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REV. ROBERT J. BUTLER

1936 - 2024

REV.  ROBERT J. BUTLER obituary, 1936-2024, Boston, MA

BORN

1936

DIED

2024

ROBERT BUTLER Obituary

BUTLER, Rev. Robert J. Age 88, of Boston, on October 21, 2024, in Boston. Son of the late Matthew and Katherine (Morrison) Butler. Brother of the late Charles Butler, Matthew Butler, Mary Mullaney and Rev. Richard J. Butler. Uncle, great-uncle and great-granduncle to many nieces and nephews who will always remember his boundless kindness, great sense of fun, Mass in the backyard, skiing, sailing, running road races, playing games, telling jokes and deep unwavering faith. He lived by his own advice, "know God, know God loves you and share that love with others." Father Butler was born in Boston with his twin brother, Rev. Richard J. Butler, on May 8, 1936. He attended Boston Latin School and later St. John's Seminary. He was ordained with his twin brother on February 2, 1962, at Holy Cross Cathedral by Cardinal Cushing. He offered his first Mass on February 4, 1962, at Our Lady of Mercy Church in Belmont. Father Butler's assignments have included St. Mary of the Nativity, Scituate (1962-1964), Chaplain, Trinity Academy, Watertown (1964), St. Philip, South End of Boston (1964-1966), St. Patrick, Stoneham (1966-1969), Graduate study, Boston College School of Social Work, Sacred Heart, Newton Centre (1969-1971, in-residence), Staff, Family Counseling Services at the North Shore office (1969-1971), St. Athanasius, Reading (1971-1985, in-residence), Immaculate Conception, Salem (1985-1986, in-residence), St. Mary Parish in Hull (May 13, 1986, pastor) and St. Joseph Parish in Pepperell (January 5, 1993, pastor). Fr. Butler was granted senior priest/retirement status on June 1, 2006. Thereafter, he began serving at St. Agatha Parish in Milton. After St. Agatha's, Father Butler began living at Regina Cleri. He celebrated his golden jubilee in February 2012 with his twin brother at St. John Chrysostom Church in West Roxbury. The family would like to express deep thanks for the loving care from the Regina Cleri staff. A concelebrated Funeral Mass will be held at Saint Joseph Church, 68 William Cardinal O'Connell Way, Boston, on Tuesday, October 29, at 11:00 AM. Relatives and friends are kindly invited to attend. Fr. Butler will lie in state at St. Joseph Church prior to the Mass from 9:30-10:30 AM. Interment in Fairview Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Clergy Trust, 66 Brooks Drive, Braintree, MA. To leave the Butler family a condolence message, please visit www.dolanfuneral.com

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Published by Boston Globe from Oct. 23 to Oct. 27, 2024.

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Barbara DiVito

October 30, 2024

Father Butler was with us here in Hull at St, Mary of the Assumption Church.
May he rest in peace.
Barbara DiVito & Family

Dolo Tighe

October 29, 2024

Father Bob was one of our closest friends. He concelebrated at our wedding so many years ago. Bob was Godfather to our third daughter, frequent visitor and life long friend. Be with Mike now, Bob. He will welcome you.

RobertCarney

October 26, 2024

Fr. Bob was the priest in my hometown of Pepperell. He was the first priest I got to know well, and he had a great sense of humor. In fact, when my family grabbed a seat for Christmas Eve Mass years ago, the choir leader tried to convince me to come up and sing in the youth choir with my brother and sister. Because I was a 15-year old who knew how to talk back and because I had a very bad singing voice, I said "If you'll give me a million dollars!" The choir director and I had some friendly banter, and then I turned to my left and saw Fr. Bob at the ambo. My heart skipped a few beats before I saw him smiling and laughing! That's when I learned that priests have a sense of humor as well. He came up to me and my parents and engaged in some friendly banter himself.
Eternal rest grant unto him and let perpetual light shine upon him.

Sister Roberta

October 23, 2024

Dear Kathy and all the family, my heart and prayers are with you! May you know God´s comfort and peace! One of the wonderful gifts Bob gave me was introducing me to all of you. I will miss him dearly. I will be with you in spirit on the 29th

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Lying in State

9:30 a.m. - 10:30 a.m.

Saint Joseph Church

68 William Cardinal O'Connell Way, Boston, MA

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29

Funeral Mass

11:00 a.m.

Saint Joseph Church

68 William Cardinal O'Connell Way, Boston, MA

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