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Robert Long Obituary

LONG, Dr. Robert E. 69, died on March 27, 2010 at his Hartford, CT. home of 32 years, surrounded by his loving family. Born in Boston on Nov. 21, 1940, Bob played drums w/t Hyde Park Crusaders; attended B.C. High, where he ran track; Boston State College, SGA president (B.S.); Boston College (M.S.); and Columbia University (Ed.D., Federal Fellow). He retired in 2001 as a long-time educator of the visually impaired, most recently in the Hartford Public Schools. He served on the Hartford Bd. of Ed., and Bd. of the Hartford Public Library. Most recently, he served as a Hospice volunteer. A dedicated father and "dad" to many, Bob also enjoyed reading, story-telling, sailing, wood carving, harmonica-playing, and camping. As a member of the Boston NAACP and a life-long advocate for social justice, he marched on Washington with Martin Luther King. He is survived by "the love of my life for 35 years," his wife, Gloria Gruber Long, his 6 children, Julie Misenti and her husband Nicholas, Jennifer Long and her wife Amy Ojerholm, Robert E. Long, Jr. and his wife Skye, Justin Long and his wife Rabbi Ariana Silverman, Colman Long and his wife Elsie Vazquez-Long, and Gannon Long; grandchildren, Kali Edwards and her husband Jeremy, and Zachary, Travis, and Forrest Misenti; and sisters, Nancy Long Seglin and her husband Jeffrey, Jeanne Long Berrigan, and his sister-in-law, Sachiko Long. He is also survived by several loving nephews and nieces, grand nieces and nephews, sisters- and brothers-in-law and cousins. A memorial service will be held on May 8, from 11:00-12:30, followed by visiting until 2:00, at Molloy Funeral Home, 906 Farmington Ave., West Hartford, CT. Online condolences may be offered at www.molloyfuneralhome.com Donations may be made to Foodshare (site.foodshare.org).

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Published by Boston Globe on May 5, 2010.

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Harriet Bronson

May 18, 2010

I was deeply sorry to read of Bob's passing in Sunday's papers. Bob was an extraordinary person. I met Bob while I working at Webster School and due of his warmth and because he always "kept it real," we developed a friendship and would talk whenever we met at 249 High Street. It's been years, but there are folks you don't forget.

Evelyn & Hernan LaFontaine

May 13, 2010

May 13, 2010

Dear Gloria,

We have just returned from a trip and are deeply sorry to learn of Bob's passing away. Bob was a caring and giving individual who contributred so much throughout the years to the youth and community of Hartford. His presence was a vital and postive part of the city. He will be missed by all who knew him. We extend our deepest condolence to you and your family during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Marisa Futernick

May 12, 2010

I am so sorry to hear of your family's loss. I will always be grateful to Bob for creating a rowing program in that most unlikely of places, Hartford High. I have fond memories of piling into his Volvo station wagon and heading down to the river each afternoon after school. The crew team was a bright spot in an otherwise difficult four years. Now, rowing competitively here in the UK, I have Bob to thank for providing me with the opportunity to do something I would never have thought was open to me. Bob was a kind, gentle man and a very patient and dedicated coach. My thoughts are with all of you.

Dr. Lenzy R. Wallace Jr.

May 8, 2010

I deeply regret the passing of my friend Bob Long. Bob and I worked very closely together along with our team on the project called Readers As Leaders. We had a great deal of respect for each other and mutually enjoyed the comradeship of working this project. He will be sorely missed by me and I dare say our other team members as well. Rest at peace Bob. My heart goes out to the family.
Dr. Lenzy R. Wallace Jr.

Jacquelyn Hardy

May 7, 2010

To Gloria and family: Dr. Long was such a rare and wonderful man who gave so much to the Hartford community. He was a champion for children and a caring voice for those in need. We were blessed to share his spirit. Thinking of you prayerfully...Jackie Hardy

May 7, 2010

Dear Long Family,

Our deepest sympathies are with you and your family after hearing of your recent loss.

If we can be of any help throughout this difficult time, please just let us know.

With all our love,
Elba Calixto, Raul Calixto
Vincent Creer and Bianca Creer

Michael Perez

May 6, 2010

Michael and I are very sadden to here about Mr. Long. He was such a wonderful man and a great spirit. He will always be remembered as such.

Are thoughts and prayers are with all of you....

