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Michael Gilman Obituary

GILMAN, Michael B. Of Lexington, March 9, 2011. Son of Paul R. Gilman of Lexington and Allison Tabeling of Acton, ME. Brother of Christopher P. Gilman of Billerica. Grandson of Edith F. Gilman of Lexington, and Mary Ann Tabeling of Leesburg, FL. Uncle of Morgan James Gilman of Billerica. Michael is also survived by his girlfriend, Amanda Fahy. A Funeral Service will be held Monday, March 14 at the Douglass Funeral Home, 51 Worthen Rd. LEXINGTON at 11:30 am. Relatives and friends are kindly invited to attend. Visiting Hours Sunday from 2pm to 6pm. Donations in his memory may be made to the American Cancer Society, 30 Speen St., Framingham, MA 01701. Private interment Westview Cemetery, Lexington. Douglass Funeral Home Lexington 781-862-1800 www.douglassfh.com

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Published by Boston Globe from Mar. 9 to Mar. 10, 2011.

Memories and Condolences
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Christine Graboyes (Gilman)

March 3, 2025

Still remember this sweet boy. Thinking of you all.

Connie Cataldo

March 3, 2019

Dear Allison,
May the memories of your son live on forever and ever. Our children are our most precious gifts and we love them till eternity!!
Thoughts from an old friend,
Connie Cataldo

Anne Maher Heller

February 10, 2012

Dear Allison ~

Amazing that it has bee nearly a year since losing your Michael. Take care please. Thinking of you.

Amanda Fahy

February 8, 2012

Can't believe it has almost been a year. You are in my heart each day and you will never leave it.

June 25, 2011

To my friend swimma, thanks for the laughs man. You were truley one of a kind. Kevin(chuckie) Norris

Jane Ellen D'Entremont

June 16, 2011

Allison, Paul, Chris and Family ~

Still thinking of you all and praying for your comfort from this moment on.

Cindy McRae

March 26, 2011

Allison, Paul and Chris.My thoughts are with you , may God Bless Michael and all of you.
Cindy McRae

March 20, 2011

Allison: My son, Bob Jr., told me that Michael died. I'm so sorry. I have fond memories of Mike and his winning smile. Please take care of yourself. An old Lexington neighbor....Bob St.Pierre

March 20, 2011

Paul~
My prayers are with you. May loving memories sustain you during this most diffuclt time. From the few times our paths have crossed, I know how much you love your sons and this loss will be devastating. May he rest in peace. Jane Farrar Strigler

ferolito family

March 18, 2011

Allison and Chris,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you both. We are here if you need us.

Love,
Lisa, Pat, Tyler and Trevor

March 18, 2011

Dear Allison and family,
I was deeply saddened to hear of your unimaginable loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Pauline Calkins

Erik Diedrichsen

March 16, 2011

Dear Gilman Family,
Incredibly heartbreaking news... Mike and I met at UMASS and have been close friends ever since. No matter where, when, or who you were, he would always put a smile on your face. Certainly missed, but never forgotten. My prays are with you.

Carly Gillis

March 16, 2011

My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. Way too soon to lose someone so young. May he rest in peace.

Mark Sullivan

March 15, 2011

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Mary and Jim Hayes

March 14, 2011

Jim and I were sad to read of your loss, Paul. We are thinking of you and your family. Take care.

Terry Ward

March 14, 2011

My deepest condolences to all of Michael's family and Amanda. I'm glad I had the pleasure to get to know Michael during our short time at DMB.

Kathy McSweeney

March 14, 2011

Allison, Paul and Chris,

I'm so sorry to hear of Michael's passing. My thought and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

March 14, 2011

Allison & Chris,
I am so sorry to hear of Mike's passing. He will be missed by all that knew him. The memories will never be forgotten!!
Jay,Jayson and Jesse-- Square Pond, Maine

Corey Place

March 14, 2011

Paul,Allison and Chris

I'm sorry for your loss and my heart goes out to all of you at this time.

March 14, 2011

To the Gilman Family,
Mike was loved by so many. I pray for the day that you find peace inside yourselves, it's a long road ahead. I have so many fond memories and he is just one of those people that always brought a smile to the crowd.

Love,
Danielle Mobilia Light

Nicole Dillon

March 14, 2011

Chris (& family),
I am so sorry for your loss...
Thinking of you, with sympathy.

