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Rafael Lehmann Obituary

LEHMANN, Rafael Schindler Age 27, of Newton Centre on Tuesday, September 29, 2009. Adored son of Rabbi Allan Lehmann and Joanne Schindler of Newton Centre. Beloved brother of Eliezer Schindler Lehmann. Loving fiancé of Sara Beth Berman of Coral Springs, FL. Devoted grandson, nephew, cousin and friend. Fifth year rabbinical student at Jewish Theological Seminary of America in Manhattan. Services at Temple Emanuel, 385 Ward St., Newton Centre on Wednesday, September 30 at 3:00pm. Burial at the Polonnoe Cemetery, Baker Street, West Roxbury. Shiva at his late residence in Newton Centre through Friday 12:00 noon. Remembrances may be made to Camp Ramah Darom, 6400 Powers Ferry Road NW, Atlanta GA 30339. Levine Chapels, Brookline 617-277-8300

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Published by Boston Globe on Sep. 30, 2009.

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Lanie Bergman

August 24, 2010

Allan and Joanne - Found this by accident. So sorry for your loss. Lanie Bergman

Isolt, David , Jacob Lea

August 16, 2010

I am so sorry

July 8, 2010

I only learned recently of Rafi's passing. I was very sad to hear of this. He was a really good guy and I am sad that he passed away so early. In my memory he will always be a young, smart, friendly, uplifting guy that made everyone smile. Please accept my deepest condolences.

Jacob Sichel, Age 12

October 10, 2009

I was saddened to see that Rafi had passed. He had touched me and all of my friends at Ramah. As a camper Rafi was who I and all of the other campers looked up to as a mensch. He lead an inspiring Havdalah and Friday night service every week. His powerful service leading was one of the reasons alot of kids came to camp and alot of parents sent their kids to camp.

Abby and Michael Brodie

October 4, 2009

We are so saddened by Rafi's passing. Our hearts go out to Rafi's family, and to Sara Beth at this difficult time. May his memory be for a blessing.

jill HIRSH

October 4, 2009

We are so sorry for your loss, words are really not enough to express our sorrow. Jill and Reuben Hirsh

October 3, 2009

Dear Joanne and Allan,
There are many comforting words written to offer to those who lose a parent. But, finding a combination of words that say something to ease the pain of having lost a child has eluded the greatest of writers. We offer you what we would offer if we were entering your home on a shiva call, a handshake, the warmth of a sharing hug, our tears and the sweetness of your understanding how much we care and share your pain.
In friendship and love,
Stephanie and Evans Reitman-Swiss, Jacksonville, Fl

Jamie & Richard Morris

October 2, 2009

Allan, Joanne, and Eli;
We were shocked and saddened to learn of your loss. We have memories of the warmth and closeness of your family from our time in Gainesville. Our hearts are heavy with this news. Our deepest sympathies to you, your family, his fiancee, friends, and all those whose lives he touched.

October 1, 2009

Joanne and Allan,

We are so very sorry to hear of your sudden and incomprehensible loss. When we first met Rafi when he was 5, he was already sweet, caring, funny, a real mensch. When so many other kids wanted nothing to do with our difficult son, Rafi stuck by him, a loyal friend. You must have been so proud of the fine young man he turned into. May his memory be for a blessing, and may you find comfort from the embrace of the many people whose lives and hearts Rafi touched.
All our love, Ellen Frankel and Herb Levine, Sarah and Les

October 1, 2009

Ramah is a big part of our kids lives and Rafi was a big part of Ramah. All 3 of our kid were touched by his kindness, and intellect. He will be missed. I hope knowing that brings a small measure of comfort at this very difficult time.
The Marks Family

Yishai Cohen

October 1, 2009

Terribly shocked and grieved by this tragic and sudden loss. Rafi was loved by everyone. I am honored to have known Rafi and be influenced by his optimistic love for life and all people.

Julie Steinberg

October 1, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. I will miss Rafi very much - he was a wonderful intern for our synagogue and a kind man. I will be praying for your family and Sara Beth.

Best Wishes,

Julie Steinberg (Hoboken, NJ)

jan salzman

October 1, 2009

what a shock...my deepest sympathies...i am so sorry....Jan Salzman

September 30, 2009

Joanne and Allan, our hearts are with you, trying to imagine how a mother and father get through this unspeakable grief. We know you are surrounded by enormous support from yours and Rafi's communities and trust that will provide some comfort. This terrible tragedy makes it difficult to say "baruch dayan ha'emet". We have heard what a lovely, sensitive, special young man Rafi was and we know he leaves gaping hole in the lives of the many he touched. Why his life was cut short is one of the mysteries to which there is no good answer.
Love, Betsy and David Teutsch

Cathy Owen

September 30, 2009

Joanne and Allan and Eli,
So many of us in Gainesville are at a loss for words at Rafi's totally untimely death. I will always remember him and you, his deeply loving family, as a special family that touched the hearts of Gainesville. And Rafi... though he moved out of the Gainesville world in his young adulthood, I can easily attach my images of him as a child and adolescent to the man of faith and love that he became. My heart goes out to you and to his fiancee. Elizabeth joins me in sending our deepest condolences. Fondly, Cathy Owen

Sarah Blumberg

September 30, 2009

May his memory be for a blessing. Hamakom Yinachem Etchem.

Dennis Shuman

September 30, 2009

I am so sorry.

Gary Greene

September 30, 2009

Judy and I are just heart broken. Certainly you and your family are in our prayers. May his memory be a blessing. Hamakom Yenachem eetchem betoch sha'arai Tzion ve Yerushalayim.

September 30, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with the family, JTS and B'nai Israel Congregation in Gainesville. Another shining star has joined the universe.
May you find peace in knowing what a wonderful legacy Rafi has left behind, his love of Torah!
Love,
Syl, Art, Michelle, Michael, Allison and Zoe
(Gainesville, Florida)

Elaine & Stephen Cohen

September 30, 2009

We are deeply saddened by the heart-breaking and untimely death of Rafi, who was so full of promise. May your profound grief be eased by the outpouring of love and support from family, friends and colleagues who mourn his loss with you at this deeply sad time.

Todd Berman

September 30, 2009

Nomi and I just heard the terrible news. HaMakom Yerachem Etchem Betoch Shaarei Avelei Tzion Ve'Yerushalayim.

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