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NEIL J. COLLINS

1944 - 2019

NEIL J. COLLINS obituary, 1944-2019, Stoneham, MA

NEIL COLLINS Obituary

COLLINS, Captain Neil J. (USN) Passed away peacefully on the morning of April 7, 2019, with his loving wife, Tricia, by his side. Born in Medford, MA, on August 26, 1944, and raised in Stoneham, MA, he was the fifth child of Osman and Dorothy E. (Foss) Collins - arriving just minutes after his twin sister and cherished lifelong friend, Nancy.

Neil held education in high regard, fueled by a natural sense of curiosity and healthy appetite for learning. He received an AS in Nuclear Engineering Technology from Wentworth Institute of Technology, a BS in Engineering from the University of Massachusetts, an MS in Mechanical Engineering, and a Mechanical Engineering Post-Masters Degree Certification from the Naval Postgraduate School, as well as an MS degree in Higher Education from Old Dominion University.

A proud patriot, Neil served his country for 31 years in the U.S. Navy as an Engineering Duty Officer with both domestic and international posts, including two tours in Vietnam. Across his distinguished career, he also taught Ship Construction and Thermodynamics at the United States Naval Academy, and held roles as Associate Chairman of the United States Naval Academy Department of Naval Engineering; Royal Navy/United States Navy Attach? for the United States Embassy in London; Commanding Officer of Sturgeon Bay Shipyard; and Commanding Officer of Navy Fleet Technical Support Center. Above all, he always said his most important assignment was in Subic Bay, Philippines, where he met the love of his life, Tricia.

The importance of family, travel and education served as a common thread throughout all his life's endeavors. His second career as a professor at Tidewater Community College proved a perfect fit as he built upon what made him so successful in the Navy: teaching and helping others reach their highest potential. Through his service and personal travels, he visited and experienced more than 55 countries, which shaped his appreciation of all cultures.

Most important to Neil was an unflinching commitment to his family. He is survived by his wife of 39 years, Patricia C. Collins of Virginia Beach, VA; his son, Nathan Collins, of New York, NY; his daughter, Nicole (Collins) Yoon, her husband Soojin Yoon, and his first grandchild, Sophie Yoon, all of Atlanta, GA; and his two sisters, Nancy Maidrand of Shrewsbury, MA; and Carolyn Gaffny of Billerica, MA. He was predeceased by his two brothers, Robert Collins of Stoneham, MA; and Richard Collins of Seaford, NY.

The family will receive visitors on April 14, 2019, from 2 p.m. to 5 p.m. at Anderson-Bryant Funeral Home. A Funeral Service will be held on Monday, April 15, 2019, at the First Congregational Church in Stoneham on Church Street, at 11 a.m. Neil will be interred at Arlington National Cemetery at a later date. In lieu of flowers, contributions in memory of Neil may be made to Movember, a foundation supporting men's health, https://mobro.co/n8c

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Published by Boston Globe from Apr. 10 to Apr. 11, 2019.

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Theresa Hembel

April 26, 2025

CDR Collins was my CO at SUPSHIP Sturgeon Bay. Fond memories. Tricia & family, so sorry for your loss.

Ken Fougere

April 4, 2022

Had looked forward to our first meeting.

Robert H Henne

September 18, 2020

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always. I served under LCDR Collins who was the MPA (Main Propulsion Assistant) aboard USS Midway CV-41. A great man who I respect very much. When he and his family were transferring to Hawaii I recommended he stay at Bellows Air Force Recreation area rather than the hubbub of Waikiki. He later wrote back and told his fellow officers what a great relaxing time he had. Later on, in either 89 or 90, he invited my wife and me to be his guest at a Navy recruit graduation ceremony at Great Lakes where he was to be the reviewing officer. He treated us very well and my wife still talks about Capt. Collins and the fantastic way we were treated at the ceremony and later the luncheon. I was going through some papers and found a card he sent me inviting us to the change of command ceremony at Mare Island Naval Complex. We were unable to attend. My wife and I are sad that he is gone.

Rhonda D'Amore

April 18, 2019

Neil will be greatly missed! He had a knack of bringing joy into every situation during what now seems to be the short amount of time that I knew and worked with him at TCC. He has left a hole behind in the hearts of those that came to know him. He made me want to be a better person. May his memory forever live on through his family, who he cherished.

Kristin Cheney

April 13, 2019

I remember, as a little girl, always looking for this man at any family gathering- in my eyes and heart he was peace. He was a hero to me long before I understood he is an actual Hero to this Country and to his family, friends and community. Even still 52 years later he is a beacon of peace and love to me - A blessing he will always be

Memory Eternal +++ Sir! God rest your soul!

Sadie Klotz

April 11, 2019

William Clement

April 11, 2019

I met Neil in 2002 when he became the Director of the NSF Grant for the Advanced Technology Center for Tidewater Community College. I worked with him on other college initiatives until he "retired" from working at TCC.

I have always admired his friendliness and sense of humor and he took interest in always asking me about my family throughout the years.

I believe he is truly one of the good people one can have the pleasure of meeting in their life. My heart goes out to his family for their loss but I think they will be comforted in knowing what a really good man he was.

Kenneth Fougere

April 11, 2019

I knew Neil through emails and had hoped to meet him personally this year. He certainly was a man to admire. Harriett and I send our condolences to the family along with heartfelt thoughts to our good friends Nancy and Dave Maidrand.

Dr. Kenneth and Harriett Fougere

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14

Visitation

2:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m.

McDonald-Finnegan-Anderson Funeral Home - Stoneham

322 Main Street, Stoneham, MA 02180

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15

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11:00 a.m.

First Congregational Church

Church Street, Stoneham, MA

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322 Main Street, Stoneham, MA 02180

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