Elizabeth Coursen

March 14, 2011

From extended day in elementary school to driving him to our classes at Middlesex Community College, Mike is someone who stands out as part of my childhood.
I remember his laugh when he teased me in 6th grade English class and seeing him at middle school dances. I remember his perfect handwriting; how he would write his name for an assignment and if he didn’t think it was good enough he would throw out the paper and write it again until he got it “right”.
I wish he had known, that it was good enough…that he was good enough and never had to prove that. I hope he has found the peace he sought.

To all his loved ones, my heart aches for you and your immeasurable grief.

With your love, and in the memories we all have for him, he will remain immortal.

Sharona Lande

March 14, 2011

Mike was very special to me and a great friend. He will be forever missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his entire family in this time of grief. Love you Mike.

Sherrill Zack Kaplan

March 13, 2011

Allison, Paul and Chris,

I'm so sorry for this painful and terrible loss. I will, as will countless others, remember Mike so fondly. He was such a great guy with a hilarious personality. My heart goes out to all of you.

Janice Linehan

March 13, 2011

Allison, My thoughts & prayers are with you & your family!

ricky heffron

March 12, 2011

My condolenses to the family mike was a great kid and my heart goes out to his family. I know he's in a better place and his suffering is over but it doesn't make it any easier for those left behind god bless you mike !! May the sun always shine on your face and the wind always be at your back and forever rip pal.

Gerry Fabrizio

March 12, 2011

To all mikes family I send my deepest condolences. Mike will be missed but never forgotten

Gerry Fabrizio

March 12, 2011

To all mikes family I send my deepest condolences. Mike will be missed but never forgotten

Joe Barletta

March 12, 2011

Truely sorry to hear about Mike passing. My condolences to your family.

Mespa Mike.

Gary & Jean Brey

March 12, 2011

To Paul, Allison & Chris,
We share in your loss of Mikey and are thinking of you. Our deepest sympathy to you at this difficult time.

PJ Kippenhan

March 12, 2011

I am very sorry for your loss. Mike was a great friend and a good man, i have so many good memories of him. He will be missed dearly.

gregory O'Leary

March 12, 2011

Allison, your loss has to immeasurable,and the pain ever so deep, I feel like I've known him for years, as you often have spoken of the family growing up. I know that both of your children were so lucky to of had you for a mom, loving them unconditionally. Now you will have the love and support from your family and friends, let them be there to help and support you in the days ahead. Though I am in Florida, know that our prayers are for you and your family. Greg , Brian and Henry

Geertrui Spaepen

March 12, 2011

Members of the LHS Class of '95 have Mike's family in their thoughts. May peace be with you.

Jenn Dennis

March 12, 2011

Thinking of you in this unbearably sad time! My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you!

Martha Pennell

March 12, 2011

I have just heard your sad news and want you to know you are in my thoughts. I'm very sorry for your loss.

Janet M.

March 12, 2011

To the Gilman Family:

My thoughts and prayers to the family. Mike was an awesome person who always had us laughing at work. I had the pleasure of working with him @ Herb Chambers Infiniti. He will be greatly missed.

connie cataldo

March 12, 2011

Dear Allison,

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your son. Please accept my condolences. Connie Cataldo

Malaiqa Yasin

March 12, 2011

I am deeply saddened to hear of this great loss. I had the pleasure of working with Mike @ Herb Chambers. He will be greatly missed.

Janice&Danny Whitney

March 12, 2011

Dear Allison and family,
No words can express our sympathy... I have such fond memories of Chris, Mike, Jason and Dana up at the lake in Maine when they were little. We will always remember the good times. Love life and be strong...

Maureen Maher Vaccaro

March 11, 2011

Dear Allison~ I cannot even imagine your shock and grief. There are no words for this. Please know that I am praying for God's comfort, peace and strength for you at this time of your great loss. I will be praying...

Sloane White (Friedman)

March 11, 2011

Chris & Family
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Donna, Ilia, Buck

March 11, 2011

Dear Allison, Paul and Chris,
Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers at this tragic time.
Ilia Cenerizio, Donna Cenerizio and Buck Johnson

Mary Johansson

March 11, 2011

Dear Paul, Allison and Family,
Very sorry to hear this hearbreaking news about your son - our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time.
Mary and John Johansson

Jeff Buchholz

March 11, 2011

Chris, Paul, Allison and Family :
Just heard the news of Mike's passing.
I am so very sorry for your loss.
You are all in my prayers.

March 11, 2011

Allison, Paul, Christopher and the Gilman and Tabeling families

We are so sorry for the pain you all must be going through. Our heartfelt sympathies to all of you.

