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ROBERT SAMUEL NEDDER Sr.

ROBERT SAMUEL NEDDER Sr. obituary, Medfield, MA

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ROBERT NEDDER Obituary

NEDDER, Robert Samuel Sr. Retired Dedham Police Officer, of Medfield, passed away peacefully at his home on September 1st, 2021. Bob was the son of Joseph and Rose Nedder and grew up in Milton, MA. He was a graduate of Providence College and received a Master's degree in Criminal Justice from AIC. He was also a veteran of the Air Force and was stationed in Germany during his time of service, as an International Interceptor for Security. Bob, also known as "Kojak,' was a beloved Dedham Police officer for 31 years. During that time, he served as the Juvenile Officer/Prosecutor for Dedham and was known fondly for his thousands of hours directing traffic behind the Dedham Mall on Incinerator Road. Bob received many accolades for his work, including the Lions Award, the Grangers Award, Citizen of Excellence Award, Police Officer of the Year Award, and the Award for Dedication to Dedham Students given by the Dedham School Committee. Bob was devoted to his family, his beloved bride of 55 years Janet, his three sons, and most especially, his adored eight grandchildren. His Sunday morning calls to each and every grandchild was something they all looked forward to and now treasure. Bob is survived by his wife Janet Nedder of Medfield, his son Joe Nedder and wife Antonia Nedder of Needham, son Robert Nedder, Jr. of Dedham, son Arthur Nedder and wife Marcy Nedder of Glastonbury, CT, and his grandchildren Katharine Nedder, Victoria Nedder, Joseph Nedder, Samantha Nedder, Cassandra Nedder, Sabrina Nedder, Katie Nedder, and Mikayla Nedder. He is also survived by his sister Edwina Dirk of Cathedral City, CA and many beloved cousins. Visiting Hours will be held in the Eaton Funeral Home, 1351 Highland Ave., NEEDHAM, on Friday, September 10th from 4-8. Relatives and friends are kindly invited to attend. A Mass of Christian Burial will be held in Saint Bartholomew Church, 1180 Greendale Avenue, Needham, on Saturday, September 11th at 10:30am. Interment with Military Honors will follow at Knollwood Memorial Park in Canton. Please note that all attendees are asked to wear a mask and follow Covid guidelines. To share a memory of Bob, please visit www.eatonfuneralhomes.com Eaton Funeral Home 781-444-0201

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Published by Boston Globe from Sep. 5 to Sep. 8, 2021.

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Terri Brooks

September 7, 2021

My heart is so saddened to hear of Bobby's (Kojak) passing. He was such a wonderful person and I am so very grateful to have had the pleasure of knowing him and as a result, meeting his wonderful family. My sincerest condolences to Janet and family at this truly sad time. He was one of the best. RIP Bob.

Ernesto Lijoi

September 6, 2021

RIP my old friend....

Kathleen McGillicuddy

September 5, 2021

I would really like to share a wonderful story about Officer Nedder. Back in 1993 we had a blizzard and the roads were closed. My sister was in the hospital with ovarian cancer. We had called the police department to ask if someone could come and over and plow the street as my dad needed to get to the hospital. Twenty five minutes later Officer Nedder showed up at our house and personally drove my father to Brigham and Women´s in Boston to see his daughter. Officer Nedder made it possible for for my father to be there when my sister took her last breath. Officer Nedder even came to my sisters wake to offer his condolences. He will always have a special place in her hearts! Thoughts and prayers are with him and his family during this difficult time.

Joanne Camer

September 5, 2021

Although I did not know him personally nor did he know me, he was a gentle giant, kind, loving and respectful to all . May he Rest In Peace with Architect of the Universe

Cheryl (Smigliani) Swyers

September 5, 2021

A tremendous mentor and friend with a work ethic like no other. My most sincere condolences BJ, to you and the family.

James E Sullivan

September 5, 2021

Still miss him directing traffic into the dedham mall. Larger than life. Rest in Peace.

Ken Jones

September 4, 2021

My heart felt condolences on the passing of Bob. By far, one of the greatest men I´ve had the pleasure of knowing.

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Eaton Funeral Home

1351 Highland Avenue, Needham, MA 02492

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11

Mass of Christian Burial

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St. Bartholomew Church

1180 Greendale Ave., Needham, MA 02492

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