his children. I'm so saddened by his passing, and sending you strength and love at this difficult time.
Matt Wagner
December 30, 2019
I am so very sorry to learn of Mike's passing. I worked with Mike at Acquia, where we had a great deal of admiration for him. He was a great guy, and we're going to miss him terribly. My heartfelt condolences to your family.
Suzanne, Kevin & Sam Hopson
December 30, 2019
Dear Carolyn, Maggie, Joseph, Katie & Jillian, we miss you all and are sorry we are not near to help you through your time of mourning. Words can not heal all you must be going through, but know that each one of you in the Aeschliman family touched our lives in wonderful wonderful ways. We'll miss your Dad, but know he lives on in each of you. Our deepest and most heartfelt condolences on your loss.
Claudia Mueller Thomson
December 30, 2019
To the Aeschliman family, please accept my deepest sympathies for your loss. I worked with Mike at Acquia. There were many things I appreciated about him, and things that made me smile -- his ready laugh, his welcoming and open manner, his willingness to engage with us no matter how low down the totem pole, his Girl Scout cookie sign up sheet and his colorful shirts. He will be missed.
Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Nicholas Sireci
December 30, 2019
I didn't know Mike well but the few interactions I had with him conveyed his compassion, authenticity and zest for life. I'm grateful for knowing him. My thoughts and prayers are with you guys.
The Marino's
December 29, 2019
Friends, we are so sorry for your loss. Sending hugs, love, strength and prayers to you all.
Christine Venezia
December 29, 2019
Aeschliman family, my deepest condolences in the loss of Mike. We worked briefly together at Fidelity and it was a pleasure every day. Mike is a wonderful man and will be missed by hundreds of his past Fidelity coworkers. My thoughts are with you as you navigate this time.
Rich &Eileen Greisch
December 28, 2019
Dear Carolyn, our thoughts and prayers are with you at this incredible loss.
Tricia DeAngelis
December 28, 2019
Dear Carolyn and children (especially Katie and Jillian). I am heartbroken and truly sorry for your loss. Please know I hold you all close in my thoughts and prayers.
Tricia
Dennis Wenzel
December 28, 2019
I cannot say, and I will not say that Mike is dead. He is just away! With a cheery smile and a wave of the hand, he has wandered into an unknown land, and left us dreaming how very fair it needs must be, since he lingers there. Think of him faring on, as dear in the love of there as the love of here. Mike is not dead - he is just away.
Mary-Carol Waters
December 28, 2019
Carolyn, Maggie, Joseph, Katie and Jilly...words cannot express the depths of my sorrow at this incredibly difficult time for you all. I am here for you in any way you need and want you to know that I am thinking of you and praying for you. Mike was such a beautiful person and he positively influenced everyone he met. He was a kind and gentle soul and I will so miss my amazing conversations with him about all of you. Much love from me and Abbey and Amy.
Casey Cerretani
December 27, 2019
Mike and I have known each other for over a decade - and he worked for me at Salesforce for a bit. He was an amazing friend with a sharp mind and compassionate heart. So sorry to hear of his passing. Mike was known for many talents in the tech world - but his stories always find there way back to his family as that is where his heart and passion was centered.
Joe Miller
December 27, 2019
I am one of Mike's Basketball buddies that moved from the area last Spring. Mike and I spent much time before, between, and after games over the past few years .. and the conversations were always about 2 topics... Basketball and his family. He was clearly a devoted husband and father. Although soft spoken and thoughtful, he always an impish sense of humor. All of us who spent time with Mike had great affection for him. We are so sorry for your loss.
Sending strength as you all miss this gigantic hole in your hearts...
JOE MILLER
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