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Hedrick Smith
December 31, 2019
Dear Josh and family
`I Am so sorry to learn of Bob's death only now, when my annual Christmas/Channukah card to Bob and Penny came back from Hanover, NH undelivered.
Your dad Bob was such a life force, so full of irrepressible mirth and creativity, such joy in living that it is impossible to imagine his voice and his energy stilled.
Engaging with Bob and Penny was always fun, always led to some unpredictable prank, laughter, hugging and more laughter. Whatever Bob touched, he changed for the better. He was like Old faithful, shooting off with something new every 80 seconds, most of it - tough he would be the first to admit, not all of it - was good and worthy of implementing. And what was amazing about Bob was how much he implemented. He was always off on some new project, some new target, trying out some new idea.
I met him more than 50 years ago when he was the director of training for the Peace corps under Sarge Shriver. if my memory is correct. That assignment epitomized Bob: Education, improvement, opening up new worlds and potential for other people - that wa this DNA. And no educational challenge was too big or too tough for Bob to tackle. I remember his pride (when he headed Boston Latin High school) at the inspiring and heartwarming stories of inner city minority kids surprising themselves as well as their elders with what they could accomplish. typical of Bob, the fun he got out of seeing others succeed.
We had so many funny experiences. I remember coming to visit your folks in Rockport with Susan Zox, then my fiancé but not yet my wife . As you well know, your folks had a rule against unmarried couples overnighting in their home, undoubtedly aimed at restraining their own sons. But here was an old friend with a new paramour arriving on his doorstep at age 52 hoping for a room at the Binswanger Inn. He blinked - blinking in a big way was Bob's way of expressing astonishment and buying time for a quick decision - and then immediately welcomed us to their beautiful home overlooking the rocks and the seacoast. As I recall, he repaid us for our social impertinence by short-sheeting our beds the first night and then he hiding either my underwear or Susan's, just to remind us that just because we were allowed to spend a night or two as an unmarried cokuple did not exempt us from other Binswanger traditions.
In addition to his deliciously mischievous sense of humor, what I remember most about Bob is his devotion to family - his patient and tender and prolonged care of Penny with her health problems, his love and commitment to you, his sons, and then, Good Lord, the commitment to family symbolized by family photos in Christmas cards that grew from large group assemblies in single frames, to double frames, to triptychs and beyond. Oh my god, ' say when we'd receive the holiday greeting cards each December, how many more Binswagers did they add this year?
I'd write more but I am still in shock at learning of Bob's death, so many months after the fact. I remember both Bob and Penny so fondly and know how much of a loss you feel now. I send sympathy, condolences, and also congratulations of having had such a wonderful, spirited, important, inventive, and life-loving father.
With great affection,'
Rick (Hedrick) Smith
PS please email me at hedrick [email protected], so we can get directly in touch.
Faridah Abdul-Tawwab
June 30, 2019
My deepest condolences to the entire family. I remember Dr. Binswanger fondly from my years at Boston Latin Academy ( Class of 1993). Though I knew nothing of his impressive body of work and accomplishments while I was a student, it was clear to me even then, that he was a caring and witty headmaster and a powerful advocate for a more rigorous and intellectually stimulating institution. May G-d reunite him with his wife in Paradise and cover his family with mercy.
Rob Schnelle
April 22, 2019
Uncle Robert was a man in motion. He was surely well read, but I suspect he must have crammed in his sleep. Memory's eye features him simultaneously rolling on the carpet with kids; walking the dog(s) at a brisk pace; cooking a goose, a turkey, AND a partridge for Thanksgiving dinner; barreling down Rte. 128 in a gorilla mask with hands off the wheel; and laying down the law about turn-taking in Lexington's only garage-bound Sopwith Camel. A few more vignettes: bedded down with my cousins in a summer cottage near Rockport (1967?), when Robert shakes me awake--I'm to accompany him on a "secret mission." Five minutes later we're blasting over the pitch-black lake in an unseaworthy skiff, Robert laughing maniacally at the outboard tiller, me (appalled) clinging to the vertical prow. . . . Another scene: all the grandkids are gathered for a photo op at Grandpa Fritz's 70th birthday party. Between the back garden and Crystal Lake (in Newton Centre) run the Green Line trolley tracks. Robert passes the word that any child visible when a trolley car appears will instantly melt into the grass, which guarantees a mock-panicked exodus precisely as Andre Snow, an aged photographer hired for the occasion, is lining up his shot. This happens repeatedly; hilarity ensues. . . . Thirty years later, visiting Robert and Penny in Rockport, Lori and I show up at their door with seven-year-old Erik. Robert answers our knock by seizing the kid and shutting his door in our faces. When Penny appears, welcoming us with her peerless warmth, Erik and Robert are already thick as thieves, deep in discussion of candlepin bowling and a Dunkin' Donuts run. . . . I'm only scratching memory's surface here, of course. Robert's connection with youth was vastly entertaining over the decades I knew him. At the same time, I'm not really doing justice to his sincere generosity. I recall being engaged in my first Socratic dialogue at the Lexington house one weekend. I'd been assigned an 8th-grade composition on the historical significance of Jesus, and Robert (who, incidentally, consulted for the Catholic church) not only saved my skin but impressed on me (what I now understand as) the incomplete nature of knowledge and the value of humanistic inquiry. Generosity it was, again, that prompted Uncle Robert to visit my New Hampshire boarding school during a rough patch of adolescent rebellion. Don't challenge the authorities directly, he counseled. Write a clever satire in the school newspaper. Show them how inventive you can be. . . . Robert's commitment to showing up for family taught me a lesson in manhood. I think his commitment speaks to a kindly nature, to a set of qualities that were sometimes less apparent than others within the force field of Robert's kinetic, capacious personality. . . . Yes, we stand on the shoulders of giants.
