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Brian
November 23, 2004
11/22/04
In this lifetime, we take too much for granted. My Birthday as a few of you may know falls on this upcoming Sunday, November 28th. I’ve never asked for much in terms of material possessions, so nothing will change this year. I had wanted the Lord of the Rings Trilogy, or a new car. I no longer want any of these things, and the same goes Christmas. I all want is my Uncle Bobby back home. He was the oldest of eight children. He raised to beautiful children in Ashley and Nicholas with his unbelievably strong and even more so loving wife, Johanna. Ashley is an exceptional hard worker earning every last one of her A’s and high honors; Nick is one of the quickest and wittiest kids I know. But the most admirable thing of all is the amazing number of friends he has, not just acquaintances, but actual friends. At a Benefit for Uncle Bob, several weeks back I couldn’t have been more astonished at the numbers of people that were already there as I made my way into the room, of course I knew he was well loved, but this was an exceptional number. Although I wasn’t always with him, it is my belief that he made friends anywhere and everywhere he traveled. He gave you a sense of relief, familiarity, comfort, compassion. He made you feel very much at home. I don’t think I ever found a more easy going person to talk to – and he listened to every word you had to say as if it mattered. One of his biggest passions was golf and food, that man could cook. There isn’t a person gathered here today that hasn’t either had the privilege of being served his home cooked meals or at least heard of them. The man would cook food for days and all he would be worried about is if you’re full or pleased with what you are eating. He would never worry about himself. It was an absolute pleasure for anyone to be invited over to the Commito’s house for any occasion. I mean, what’s better than great food and even better company. All I can say is that it has become an absolute tragedy that this man’s recipes for making the best food known to western civilization have become lost. Uncle Bobby was uncanny when it came to exposing news of others. He was always grilling me on who was the latest girl I was bringing home; if I was bringing them home at all, how many girlfriends I had or the lack thereof, and many times it was indeed none. Right after he had his surgery, at our Uncle David’s house where we were celebrating his fifty-second birthday party, he got out of the car and the first words spoken from his mouth were, “Hey, where’s Liz?” Liz, being a girl that I was spending a lot of time with at Salem State; he had gone to Salem State as had many of my Aunts and Uncles. My Aunt had leaked news to him that I was hanging out with her and the first thing he wanted to do was meet her and talk, probably make some food and more than likely talk about me cause he could boost anyone’s ego; this never being a great thing to do with me. That was the last time I had a chance to see him. Never, did I think that would be our last chance. I was over the house the Friday before he passed and he was sleeping, so I stayed for about three hours hoping to get a chance to see him, I spent time with Ashley and Nick before I headed off to work. "He's a legend in his own mind”, something he would always say to when I got too out of control or full of myself – Big Bobby C. as I used to call him sometimes. He was always laughing, always smiling, always joyful and happy, always upbeat and enjoying the company of friends, family and food alike. He will be loved and missed by anyone and everyone who knew him. Even by those who knew him for a brief moment in time.
joanne kenney
November 23, 2004
I am so deeply saddened to hear of Bobby's illness & passing~I knew you
& Bob from Macy's corner in Medford.
Bob was always an upstanding person even back in those wild days,Bob was always one of the "good guys". I will keep Bob & you all in my prayers.
Thomas Donnelly
November 23, 2004
Dear Johanna and family,
Kim and I are sorry for the loss of your husband. God Bless!
The Donnelly's
Keri Nunes
November 23, 2004
New Day
I cannot feel the pain you bear,
Nor the emptiness that comes with losing someone dear,
I do not know how many times you have wept,
How many dreamless nights you have slept,
I see, though, that you are in mourning,
Of a cherished soul that left before the day’s dawning,
My dear heart, I weep too,
In my prayers, I place you.
He hasn’t fully passed away,
Believe me, he’s with you everyday,
As long as he’s your treasured stone,
His love will comfort you when in pain you groan,
He takes every step you take,
Though his reflection may not appear on the face of a lake,
Like true soul mates you are,
He’ll be your guiding star.
Don’t you worry, he didn’t sleep alone,
The angels were there to guard their own,
That is why you should smile,
With your fate, you should reconcile,
Maybe his departure is a sign,
Maybe he is your passing angel, your future vine,
Bleed no more, you will be blessed,
You will be seen through this difficult test.
Your in my thoughts and prayers. Keep your chin up!!
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Conary Family
November 23, 2004
How saddened we were to learn of your loss. Bob was loved by so many and he will be dearly missed. Please accept our hearfelt condolences and be assured that our prayers are with you in your time of sorrow.
Elsie Ennamorati & family Ennamorati
November 23, 2004
Johanna & Family,
It is so very hard to accept the death of a loved one, and life just seems to stand still. Keep your faith, keep on praying...it's all part of God's will. I hope you experience the peace and euphoria
that often follows the loss of a loved one, and know your husband/father is at home in your hearts and with Jesus.
Tom Richer
November 23, 2004
Johanna, Ashley, Nick,
I am sorry to hear about your loss. Bob was a special guy and well thought of by all who knew him. I will see you Tuesday.
Anne & Tom Richer & family
Kristina Ryder
November 22, 2004
Johanna & Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts & prayers are with you and your family & friends.
God Bless,
Kristina
karen campbell
November 22, 2004
I am so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts & prayers are with all of you. Karen & Billy
KENNETH J BOLIN
November 22, 2004
I'm very sorry for your loss.
I have only met him briefly
and it was a happy moment,so may your life be happy moments to put a smile on your face.
God Bless !!
Kevin O'Neil
November 22, 2004
Sorry for your loss. I will see you on Tuesday.
Joe McCabe
November 22, 2004
Sory to hear about your loss!
Thinking about you.
Patty St. Jean
November 22, 2004
Johanna, Ashley, and Nick,
We are so sorry for your loss.
Gary & Patty St. Jean
(McCullough)
Tiana Randrianary
November 22, 2004
I am sorry for the loss of your loved one. There is no right and comfort word to lighten your sorrow, but I am sure with time and prayer it will. May God bless you and your family in this time where everything seems dark and empty. With love, Tiana
Pauline Petersen
November 22, 2004
Now that I'm here, I cannot find the words. Too short a life for a heart so loving and giving. I shall miss my birthday-friend forever.
Judy McCullough
November 22, 2004
Bob will be missed very much. He always brought great humor to our family and his loving family attitude will always be remembered.
Michael DIPAOLA
November 22, 2004
You'll always be on my mind. PEACE
John DiPaola
November 22, 2004
My deepest sympathy goes out to his family. Bob is at peace now. Many will miss him.
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