Search by Name

Search by Name

ROBERT WATTS THORNBURG

1927 - 2013

ROBERT WATTS THORNBURG obituary, 1927-2013, Boston, MA

ROBERT THORNBURG Obituary

THORNBURG, Robert Watts Dean Emeritus of Boston University, passed away at his winter home in Estero, Florida, on December 29th. Robert was born on October 10, 1927, in Chicago. He graduated from DePauw University with graduate study at Garrett Theological Seminary at Northwestern University and at Union Seminary at Columbia University and received honorary Doctorate Degrees from DePauw University and Illinois Wesleyan University. He joined his father and his twin brother as an ordained United Methodist (UMC) Minister, serving parish churches in Chicago, Northbrook and Peoria, Illinois, before becoming the Associate General Secretary of the UMC Board of Higher Education and Ministry. While in Chicago, the Chicago Chamber of Commerce named him one of their Ten Outstanding Young Men. During the 1960s and 70s he was an active leader in human and civil rights, chairing the Human Rights Commission in Peoria, Illinois. From 1978 until his retirement in 2001, Robert was Dean of Marsh Chapel at Boston University, with responsibility for the religious activities at the University, as well as serving on the faculty of the School of Theology. For 23 years he was the voice of Marsh Chapel on Sunday morning on WBUR. During the 1980s he became a nationally recognized expert on destructive religious cults through writings, speeches and work with cult members and their families. His love of sports made him a major fan of the BU Basketball team, traveling with them to virtually every game. The University honored him with his induction into Phi Beta Kappa and the Scarlet Key award. During his 50-year career he received many honors and awards, but he was most proud of the Thornburg 1 jersey given to him by the BU Basketball team. Throughout his life he served as a trustee of numerous other charitable, religious and educational organizations, often in leadership roles. Bob was known for his passion for his work and his love of people always looking at the bright side of life and the good in everyone. As John Silber, the BU President said, The problem with you, Thornburg, is that youre a congenital optimist. His greatest love was for his family, including gatherings in their Boston, Berkshires, and New Hampshire homes along with great reunion trips for the children and grandchildren he often called them his investment in memories. When Bobs mobility became more limited, he enjoyed regular Facebook communication with his grandchildren and a wide circle of friends including many former Boston University students. Along the Boston waterfront he was always recognized in his wheelchair on his daily walks with his dogs. He is survived by his second wife of 35 years, Ann, his twin brother Richard (Peabody, MA) and his sister Mary Cooper (Rochester, NY); his children, Beth Thornburg (Ashland City, TN), Rob Thornburg (Allentown, PA), Judy Zimmerman (Franklin, TN), Anne Mann (Eugene, OR); 8 grandchildren and 3 great grandchildren; his first wife Carol Thornburg (Nashville, TN); and his faithful canine companions, Queen and Princess Bean. A private service for the family was held in Florida. A memorial service will be held on February 15th at 1 p.m. at Marsh Chapel at Boston University (735 Commonwealth Avenue, Boston). The family requests that in lieu of flowers memorial contributions can be made to the Animal Rescue League of Boston or a charity of the donors choice. Condolences may be expressed online at www.shikanyfuneralhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Boston Globe from Jan. 6 to Jan. 7, 2014.

Memories and Condolences
for ROBERT THORNBURG

Not sure what to say?





6 Entries

Orchard Outing with Classmates - Circa 1978

Paula Peterson

October 5, 2015

Dear Ann,
I just learned of Dean Thornburg's passing. He was a wonderful man who generously shared his wisdom and wit with so many students and friends, including myself.
I was so happy to have visited with him the last time I visited Boston.
I hope you are doing well and I send you my best,
Paula

Bob, his dogs, his wife Ann and their dog walker Mr. Chip

Linda Gottlieb

February 6, 2014

Kathy Howe

January 10, 2014

I knew "Dean T" while I was a student @ MIT in the late 80s/early 90s. Marsh Chapel and that big white house in Brookline became homes away from home for this TX gal. Of special memory is Thanksgiving dinners. He cooked a mean meal :-) and always made all of us who were far away from our families feel welcome and at home (and I still think of him each Thanksgiving as my timing is often off and I remember his spreadsheet and smile :-). Another fond memory for me was his officiating at our wedding in Pacific Grove CA in 2000. We had to work around the BU basketball schedule (of course! :-) (It was a late fall wedding) but he was the key to a memorable day for me and my husband. Everyone commented about how memorable the service was for them too and about how thoughtful and inclusive he was (our wedding party was very diverse: a Jew, a Hindu, a Christian, a Buddhist, and a few agnostics). He was a special man, mentor, and friend -- he made a *huge* difference in my life :-) -- and I will miss him. My deepest condolences to each of you, his beloved family. He always spoke so highly and lovingly of each of you -- I felt like I knew you even though we've never met.

January 9, 2014

My deepest sympathy to the family of Dean Thornburg.
He will be truly missed by his friends at Boston
University.

Janet Comppen
Retired Boston University employee

January 8, 2014

Dear All, We send our sympathy on the death of your Dad. We have lots of good memories of all of your family. Sincerely with our love, Douglas & JoAnne Temple

carol reaves

January 7, 2014

thank you for the fond memories of part of my childhood.

Showing 1 - 6 of 6 results

Make a Donation
in ROBERT THORNBURG's name

Please consider a donation as requested by the family.

Memorial Events
for ROBERT THORNBURG

Feb

15

Memorial service

1:00 p.m.

Marsh Chapel at Boston University

735 Commonwealth Avenue, Boston, MA 2125

How to support ROBERT's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor ROBERT THORNBURG's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more