JACK & Angene WILSON
April 20, 2019
Our condolences to the entire Binswanger Family.
In the spring of 1965 at lunch in Cleveland Bob offered Jack a job with PACE and listed on a napkin ten reasons we should move to Cleveland and assist with strengthening the educational systems of the metropolitan area. He had a thousand ideas and the passion to get most of them implemented. We did and moved into the planned integrated section of Shaker Heights on the opposite side of town from the the all white Lakewood where Angene had grown up. It was Jack's first real job after graduate school and two years in the Peace Corps in Liberia. Bob had been our PC training officer. Bob was a true education visionary, a teaching boss, and an all around wonderful man. I consider it great privilege to have known and worked for him.
Linda Mulley
April 4, 2019
I just read of Dr. Binswanger's passing and send sincere condolences to his family and friends. I have one small story to share. In the late 90's, I had several encounters with him that were life-changing for me and, in retrospect, informative in every way of him, how truly special he was. I was among several candidates to teach a special education course at Dartmouth College and, on the basis of resumes, I was by far the least "qualified" of that group. Even so, after a long breakfast at Lou's Restaurant and, I'm sure, more research on his part, he hired me for this position. He simply said he was simply sure I was the best candidate for the job. He mentored me through much of the first year and checked in on me through ensuing years. His kindness and gentle humor will never be forgotten.
John and Tiffani Milner
April 3, 2019
Dear Josh and family, please accept our condolences. Your Dad will be truly missed. He was one of a kind and truly a wonderful man. We are sending you and all of your family our prayers, love and hugs. John and Tiffani
Najam Haider
April 3, 2019
Dr. Binswanger was one of the most important influences in my life. He was the best teacher I had at Dartmouth and then he supported me through every stage of my academic career. He helped me secure a Fulbright in 1997, then kept in touch through the years as I went through grad school and got a job. He even bought me my academic robes after my phd program, saying that he wanted me to remember him every time I wore them. I continue to think of him each year at graduation. A few years ago I was lucky enough to have the chance for my wife to meet Dr. Binswanger and Penny. I am heartbroken to hear of his passing.
Richard Eyster
April 3, 2019
Robert, I never knew you but I was warmly familiar with much of your DNA....and the nurture you had devoted to extending the gifts of your nature. Your son and grandson are exceptional human beings bright, articulate, funny, and richly generous. Everyone who passes after such a visionary and benevolent life will be sorely missed but even more surely, they will be remembered....and reflected and refracted in the way the coming generations modify the light they receive and transmit. For all that you did in education from the grand things seen to the subtle shift in lives changed I and all of us who teach honor you. - Richard Eyster
Diana Ulman
April 1, 2019
Dear Morgan,Lou and I send our love to you and your family. We loved reading about your dad and wish we had had the opportunity to have known him. His spirit certainly lives on in you and your brothers. As we read about him we were reminded of your wonderful traits and accomplishments as well. Thinking of you and sending strength. Love,Diana Ulman
April 1, 2019
"Bins" was one of a kind, a great friend. I treasure my memories of him, bless you Bob.
Judy (and Bill) Breed
Gb
March 31, 2019
May the God who "binds up the brokenhearted" and "comforts all who mourn," strengthen you during this difficult time. Isaiah 61:1, 2. May you hold love and treasured memories close to your heart. God has heard your prayers and has seen your tears (2Kings 20:5). Offering my deepest condolences
Paul Kirk
March 31, 2019
Ben and Family,
My deepest sympathy to all upon learning of the death of your Dad. In addition to the memories of his family love, may his remarkable career and inspirational life of service provide comfort and pride in all the days ahead.
Please also know of my prayers for his eternal peace with your Mom and for your strength during this time of loss.
March 31, 2019
My deepest condolences to family and friends for the loss of your loved one. May you find comfort and peace from the God of all comfort in his words at Job 33:25.
BM
March 29, 2019
Dr. Binswanger will always hold a special place in my heart! I am Carol Kiernan Class of 1991 Boston Latin Academy. Dr. Binswanger helped me through the most difficult time of my life! My prayers are with your family during this difficult time and I promise to help your legacy live on!
March 29, 2019
Boston Latin has never had a majority of minority students in all its years from 160's t0 now. Dr. Binswanger did try to expand the number of minorities students but was shackled by the test exams. He was a gentleman who wanted the best for his charges.
March 29, 2019
We are saddened to learn of the passing of Robert but grateful for his service to our nation, including his service during the early days of the Peace Corps.
Our Condolences,
The National Peace Corps Association
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