Jill & Mike Shaughnessy
Westford, MA

Sara Bartels & Taurin Swindle

March 11, 2011

Rest in Peace Mike, we will always remember u "Prada"

Sheehy Family

March 10, 2011

Paul, Allison and Christopher;
We are saddened by the news of Michael's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

The Sheehy Family

Debbie Crowell (O'Brien)

March 10, 2011

Dear Chris and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of Michaels passing. May you find comfort and strength in the days ahead. Cherish the memories as the rest of us will. He is loved by all who were blessed to know him. Sorely missed but never forgotten! Rest in peace, Mike.

Kim & Al

March 10, 2011

Chris,
We were sorry to hear of the loss of your brother. Our deepest sympathy goes out to and to your family in this sime of sorrow. May he rest in peace.

Ann Yankauer

March 10, 2011

Dear Allison and Paul,
So sorry for the loss of your son Michael.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Ann Yankauer

Anne Maher Heller

March 10, 2011

Dearest Allison,

I was stunned to learn about your Michael from my sister Peggy. No words can bring you comfort at this time but please know we are all here for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers and will be in the days and months to come. Please call if you need a shoulder to cry on. Much love,

Tobey Santamaria ( Renna)

March 10, 2011

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Michael. I can't even imagine what you must be going through. I have many fond memories of him growing up in the old Lexington neighborhood as he was a dear friend of my brother Matt. He spent a lot of time with my family and was loved by all of us. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. May god give you the strength to go on. Take Care and again I am so sorry.

Lori Hintlian

March 10, 2011

Chris,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time of loss. Mike will be truly missed me and so many others.

Lori Hintlian, Lexington, MA

March 10, 2011

Chris,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time of loss. Mike will be truly missed by me and so many others.

Lori Hintlian, Lexington, MA

March 10, 2011

Chris,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family always. Mike will be so missed by so many.

Lori Hintlian

Lori Hintlian

March 10, 2011

Chris,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family always. Mike will be so missed by so many.

Lori Hintlian

Lisa Roth

March 10, 2011

To Allison and family,
I can not begin to imagine your loss. Sometimes there are no words that can reveal the feelings of the heart, but please accept my deepest thoughts of you during this time of grieving.

Amanda & Jack Gilman

March 10, 2011

For our cousin Mike, who will be missed but not forgotten.

Debbie Stivers (Kinney)

March 10, 2011

My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you.

Allison (Ganley) Vecchiarello

March 10, 2011

So sorry to hear about Mikes passing! My thoughts are with your family!

Doreen Ganley

March 10, 2011

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Beth Madigan (Bello)

March 10, 2011

I feel so sad in hearing about Mike's passing. Please know we are all praying for you.

March 10, 2011

Paul, Al, Chris and family,
My heart and prayers go out to you all. I feel your pain... I feel Mikey's pain,to, and acknowledge he is now at peace. All we really have is HOPE: Hang On, Peace Endures...
Love,
rbatch

Amanda, Jack, Chrissy Gilman, Graboyes

March 10, 2011

Dear Paul, Allison, Christopher and the Gilman family, We are filled with sorrow in the passing of Mikie. We are so sorry for your loss. May God be with you through these dark days. As I am sure Mike is with him and his heavenly family. Our prayers are with you.

Jackie (Shaughnessy) Madron

March 10, 2011

Allison and Paul,
My heart aches for you both at this time. Please accept my heartfelt condolences on the loss of your son, Michael.
With deepest sympathy and love,

Pauline McDevitt

March 10, 2011

Allison and Paul:
I am so sorry to hear of son, Michael's passing. Your family is in my heart and prayers.
With deepest sympathy,

March 10, 2011

Allison and Paul I am so sorry to hear about Michael. I wish there was something I could say to ease your sorrow but I know there are no words that will help.
With our deepest sympathy,
Jeanne Tierney and Family

Carole Murray (Bennett)

March 10, 2011

Allison, I am SO VERY sorry to hear of your loss! My prayers go out to you as well as the strength to get through this. I lost a son many years ago. My heart is breaking for both you & Paul because I know only too well what you are going through. Allison, please call me - anytime day or night!!

Diane Nelson

March 10, 2011

Allison,
I'm so sorry to hear of Michael's death.
My heart goes out to you.

Amy Boyle

March 10, 2011

I am so sorry to hear of Mike's passing. You are all in my thoughts and prayers during this time. I have not seen Mike in years, but have so many memories from the old neighborhood, and cannot believe he is gone so soon. May he rest in peace, and may you all find comfort in knowing he is in a better place. Amy Boyle

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