Michael and Denise Perez

Steve Albro

May 5, 2010

Dear Gloria and Family,
Bob helped me when I got out of BC. He would give me a ride to the Guild (Carroll Center)while I was getting on my feet in mobility. Of greater value the commute was the mentoring and the sharing of his experience that made breaking into the field easier. That was the way Bob always lived his life. I am saddened at his passing. My prayers are with you.

May 4, 2010

To the Long's Family. May his soul rest in peace. From Yannie Coley, HCA from the VNA Health Care, Hartford, Ct.

Denise Smith

May 3, 2010

Dear Gloria and Family,

Bob will truly be remembered as a special influence in the lives of the visually impaired community in Hartford. He is truly resting in a better place, and out of pain. I am so sorry I won't be able to attend the service on Saturday, I have a previous committment with my son. I will be with you in spirit and prayer. Gloria we miss you at work, I'll be a listening ear should you need me when you return. Share my sympahties with Lydia as well.

Sincerely,

Rachel Leclerc

May 2, 2010

Dear Long family,
Bob was truly one of a kind and a champion for all of the children in Hartford. As a fellow educator, I was blessed to work with Bob for many years in Hartford. As a fellow sailor, I enjoyed sailing the "yellow banana" with Bob and telling tales of the sea.
My deepest sympathy to the Long family.

Rachel Taylor

May 1, 2010

Gannon, Colman, and Justin, I'm so sorry to hear about your dad. He was such an omnipresence at HPHS that it's hard to imagine walking the hallways there without running into him. His spirit there and in Hartford will remain in all the lives he touched.

Christine Davis

April 30, 2010

Justin,
I'm so sorry for your loss.

Kathryn Sullivan

April 30, 2010

Gloria,
I'm sorry for the loss of your husband. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Marcia Klepper-Smith

April 30, 2010

I will always remember Bob as a gentle light radiating out to anyone and everyone, all inclusive, "no holds barred". I have rarely met a person who had such a gift of immediate heart connection as Bob had. He also somehow made the heaviest burdens lighter, and such an ability to bring forth a smile, even into the saddest places! His nature simply drew out the strengths, and the gifts of others. I know now that the circle of his light went to places farther than our human eyes can see. I have no doubt that his spirit will live powerfully on in those of us who were blessed to know him.
Marcia Klepper-Smith
fellow "bird on a wire" and Chaplain MMH

Diana Lucci

April 29, 2010

To the Long and Misenti Families, I am truly sorry for your loss. Remember all of the wonderful memories that you shared together. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this difficult time.

Pat Lerch

April 29, 2010

Dear Gloria and family,

I don't have to tell you what a special person he was... The world is better for his having been in it. Please accept my sincerest condolences.

Jim Coleman

April 29, 2010

Gloria, my thoughts and prayers are with you and the whole family. Bob was a tremendous influence and blessing in my life as he was with so many others. My deepest condolences.

Reina Cabrera

April 29, 2010

Thank you for all you did for us HPHS kids. I will always remember you as a kind and gentle man - you did not yell when I crashed the shell into the dock. I hope you knew how much you affected the lives of the kids that were welcomed into your presence and home. Rest in Peace.

Chaplain Patty Naegeli

April 29, 2010

As a hospice spiritual care volunteer, Bob touched those in his care in the deepest, most spiritual way. He will remain in the hearts and memories of countless people who were comforted by his wisdom and presence, including myself. I will always hold him in a very special place in my heart. He made a profound difference in his world. My thoughts and heart are with you Gloria and family.

Tracy Gale

April 29, 2010

Gloria, Justin, Colman and Gannon, our thoughts are with you. Our lives were touched by Bob in so many ways. He helped us "fight the good fight" for Hartford and all its students. He will be missed. The Gales

Bildade Augustin

April 29, 2010

Kind hearted, jovial, and dedicated to his family. Our deepest and sincerest condolences.

Linda Horan

April 29, 2010

Dear Gloria and Family,

My thoughts are with you at this sad time.

Linda Horan

Bruce Gale

April 29, 2010

I knew Bob as a fellow Hospice volunteer. He was a very compassionate man with a great sense of humor. He will be missed by all who knew him.

cheryl Dinnie

April 29, 2010

Gloria, i am so sorry for your loss. I can't come to the service because of a literacy field trip at Kennelly, but I'm there in spirit. .My thoughts are with you.

Steve Fournier

April 29, 2010

Beloved friend and neighbor. Love, honor and courage personified. We're sad that he's gone, but happy we had him. The Fourniers

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