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NANCY DRUM-BREWER Obituary

DRUM-BREWER, Nancy Lee Age 72, of Lomita, California, succumbed to a long illness on May 24, 2019. Nancy, sole daughter of Harlen and Edna Drum, was born on April 24, 1947. She lived her early years on a domestic farm in Pembroke, MA, was an active 4H member and fostered a lifelong respect and love of animals. At the age of 12, she moved with her family to Scituate, MA where she attended school until transferring and graduating in 1966 from Thayer Academy in Braintree, MA. She went on to attend The University of Saint Louis and the Museum of Fine Arts School in Boston. Nancy was a gifted artist whose soul was courageously revealed in her highly acclaimed works. Although many paintings had been sold or given away, her family members will remain connected to her spirit through the works that she had saved for them. Passionate to help others, Nancy gave her time and love to many individuals and organizations most notably as a suicide hotline volunteer. Nancy is survived by her younger brother Robert F. Drum, her identical twin sons Derek and Keith Brewer of Southern California, former male actors and models known as the Brewer Twins, grandchildren Malaya and Naomi Brewer, nieces Anna Drum-Oden and Tiina Drum-Andrews and nephew Tommi Drum. She was preceded in death by her former husband Harry Whitin Brewer, her brother Richard Leslie Drum, and his son, her nephew, Joel Drum. Family members gathered on the day of her passing and shared their loving remembrances. As they did for their father "Whitey," Keith and Derek will paddle Nancy's ashes out to sea and reunite their parents for eternity. The family wishes to extend their gratitude to Adorable Home II located in Torrance, CA a small Assisted Living facility devoted to the dignity of life.

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Published by Boston Globe from Jun. 14 to Jun. 16, 2019.

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Jeff Burnett

December 18, 2021

I remember Nancy from when she first moved to Scituate and was assigned to share my locker at Scituate Junior High. I was so shy that I hardly spoke to her but marveled at her sensitivity and love for her family, especially her father. I counted myself very fortunate when she joined me and others from Scituate at Thayer. May you be held in the light, Nancy.

Michael Hayes

June 18, 2019

Nancy's death is not only a great loss to her family, but to anyone who knew her. I knew her from early days in Scituate, and she and her family were so kind to me for many, many years after my father died when I was 10. Great memories from Scituate, Scituate Harbor Yacht Club and Thayer. Nancy was always one of the most gentle souls God has placed on this earth. Rest in Peace Nancy.

Brenda Tower nee Anthony

June 16, 2019

I was so saddened to hear of Nancy's passing. I knew her years ago when she first moved to Scituate. She came to a couple of parties at my house. I remember her as being a very friendly but somewhat shy girl. Exceptionally beautiful, she bore it with grace and humility. Everyone liked her. There was nothing about her to not like. We lost touch not long after she transferred to Thayer. I can only imagine how much she is missed by her family and friends. I lost my oldest son in a plane crash 12 years ago. He was 43. I know what grief is. My hope for Nancy's loved ones is that they remember the love and joy she brought to them and the light she shone on the world. Keep that light shining..... talk about her. Say her name. Tell stories. Laugh. Cry. Keep her in that space in your hearts that only she fits into. Because love never dies.

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